Wow there's been lots of chat since yesterday! penguin yes I do have a stoma nurse but she has been less helpful since I have approached the year post op mark, I think she thinks I should cope with. Everything and not be double checking all the time now, I used to have loads of problems with leakage and it took us ages to find the right bag. I'm a bit frustrated that these ones that were such a relief to find might not be doing the job now. I think I'll see if I get any more leaks and if I do then I'll pick her brains. I don't think she has had that many patients pregnant with stomas so I don't know how much she would help... I think she'd point me towards the surgeon who would say wait and see... Still, if things continue on a downward trajectory with pain/leaks then I will ask. I'll probably go and see her for a chat before labour too if I get a chance.
TENS machines - I used a non labour one from my MIL for early labour last time and it helped a bit when they were in the right place. I laboured at home for 7 hours before going in and when I arrived I was 4cm (though progressed quickly after the MW had examined me) - I found it helped less once I was there and things were moving quickly but then dd was back to back and by the time I took it off to get in the bath I was pushing and had to get out again!!! I will hire one specifically designed for labour this time I think and hopefully it will work better. It definitely took the edge off for me even if it was just distraction - and it wasn't even one designed for labour. But the stickers kept peeling which was most irritating...
We put the crib up the morning I went into labour! I called dh to come home and he put it up then before we went into hospital
No need to have rushed because I stayed in a few days anyway.
Got some M&P clothes in the sale for dd age 2-3 for summer time. They tend to come up small compared to other shops. Boots clothes tend to be very slender too - the sleep suits didn't fit my dd's thighs when I bought 6-9 month ones for her!
Happy new year everyone! We're having another baby this year! Seems much closer than it did last night... So much house stuff to do...
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