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October 2016 (thread number four). Entering the second trimester.

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FuzzyOwl · 10/04/2016 21:13

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MissMusicale · 21/04/2016 10:51

Hello

I've been lurking for a while and originally joined the September due thread. Those ladies seemed further along than me and it was hard to identify with what was being said as I found out I was pregnant so early on, so I've been reading the October threads instead.

I'm 35, live in Southend and am due at the end of September with no2.

I've had an emotional 1st trimester with a bleed, vanished twin, norovirus and anxiety but pleased to say that now in the 2nd trimester, things seem to be better and I'm feeling energetic again.

BadlyWrittenPoem · 21/04/2016 11:36

All looked good on the scan today and measuring about right for dates which is reassuring. Now that's done I think I'm ready to join the FB group. Who do I message? And does anyone know how to send messages on the app or will I need to get on the computer?

Northernlight22 · 21/04/2016 11:51

Consultant appointment this morning which was rather uneventful! Midwife next week .... Feel like I've got loads of appointments on the go 😂

bringonthrsummer · 21/04/2016 12:39

Badly inbox me about fb group. I had to use the Internet website instead of the app for private messages X

climbingcheesecake · 21/04/2016 20:06

my morning sickness has gone worse the last couple of weeks, I thought the second trimester was supposed to be better.

Afreshstartplease · 21/04/2016 20:09

Mine has vanished for now fingers crossed and my appetite is well and truly back in town!

I am however getting fucking massive! I think people at work have now noticed but don't have the balls to ask. I might see how long I can keep this going.

pod100 · 21/04/2016 21:06

My appetite is the same! I literally can't stop eating! As soon as I finish something I'm totally starving again Confused thankfully I haven't put any weight on yet but I need to start being careful!

Got my screening results back today and all are low risk!

IrisPurple1 · 21/04/2016 21:38

Fresh I'm the same - told 2 people at work and the both said my belly gave me away. Are you going to start telling people now or leave till later?

Welcome MissMusicale, fingers crossed for an easier time of it from now.

Congrats on the all clear Pod

Blueberry if it's been 2 weeks they'll have rung by now if there was any risk. Sending letters is not really a priority but contacting those at risk is. I hope yours cones through before your hols to get it boxed off. Where are you going?
I have had muscle/ ligament twinges since about 12w - I sneezed today and the pain caused me to yelp!
Glad you're enjoying get the yoga. Can't wait to start mine!

Afreshstartplease · 21/04/2016 22:05

Iris my boss knows. I don't have many personal conversations with other colleagues TBH, if they asked id confirm but I'm not going out of my way to make an announcement. Also have a colleague who miscarried recently so don't really want to do baby talk around her she's still distraught Sad

BadlyWrittenPoem · 22/04/2016 08:10

Thanks bringinthrsummer, will message you when I get on the computer. Smile

BadlyWrittenPoem · 22/04/2016 08:17

Last pregnancy we didn't go public till I was 27 weeks. Someone said to me, "I did think last week that's not just from eating pies." I'm loads bigger this time as I started a normal weight instead of underweight and at one point could only drink sugary drinks so was consuming loads of calories and gaining weight rather too rapidly. I think people would know if they realised how thin I am usually but based on previous experience the people I know are not that observant.

Tomkat79 · 22/04/2016 10:45

clank can you explain what your early braxtons feel like?! I'm having some sort of waving feeling on and off but don't remember in last 2 pregnancies!

Figgygal · 22/04/2016 11:38

Mine varies still in normal clothes but definitely out of my jeans. I did have a belt expander arrive today so will try that out tomorrow and see if I can get back in them.

All of best friends know, my work and family but ds still doesn't know waiting to 12th may now for the 20 wk scan. I think we will manage it.

amy0211 · 22/04/2016 12:57

Hi everyone, new to mumsnet! My friend from August 2014 babies pointed me in this direction. Had my scan on Monday :) due 31st October 2016. (little Halloween baby). I'll have a read back through threads. Is there by any chance a Facebook group I can join? Looking forward to getting to know you all :)

Afreshstartplease · 22/04/2016 20:11

Evening all

Quiet on here today

Welcome new people

14+2 today, keep getting pains when I sneeze and my allergies are awful ATM!

I've been in maternity leggings today much comfier than my work trousers!

Figgygal · 22/04/2016 20:14

Fresh I'm living in my mat jeggings on weekends very comfy!!

Welcome amy!

Bollocks dr phoned I do indeed have another UTI so more antibiotics and a referral to hospital to discuss

Afreshstartplease · 22/04/2016 20:21

My mat jeggings are big on the arse I need to shrink them

BadlyWrittenPoem · 22/04/2016 21:23

I need to make DH get my maternity clothes out of the loft before I end up with nothing to wear!

BigPigLittlePig · 22/04/2016 22:08

Need to get maternity clothes out, not so much for the baby bump but because I haven't had a poo for 4 days.

Feeling grumpy and fat and uncomfortable today. Mope mope.

Welcome newbies. We are generally a cheerful bunch Grin

Afreshstartplease · 23/04/2016 06:58

Oh dear bigpig, I often go a few days without going, and not just when pregnant. Sometimes I have to remind myself to go!,

14+3 today

Threw up a load of phlegm this morning but haven't felt sick for days now, think it's just all the gunk from my cold

Been up since 550 with dd (3), this is earlier than we get up on a work day! She's lucky it's sunny which motivates me!,

Figgygal · 23/04/2016 07:55

Our 4yo needs dragged out of bed mon-fri this morning he strolls in at 6.25 Angry. Little bugger is lucky I'm still taking him to disney on ice this afternoon

Afreshstartplease · 23/04/2016 08:00

It's a pain eh figgy!,

Still you got 35 more mins than me lol

I have lots to do around the house anyway, need to get back on top of things now I seem to be out of the sickness zone. It's a good job my midwife hasn't been one to do home visits as that would not have been good!,

CharlotteAmber · 23/04/2016 14:03

Hi ladies

I’m sorry for the slow reply, I started catching up from the beginning of the first thread and it’s taking me a while!

Thank-you MeDownSouth, Ditsygal, Tomkat79, Figgygal, Carlsberg84

Ditsygal I’m glad your parcel arrived in the end. I’ve been feeling emotional too, but I wouldn’t describe myself as ‘calm and level-headed’ at the best of times (and my DP certainly wouldn’t). Wink

Tomkat79 How lovely to have an impromptu scan, I could watch our baby all day!

Figgygal I think we’re fairly close to each other, as I’m in Bristol. I don’t know whether our baby is a boy or a girl, my DP wants it to be a surprise and so do I, but I also want to know everything about the baby and I’m not sure I have the willpower to wait another 6 months.

Clank2 I’m sorry to hear about your midwife, mine said that the nhs is great but sometimes you need to oil the wheels a bit. Like BadlyWrittenPoem, I booked my next appointment when I was there, if I could. Fortunately, my midwife and everyone I’ve spoken to so far has been lovely. One girl who showed us to the scan room said my mother-in-law couldn’t come in with us (after I’d been told it would be fine and she’d got really excited about it), but the nurse who did the scan was really lovely and it all worked out fine.

IrisPurple1 Congratulations on your good news. I don't do much yoga but I’m looking forward to doing antenatal yoga, especially as I’m already a bit breathless, which makes me worry a bit about the birth. I feel much the same as you, but I tend to get tired in the evening anyway so it feels like a slightly more extreme version of a non-pregnancy day and luckily my DP is coping with it very well.

Badlywrittenpoem I’m glad everything went well at your scan.

Hi MissMusicale I’m glad things are getting better after what must have been a really tough start.

Climbingcheesecake I’m sorry to hear about your morning sickness, my nausea is still hanging around too but a few friends had it up to week 16, so I’m hoping the blooming will start after that!

Pod100 Congratulations! I got my screening results on Thursday too, I wasn’t worried about it but I find any positive updates reassuring.

Hi Amy0211 congratulations on your Halloween baby. Ours is due on the 22nd and, although I know it’s not for everyone, I don’t think I’m going to be able to resist a fancy dress outfit like a tiny pumpkin. I was looking at the Xmas ones on sale when we found out too, but my DP put his foot down and said it was too early. We had our first scan last week, it's amazing isn’t it?

Afreshstartplease I’m sorry to hear about your allergies. I love maternity leggings, I’ve being looking forward to being able to wear pregnancy jeans for ages, and I asked the lady to cut the tags out so I could wear them home from the shop. Blush They’re baggy in places too, but I’m enjoying being able to grow into clothes, rather than the usual pressure to lose weight to get into clothes I’ve grown out of.

I’m in the same place as you regarding getting on top of things too, over the last couple of months I've basically sat on the sofa whilst my lovely DP took care of me, but now I’m 14 weeks and the risk of mc is reduced, today’s plan is to sort out the wardrobe and my DP is on my case to get started.

BadlyWrittenPoem and BigPigLittlePig Are you still in normal clothes? After walking around with my trousers and skirts undone for a while, I went maternity clothes shopping at 11 weeks. It’s probably because I’ve been eating so much, rather than because of my baby bump though (as the nausea was worse if I didn’t eat regularly). Blush My DP reminds me that if I eat too much it’ll come back to bite me when the baby is born, but I hope that breastfeeding will help with the weight loss.

BadlyWrittenPoem · 23/04/2016 14:29

Charlotte yes I'm still in regular clothes currently. I usually go into maternity clothes at 5-6 months but I started heavier this time and the eating to avoid nausea/vommiting has resulted in rather a bulge of fat so I think I'll need maternity clothes by four months at the latest!

Alwaysinahurrynow · 23/04/2016 14:48

figgygal snap! So annoying but ours was 5:45 - fireman Sam on and a cup of tea for me. He's now fast asleep in the car after rugby and then a play cafe with friends!