jess, really glad you're feeling a bit better. The details certainly don't feel irrelevant to you, but like you say, if you're not up to knowing, and things are improving, then maybe they are irrelevant? It doesn't sound like he went to great lengths to hide things from you, perhaps he wanted you to know/notice the texts/him etc... It's amazing how one partner's mood improves and you sort of bounce off each other a bit and in turn both behave more kindly to one another, it's not about being a doormat but taking positive steps to improving your relationship, something he, and a (sigh) a large proportion of men seem unable to do in a mature way. Good luck with it!
... and your real friends will be there whatever, I think you should go to the cinema and see a film, make the most of going out now! I can't wait to see The devil Wears Prada, I love Meryl Streep, and all those clothes, shoes and glamourous bags, will take my mind off my Blooming Marvellous jeans and sweater I seem to be living in
Weird pregnancy dreams. I dreamed of getting it on with Axl Rose from Guns n roses, Urrgh. And I keep getting those peculiar legs/arms stretching out of the stomach under the skin and I have to push them back in carefully, and the worst one is a strange woman standing in the corner of the delivery room called Rosemary!! Aagh, I could barely watch Lassie the other day with DD (4), let alone think of horror films . Although she cracked me up when I told her they had to sell Lassie as they had no food, and she asked why they couldn't just go the cafe, ha ha..