June 2018 Babies

[ladydolly]

Looks like I'm the first one here! A thread for those with babies due in June 2018.

Dt2016 I'm so so sorry. Nothing prepares you for that horrible feeling, and the loss and grief you feel. So sorry you're going through this. I hope you're being looked after xx

Really sorry to hear that @DT2016

dt2016 I'm so sorry. I hope things work out for you soon. X

DT2016 I am so so sorry. It's the toughest thing and the biggest dread

I'm glad to read everybodies symptoms are up and down, my MW ap is tomorrow - hopefully she can point me in the forection of more of an accurate due date.

Such a long time till the scans ahhhhh

I missed quite a bit of the thread over the WE. but what's the Facebook group? I need to do the spreadsheet and join the FB group (my Facebook is purely for my bridal hair business but would like to get involved) xx

@DT2016 I am SO sorry to read your sad news. Sending you loads of love and I hope you're getting lots of support xxxx

@DT2016, so sorry. Thinking of you x

@DT2016 I’m so sorry to read this. Take care of yourself.

LJFM the MW might book you in for a dating scan if you can’t accurately pinpoint your Lmp.

DT2016 Im so sorry :( xxxx
My tests are negative too now, So im leaving also. I've not started bleeding but i have no idea what's happened. Very confusing. goodluck with your pregnancies xx

Oh @BlueeSpottyTiger I'm so sorry 😢 Why does it have to be this hard. Sending you loads of love xx

@BlueeSpottyTiger @DT2016 so sorry to hear your bad news!

Posted before I finished!

Meant to say look after yourselves, and got my fingers crossed for you both that it happens soon!

BlueeSpottyTiger nooo! This is so sad 😨 I'm so sorry to hear this about another pregnancy! So unfair.

MynameisJune I haven't had a period since my MC and wasn't tracking ovulation (as didn't think it would happened straight after) so literally no way of telling so really tough.

blue I’m so sorry your tests are negative now, can you call your local EPU and see if they can fit you in for a scan to see what is going on. Is there any chance that you’re further along than you thought? HPT won’t work after 10 weeks as the placenta takes over and HCG drops.

LJFM it sounds like they will give you a dating scan.

Blue, so sorry. but I agree with June, my clear blue says they don't work after 6 weeks post conception (so 8 weeks) or could be a dud test?

So sad to read these today.

Thank you @MagggieMay I'm covered in scratches and feel like my life now revolves around this creature who screams the place down if I put him in his bed or his playpen or even if he can't get up on the couch with me (where he then attacks me hands and feet). I feel so guilty for the little mite but I feel no love just a slight resentment that I have lost my last few months of freedom. And it's totally not his fault. I am considering seeing if he can go back or selling him on to somewhere he will be adored as he should be. I feel like the worst and I know family and friends are gonna judge me so bad but my health and baby have to come first. Ugh, emotional turmoil much?!

*my hands and feet!

Also I got two texts from MIL last night, the first one asking how the dog is, the second asking how DH is. Nevermind how I am or her potential second grandchild. Can't quite believe how she is being with me.

Good morning Ladies,
@DT2016 I'm so sorry, sending you big hugs and thinking of you.
Was reading up on the weekend chat sorry to hear some are going through a rough time with their dp/dh.
my symptoms are still strong. The weekend was rough but hey countdown until the scan on thursday when I will be 6 +2.
Keep your heads up ladies before we all know it 12week scans will be round the corner .

Bluespottytiger I'm so sorry you're going through this, I don't know how far along you are but others are right, get to your local Epu for help. Hope you've got lots of support xxx

So sorry DT2016 and Blue. It's so tough.

I'm in agony with my lower back today. Had a bit of pale pink spotting yesterday but that seems to have stopped. Now it's just back pain. I had spotting in both previous pregnancies, one of which ended in MMC, one of which ended in DD, who is now four. Nothing to do but wait, I guess. It's such a tough time, these early days!

@bluespottytiger like others suggested the epu might be able to give a broader picture as to why your hpt came up negative. Wishing you luck and big hugs

I really hope this is the case for you blue if you contact your local EPU they will have advice xxx

@DT2016 and @Blue I am so sorry you're both going through this - it's royally shit. I hope you're both as okay as you can be and giving yourselves all the time and self care you need

Things are finally good with DP and I again - thank goodness. His parents live just down the road and given that we are about to be with them for a week in very close proximity because of this wedding in Spain he's keen to tell his mum on a 'don't get too excited and this is 100% a secret' basis. I'm sort of torn - part of me doesn't feel ready to tell anyone yet (especially with me second guessing my symptoms or lack of all the damn time) but given that my own parents are so far away and will be so upset at the news and the fact I have no friends here yet there's part of me that would really like MIL's support whatever the outcome of this. I get on with her extremely well and she's v understanding and knows what it's like to be a worrier so it might be helpful. Think we're going over late arvo so I'll let you guys know.

@Mummyloves your scan is so close now! Good luck!!! Can't wait for these next three weeks to pass - hopefully uneventfully - so I can have mine.

Going to go and make some lunch and try and relax. Think DP is more pregnant than me - he's been tidying all morning like he's nesting and now he's hoovering - never ever seen this happen before...

Has anybody got lucky on there scan dates? Mine will fall on me being 12/13 weeks (if I'm right on dates) I was really hoping for a early one