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JS viroids are here in their 28th outing complete with exploding belly buttons. There's royal foofs and jiffy bag gifts, but most certainly NOT x-rated colouring books at the VAGINA party HQ!

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ChatEnOeuf · 16/05/2015 16:24

Welcome, welcome, welcome to the 28th grads thread... celebrating the success of Just Shagging in getting us viroids upduffed!

For those that don't know, a 'viroid' is from the original JSing thread 1, where someone was trying to type ladies (in reference to all the JSing ladies), but their phone decided to call us all viroids instead!

The name stuck and we've been the JSing viroids ever since.

The thread we have graduated from is here in its 46th outing. WARNING: they're all a bit kerazy not to mention randy!

There is also a Just Mumming thread in postnatal clubs here for once your babies come along, or to keep up with the graduated graduates!

There is also a private facebook group (so it doesn't give the game away in your news feed!)... if you want to join to see photos of new babies etc, just ask in-thread!

Here is the stats list, please update your own spot with any updates: docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1oLJqpadAb2givKYq8OJfGCti3s6xzsTGlI-GoaBfM_M/edit?pli=1#gid=0

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Hobbit19 · 27/05/2015 11:02

Hi BigPawsBrown, thanks for leaving us a message. Chat and all of your family are in our thoughts. Please give Chat a big hug from us when you see her. Xx

gaggiagirl · 27/05/2015 11:13

Hi big please send our love to her.

LaLaLaaaa · 27/05/2015 11:37

Hi big - please give her a hug from us xxxx

ChatEnOeuf · 27/05/2015 13:17

Thank you all from the bottom of my heart, for your messages, prayers and thoughts. I am reading every single one but it is taking time as each line of beautiful words brings a new wave of tears. I am back at home now. TinyChat spent all last night with me, there are no words to describe the feeling of handing him to the midwife knowing that it is goodbye forever.

I would love to show you a picture of him, on the FB group. Please say if that would be too much and you would rather I didn't.

This might be upsetting reading but I need to write it down. Please don't read it if you don't want to, I won't be offended.

We don't know what happened. I woke up at half five to go to the bathroom. When I was in there I almost fainted and had to lie down. Ten minutes later I had the most awful waves of back pain that never really went away. We rushed to the hospital but when we arrived they couldn't be sure if there was a heartbeat. Just ten minutes later our little boy was born, breech, but with no heartbeat. Despite the best efforts of the doctors, they were unable to bring him back. He is beautiful, just perfect.

We will be bringing him back to the UK and having his funeral there, as that is our real home. I don't know when or how that will happen yet. Thank you for the justgiving page, we really appreciate it.

I will lurk on your new Fred and wish you all the best for happy and healthy pregnancies. I might not post very much but I am rooting for all of you.

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Jcandy · 27/05/2015 13:38

Good to hear from you chat I can't imagine what you are going through but thank you for letting us know what happened. I would be happy to see a picture of your beautiful baby if you want to show us, though I can only speak for myself. Sending you lots of love and hugs and I hope the funeral arrangements go as you wish them to xx

ToriB34 · 27/05/2015 13:42

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WilHarlot · 27/05/2015 14:11

Of course post your pictures Chat, he is your beautiful boy and you must show him off.

I imagine not knowing what happened is particularly difficult. I think a good decision to come home for support and the funeral. My sister had a beautiful ceremony for her little boy and while it doesn't take any pain away, it helped her to feel she could plan something perfect for him.

We're all here for you - as much or little as you want. Thanks

jellypi3 · 27/05/2015 14:12

Oh chat thank you for posting that, i can't imagine the strength it took to put those words down.

Know we are all here for you and will provide any support you need x

Cymraes17 · 27/05/2015 14:19

Thank you Chat for sharing, I for one would like it very much if you showed us your little boy.

CarrotPuff · 27/05/2015 14:20

Chat I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope all of your family is looked after. I'm sure he is the most beautiful baby, and it's so unfair he was taken away from you. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. You are so strong, thinking of you all xx

BigPawsBrown · 27/05/2015 14:24

Chat, we all love you xxxx

batfish · 27/05/2015 14:27

I'm so so sorry chat and can't imagine what you are all going through, I just wish I could say something that could make it better. I hope they are able to find our what happened so that you get some closure. Please share the picture of your beautiful boy on the Facebook group, would love to see him xxx

Purpleball · 27/05/2015 14:42

Chat, thank you for posting. I don't know how you're finding the strength to function. It's all so very tragic. I saw the photo on your FB page, he's so beautiful, absolutely perfect and yes I shed a few tears when I saw it but I'm glad I did.
Sending lots of love and best wishes to you all Thanks

KatoPotato · 27/05/2015 16:01

Chat, I'm so deeply deeply sorry. Your little one is gorgeous and deserves to be remembered always. Stay strong and while there's nothing I can do or say to help do know I'm thinking of you and your family and if I can help just ask xxxxxx

honeysucklejasmine · 27/05/2015 16:38

Chat thank you so much for keeping in touch, and for sharing your story of your little lad. I have been thinking about you every few minutes since I heard, I can't even imagine. You will always have your little boy with you. Flowers

Ain626 · 27/05/2015 16:49

Chat I have no words. I am so sorry. Thank you so much for posting an update, and you are so brave for sharing tinychat's story. Your little boy is beautiful and he will always be with you in your heart. Flowers

ZylaB · 27/05/2015 16:53

Chat, all my love for you, your family and of course your perfect little boy xxx

Fattycow · 27/05/2015 16:54

Chat, we all love you very much and I'm sure I can speak for everyone when I say we are all here for you.
I'm not on Facebook, so I cannot see your photo, but I'm sure your little boy is absolutely gorgeous!

Toast85 · 27/05/2015 16:55

Chat thank you for posting, please do post a picture of your gorgeous boy if you would like to. Can't begin to imagine what you're going through. I hope you have all the support you need over there and when you come back to the UK as well xx

KatoPotato · 27/05/2015 17:08

Chat , he's beautiful xx

LaLaLaaaa · 27/05/2015 17:37

He is beautiful Chat, he looks very peaceful. Thank you so much for sharing your story and pictures with us. I'm thinking about you and your wee family and sending you all my love. I hope the journey over and funeral are as bearable as they can be.

Stay strong lovely girl and remember we are here whenever you need us xxx

LaLaLaaaa · 27/05/2015 17:38

If there's anything any of us can do let us know x

Fattycow · 27/05/2015 17:48

I would love to see Minichat, could anyone please send me the picture via pm?

TheBooMonster · 27/05/2015 18:07

Just wanted to pop my head round the door to give my condolences to chat, it's such an awful, unimaginable thing to happen, wishing you strength and love in the times to come xx

DulcetMoans · 27/05/2015 18:23

Thank you for coming back to share chat. If you need a space for venting your thoughts and feelings you know we can help with that. He does look so peaceful in the photos and it's utterly devastating that this has happened. We all send our love to you and your family.

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