JS viroids are here in their 28th outing complete with exploding belly buttons. There's royal foofs and jiffy bag gifts, but most certainly NOT x-rated colouring books at the VAGINA party HQ!

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to the 28th grads thread... celebrating the success of Just Shagging in getting us viroids upduffed!

For those that don't know, a 'viroid' is from the original JSing thread 1, where someone was trying to type ladies (in reference to all the JSing ladies), but their phone decided to call us all viroids instead!

The name stuck and we've been the JSing viroids ever since.

The thread we have graduated from is here in its 46th outing. WARNING: they're all a bit kerazy not to mention randy!

There is also a Just Mumming thread in postnatal clubs here for once your babies come along, or to keep up with the graduated graduates!

There is also a private facebook group (so it doesn't give the game away in your news feed!)... if you want to join to see photos of new babies etc, just ask in-thread!

Here is the stats list, please update your own spot with any updates: docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1oLJqpadAb2givKYq8OJfGCti3s6xzsTGlI-GoaBfM_M/edit?pli=1#gid=0

chat, there are no words for the loss. The only thing I can say, is that I'm sure my little baby sister will be waiting for Tinychat up there (or wherever we go) so they can play together.

So, I think she is from Birmingham - is that right? Because there is SANDS based in Birmingham SANDS

Thanks pud. Haven't looked into that bit yet but can justgiving or similar be used for that? Then we pop the link up and anyone can contribute if they want to.

Oh chat, I'm so truly sorry for you my love. Sending all my love and hugs to you and your family. xxx

Sorry, my mistake. That is just the Birmingham branch of SANDS. Still, there is that one or maybe Tommy's. Does anyone have any other suggestions?

(Justgiving can be used, just checked)

dulcet what a lovely idea, I would like to contribute.

pud hear hear. Your words have made me well up.

Dulcet, that is a lovely idea, count me in.

Yes I was thinking of just giving Dulcet, I will investigate more tomorrow but would like to do it 'invite only/private' if possible as we haven't discussed with Chat...?
Is Chat in Belgium? Are there any suitable charities that anyone knows of there? Although I am sure a UK charity will be fine also.

That's a lovely idea, I'd love to contribute

Oh chat, I am so sorry. As others have said there are no proper words for this, only tears. Lots of love, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers x

dulcet count me in.

Count me in too

I'll discuss with pud and we will get something together for you all to contribute if you want to.

Didn't mean to ignore your comment about the thread jelly. I'm not sure really: can see what you mean and might be better but don't want her to think we abandoned her either. Anyone else?

Sorry dulcet i don't mean abandon this thread :( ignore what i said

I can see both ways with the thread. I think people may want to keep this one going to express their thoughts over the coming days. But I also don't want Tee/Cym/Before to feel as though they cannot post any news on here. (Please do ladies, it is all part of the journey) Don't worry Jelly, you didn't come across as insensitive at all, I understand where you are coming from.

Count me in for a charity donation. I can't stop thinking about it all. Feel so desperately sad for all the Chats

I don't mind carrying on with this thread or having a new one. Happy to go with the flow

Sorry pud managed to put it so much better than i could, but yes that's what i meant. I think we should certainly keep this thread alive and start the next one a little early for people to post on if they want to

It's ok jelly, I think we knew what you meant. Sounds like an idea to me.

I'm more than happy to donate, I think that's such a lovely idea. I agree that we should keep this one open if Chat wants to come back and maybe start a new one for our general musings out of respect really.

chat - I'm so incredibly sorry. There is nothing I can say that will make it any better, but if there is anything, no matter how small, that might help, please do let us all know.
dulcet - lovely idea, please count me in too.

dulcet and pud I think a just giving page for a charity is a thoughtful idea. I'm more than willing to make a contribution.

TTC and pregnancy are difficult journeys. I hope that there is some comfort in the knowledge we are a support network and here for one another.

Absolutely count me in for donating.

Lit a candle this afternoon and sat with the cats and we said a few words for our lovely chat and minichat.

If there was ever a time for large G&Ts it would be now.

Please let the JSers on the other thread updated with plans for donating. I'll light a candle tonight. There's Aching Arms for a small token as well.

chat all my love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

If you need an ear, or a cuddle, I think any jser, old or new, would be with you in a heartbeat. Please ask if you want anything at all.

May your angel rest in peace, and may you be blessed with all of the strength that you need.

Hugging you as hard as I can and not letting go. X

I have found OVOK in Belgium. It stands for 'Ouders van een Overleden Kind' (Parents of a Dead Child) and offers help to parents who have lost a child. Maybe the donated money could go to them?
www.ovok.be/giften

Will the page be specific as to where the money goes? It night be nice to leave Chat to have some flexibility... It might also help with travel costs back to UK, or other arrangements. Or to enable a family member to fly out.

I think Dulcet has set up a just giving page for SANDS if that is okay with everyone? Just thinking that we might not hear from Chat for a while??