Had scan just now and all was well! Baby kicking away and looked very happy! Nt was 1.4 which I'm happy with and apparently I should get combined risk tomorrow - joys of a private healthcare system.
Only downside is that placenta is on the front wall - which may well explain midwife not finding heartbeat and will mean less ease of feeling movements later on. So pleased that all is well and have started telling all my friends as now it feels real!
Glad other people had positive news today too!