March Mummies 2015 - ever hopeful for the return of sanity and departure of sickness as we approach second tri!

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coaster thats just it tho she is ignoring me completely on and off facebook. and i havent put a single thing on facebook about my pregnancy

So sorry Clueless & Pip

I don't have my 12 week scan until the 23rd at which point I'll be 14+3 so I've another two weeks of worrying to go yet

Thanks all for your thoughts, it really does mean a lot, but sorry for bringing down the mood of the thread!

So sorry Clueless, it really is shit. Try not to worry too much about the erpc, I was fine if a bit tired for a few days last time and hope you will be the same. Look after yourself .

I meant Pint not Pip

Don't worry, I think I like Pip better

Take care Pip .

So sorry for your bad news guys take care

So glad I had a private reassurance scan at 12 weeks, if I hadnt I'd be mega worried. 14 weeks now and still growing, so everything seems fine. Got my booking in appointment FINALLY on Friday and hopefully get a scan date. Cant believe I didnt even suspect I might be pregnant until just before 12 weeks, and only did a test to rule it out!

Ordered my pram on Sunday :) we went for the silver cross 3d monodot, had everything we were looking for. My parents are getting this, we have also picked our cot which OH's parents are buying. Havent bought any clothes or anything yet as we want to wait and see what we are having first :) have a feeling its a boy though.

We only have a tiny one bedroom flat though, so are currently house hunting for a 2 bed. Quite gutted because I love my flat, but its not even big enough for us 2 really never mind a baby too.

Thanks all for your thoughts, and Pint, take care of yourself too.x

theone that really is rubbish then. Sorry you're going through that :-(

Pink mine is at 8.30am so I'm at least hopeful that we won't be kept waiting too long - they can't be running behind at that time can they?!

theone I'm sorry your friend has reacted this way. I can understand that she might find your pregnancy difficult to deal with but she could have spoken to you about it.

I'm just about to go out for a meal for my sister's 30th but given that I've only managed half a mini cake slice and an apple today I don't think I'll be having anything . I do want to celebrate with her though so I'll go and watch everyone else eat!

keeper and coaster she asked me if i was going to have another baby because we were pregnant at the same time last time and it was great fun baby shopping together. but i told her oh didnt want anymore. so both before and after her first miscarriage she kept on at oh to let me have another baby. so we thought we had her blessing to ttc..... obviously it was ok to ttc as long as i didnt actually get pregnant sorry i know what she is going through as i have miscarried myself before. but im very upset at the way she is treating me

Oh the one, that is so unfair! It's so easy for me to say (and I know from experience very difficult to put into practice) but try and not worry too much about her because she is being unfair, and she will know she is. Hopefully she'll come around at some point.

Gah, I hate saying that really because I know I can't not worry myself!

Maybe the stuff about you TTCing was her saying what she wanted to feel and be like but when push came to shove, it just got too hard for her?

If it is about your pregnancy...yes it's not fair on you and it's hurtful, but imagine how much she's hurting. Sorry, you don't need to imagine, you've also miscarried :( All I mean is, sometimes we act in ways we're don't like ourselves but things can just get too much. A miscarriage can make people act in very irrational ways :(

Course, I might be way off and it might be about something else entirely.

So sorry pint and clueless. So awful for you both, I hope you are being looked

i know zebra i fully expected her to distance herself from me a bit. but i didnt expect her to blank me in the shop and in town after knowing her for 12 years and supporting her through some very difficult times. a polite hello wouldnt have hurt her

Oh clueless so so sorry to hear, thinking of you. Gosh two losses in 24hours it just shows how delicate things can be. I'm so sorry you girls are going through this , how devastating. Hoping you have lots of support.

Good luck to others with scans coming up

theone :(

Sorry to hear of your sad news clueless.

Theone Have you messaged her to ask her outright why she has deleted you? You deserve an explanation. I really can't be hassled with people who behave so badly. I have friends who found out the same weekend I got my positive pregnancy test that their IVF didn't work and they didn't shun me! It was an incredibly emotional and upsetting time for them and I felt so guilty, naturally, but it IS NOT YOUR FAULT that you're pregnant and she's not. You DO NOT NEED ANYONE'S PERMISSION to TTC. Catch 22 - damned if you did tell her, and damned if you didn't. Maybe you valued the friendship more than she did.
Also, sometimes it is best just to leave it. She'll come running back (that's happened to me before) in which case if she does, ask her then why she deleted you in the first place and be honest with your feelings.

So sad for you both pint and clueless. Hope you're taking good care of yourselves.

Oh gosh clueless I'm so sorry . As I said to pint I just have no idea what to say. I hope the next few weeks you both take plenty of time away from work and that you and your ohs are well supported.

pint and clueless so so sorry for you both and hope you're being looked after.

i rhink your right junk well im going to try not to let it get to me for now

clueless so sorry to hear your news too. Such a sad time for you, please look after yourself and do whatever helps you to cope with things.

Morning all, another low point for me again. Last night I was admitted to hospital via A&E with hg . Feeling so very sick and very tired. So dehydrated I am now on 3rd bag of iv fluid in less than 12 hours

Durham what anti-sickness meds are they giving you? Three bags in 12 hours isn't too bad, hopefully they'll give you lots more to keep you hydrated. Also hope they've out the needle in somewhere that doesn't hurt too much.

Did you manage to get any sleep?

It's pretty scary being admitted, especially when you feel so awful.