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December 2015 #3 - riding out the first trimester!!

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ChandlersFarang · 13/05/2015 06:55

Noticed we were getting a bit full in the last thread! Roll up, roll up for more scanning, puking, worrying and other distractions to take us through the first trimester! Grin

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WaitingForEgg · 28/05/2015 07:03

Great news Clare
shinysparklythings My veins are also horrendous so I wasn't the least bit surprised. Last time occupational health took some I had 3 nurses queue up to try and then in the end a phlebotomist in pathology got it first attempt.

I've been adding bits and pieces to my ASOS basket, just jeans and some tops. When do you generally show enough to need maternity does anyone know?

shinysparklythings · 28/05/2015 07:09

Yup I know that feeling waiting

I think they generally say bumps start appearing by about 16 weeks and definitely showing by around 24 but everyone is different and will show differently I guess. The ladies at work are all about 22 weeks and you can tell it's a pregnancy but the bumps aren't particularly big yet.

Off to school for revision with year 11 today. I am doing all the higher students, no idea how many are going to turn up. Let's hope they don't ask me anything too taxing! Confused

shinysparklythings · 28/05/2015 07:10

Plus Chandlers you should definitely treat your self to a pregnant lady smock before you come back to the uk!

shinysparklythings · 28/05/2015 07:19

Also because my brain currently cannot hold on to information for longer than 3 seconds sorry about your grandad chandler the baton thing is kind of how we feel too. It was almost like when I was told he had passed I knew that was the month now I sound like a crazy loon if we have a boy I think I'd like to use grandads name as a middle name Smile

ChandlersFarang · 28/05/2015 07:32

Haha hummingbird I am quite excited about the winter when we will be gigantic, wearing giant jumpers and stuff like that to be honest too!! Grin

Shiny that's exactly what I thought too!! (The middle name if it's a boy... Not buying one of the horrendous smocks!! Lol!!). I'll see if I can find a photo of one...

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Withalittlesparkle · 28/05/2015 07:34

Look at maternity clothes shopping more driven by comfort than size. I currently can't stand anything too tonight round my stomach so I've bought a few maternity things to see me through the next couple of weeks.

With regards to showing I'd saying 15/16 weeks sounds about right for first timers, second time you show earlier, am 12 weeks and it's already difficult to hide!!

ChandlersFarang · 28/05/2015 07:42

Here's one - it's actually not anywhere near as bad as the ones I've seen in real life but you get the idea! They try to make themselves look like little girls, which is very weird considering they are clearly knocked up! Shock

December 2015 #3 - riding out the first trimester!!
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ineedsomeinspiration · 28/05/2015 07:49

For those looking at maternity clothes i had belly beltz last time which allows you to wear your normal trousers longer and bump bands which help cover your bump if you want to wear a normal top.

Withalittlesparkle · 28/05/2015 08:15

Ladies something just popped in my head regarding buying second hand maternity clothes! Just be warned that they're likely to be super stretched. I sold mine on eBay but had worn them right to my biggest (41+2 and carried HUGE!!!) so you may find if you pick bits up now you have an extra bit of baggy to contend with

Newtobecomingamum · 28/05/2015 09:04

Hello, can I join? This will be my second and I'm due on 31/12/15! Although might come a bit earlier as second!

Currently off work with HG (although not as bad as first time around). Feel exhausted and constantly sick, hoping things improve soon!! Anyway, will all be worth it in the end!! :) X

ChandlersFarang · 28/05/2015 09:22

Hey Newto and also ickle!! Welcome to our little festive baby gang... And congrats on your pregnancies!! Grin

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ineedsomeinspiration · 28/05/2015 10:21

Welcome new ladies.

I'm 13 weeks today!! Second trimester whoop whoop. Hopefully nausea and tiredness should start improving.

chandlers that dress is lovely Hmm.

I've added my scan pic although it's not the best as the wiggler wouldn't stay still.

Been reading about those that have had growth scans for small babies and there's a possibility if baby not growing correctly the may be induced early. So whilst nice for me to get a couple of extra chances to see baby fingers crossed there won't be any cause for concern.

December 2015 #3 - riding out the first trimester!!
Sweets27 · 28/05/2015 11:36

Morning all, just a quick one to say hello and big congrats to needsomeinspiration! Smile What a beautiful scan - and wow, 13 weeks, you must be one of the furthest ahead out of all of us!

And welcome newto, how exciting to have a new year's eve baby (assuming the little bean arrives on schedule)!

chandlers, I absolutely LOVE that dress. Bring plenty of those home with you. Also, was it you who asked about my cyst and the birth? Basically, because it's moved up and out of the way they don't think it'll have any impact - perhaps if it had stayed in the pelvis it might have got in the way, but where it is now, all will be fine. And then they'll see me around 6 weeks after the birth to take it out if I want that done.

ThreeBeanRap · 28/05/2015 11:45

Congratulations all those who've had scans, lovely seeing the pictures! And good luck to everyone with scans coming next week.

I'm feeling much better now I'm into the 2nd trimester, although absolutely knackered in the mornings, finding it really hard to get out of bed.

WhatsForYeWontGoByYe · 28/05/2015 11:49

Hello all, just checking in!

Another one still feeling nauseous here, although it comes and goes a bit more now, rather than being wall-to-wall... And still SOOOO tired! Doesn't help that DD1 is sleeping really badly and getting up several times a night. Urgh. What I wouldn't do for one, long full-night's sleep... Guess that ain't gonna happen for....years... Hmm

I'd agree that first timers will start to show around 15/16 weeks. And it's the trousers/leggings you'll need first - I don't think I needed maternity tops for quite a while.

I have a definite bump already and I'm 11+1 Confused. Really wasn't expecting that to happen! I let a pregnant friend borrow all my maternity clothes just before I got up the duff myself - stupid, huh?

Thankfully she's nearly full term now and is going to bring them all back - desperately need leggings and trousers!

Don't think I'm going to buy much this time as it seems a bit pointless. DH has insisted this one is the last (we'll see about that...).

The one thing I will invest in is a nice warm maternity coat to see me through autumn and winter. I did without last time as I gave birth in May so was getting bigger when it was getting warmer, but this time I think I deserve a nice woolly coat to accommodate my bump Smile.

Also, I work from home these days so don't need a smart work wardrobe just living in comfy PJs

Second scan is on Wednesday - our third wedding anniversary! It's in the afternoon so we thought how nice it would be if we could go out for dinner or something afterwards to doubly celebrate, but we can't get anyone to pick up DD1 from nursery as both our families live far away. Such a shame!

TheBabyFacedAssassin · 28/05/2015 13:00

Hi All!

Just a quick check in - scan was PERFECT!!! Oh I am so relieved I can't even tell you. Had a meltdown in the waiting room beforehand though but everything is great so far.

Will come back later and give a full update - I feel a bit too emotionally drained just now.

Thank you so much for the positive thoughts.

This week has kicked my ass!

Sweets27 · 28/05/2015 13:13

Congrats babyfaced, so pleased for you!! Smile

Sweets27 · 28/05/2015 13:39

Another thing - I have just been nosing at the October AN thread because I'm just too darn nosy for my own good (and too excited about what's to come for all of us!), and they are all chatting about 'scanxiety' for their 20 week scans.

I seriously love that term so I think we should adopt it. After all, quite a few of us have been feeling plenty of scanxiety in the run up to the 12 week appointments!

WaitingForEgg · 28/05/2015 13:46

abi2790 have you made any dietary changes? I have a lot of bowel problems and find this the biggest help. Drink loads of water, prunes, most fruit, beans, high fibre cereals all help a lot. I'm pretty sure it's safe to take lactulose but go to a pharmacy and check with them when you buy

Jebel · 28/05/2015 14:27

Congrats babyfaced, ineed, clare - hope I haven't missed anyone.

Chandlers that made me laugh as there are two ladies working at the hotel wearing that exact outfit but in cream! I think our mothers ended up wearing similar back in the day. Look at photos of Princess Di when she was pg!

Flor it is rubbish that everything is online, I think the US is better. I ordered from Gap and Old Navy in the US for my last pregnancy, hardly trendy but functional basics. As I'm unemployed, I am going to be able to be very casual.

Welcome newto

sweets love scanxiety, definitely will adopt that one!

My grandmother has just been admitted to hospital with a fractured hip, she is in her 90s so it is very tough. However, have been massively impressed with how amazing the NHS have been. Living abroad, I just hear negative stuff about the NHS and elderly people but they have been so wonderful with her. I would have loved to have used one of her names for my DD but they are completely rubbish names!!

Sweets27 · 28/05/2015 14:41

jebel you're right, this one's pretty good: i.huffpost.com/gadgets/slideshows/267264/slide_267264_1831872_original.jpg

Sorry to hear about your grandmother - hope NHS continue to look after her really well.

Jebel · 28/05/2015 14:53

Haha sweets an excellent example!

ChandlersFarang · 28/05/2015 15:06

Fucking hell sweets that is RANK!!! God so we were wearing that shit in the UK as recently as the 80s?! The Thais must just be really behind then!!! Jebel you made me laugh that there are two of them in that outfit in your hotel GrinGrinGrinGrin

Sweets thanks a mil for the update re cyst/birth - sounds like they know what they are doing! Fingers crossed the same happens to me Smile

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ThreeBeanRap · 28/05/2015 15:17

babyfaced I am so pleased for you, that's great news! I hope you enjoyed the scan and are feeling loads more relaxed now. Congratulations Smile

TheBabyFacedAssassin · 28/05/2015 15:59

Thanks for the congratulations everyone. I have calmed down a bit now, thank goodness. Have less than an hour to go in work too and I haven't exactly been productive this afternoon!

Get ready for a mammoth post...

Well, from last night I was a nervous wreck, I was awake half the night fretting and then when my alarm went off this morning I really didn't want to get out of bed. We headed to the hospital and were waiting about 40 minutes and I was getting more and more panicky when I noticed one of the midwives was the same midwife who looked after me in the delivery suit last year after dd's delivery. Of course this triggered memories and I lost it, I couldn't hold back the tears because I was just so anxious and emotional. I was called pretty quickly after that to go down for a quick scan with a midwife. As I got up on the bed she asked what number baby was it, I said number 2 but my first was stillborn last year, cue more tears, and not just a few wee drips, these were horrible snotty sobs! So I calmed myself down and she started to scan, and the first thing we saw was baby waving at us Smile We heard a good clear, strong heartbeat too, of course more tears.... Grin are you sensing a theme?! Anyway I was then sent to another midwife for my booking in appointment, and it was the midwife I recognised from last year. Well, that set me off again! With her being my midwife it was the best thing ever, I don't know if any of you remember me being anxious about going through all the details of my dd with a stranger? But with that midwife doing it, it was awesome, such a comfort. She even remembered my dd's name and the things we had talked about last year. The booking in took forever, as it does, mainly because we were having the craic too which was lovely and really put me at ease. I finished up with her and was sent back to the waiting area to wait and see my consultant. DH and I went in for the scan and everything was perfect! Baby was dancing about like a mad thing, really active, and really clear heartbeat. My consultant took all the measurements and everything is as it should be. He flicked the scanner onto 3d mode too which was pretty cool and I have a few pics from that too. He also measured the nuchal fold and checked for the nasal bone, which isn't standard practice in Northern Ireland, and both were fine!!

My next appointment will be at 16 weeks which will be a big scan. He is going to do an analysis of all the bones to check how they are forming and growing. By that stage we should know if this baby is going to be ok. So my next countdown is to the 9th July and then I will hopefully be able to breath a huge sigh of relief.

I feel so fortunate to have my consultant and be able to get the standard of care that I am getting on the NHS. It is such a comfort.

I am sorry for the me, me, me post. I will name check later!