Thank you all for your kind comments, I really hope I haven't scared anyone.
Good luck cbmb, LH and blossom, so exciting!
Beccus, I had a section early for a couple of reasons. After the still birth, I couldn't mentally cope going full term, so we were always planning on inducing around 38 weeks. However, at my 36 week scan, DS was found to be breech for the first time, and I had a touch of poly. They brought me in 2 days later for an ecv, but he had turned cephalic again. Because he was spinning, they decided to induce me the next day. I had steroids, and went in for my induction at 36+2. It failed completely so they insisted on a section.
Incidentally, if I knew then what I knew now, I would have declined both the induction and the section. But I was too scared.
Love your story two, congratulations again!
Well today DH and I have cooked up a storm! 4 portions of 6 different meals are now nestling in the freezer, hopefully going to make my life easier in those early days.
Need to gut the garage, pack bags, and clean the house, and I just might be ready for this baby to come! 38 weeks today and midwife came over last night, all is well.
Funny story actually, and a bit tmi

Last night, baby suddenly dropped and I could really feel her in my pelvis. What with DD being breech and DS not going past 36 weeks, this is totally new to me. I was having practice contractions at the same time, and the pressure was just insane - I actually thought labour was starting and I properly panicked.
Turned out I just needed a big poo
so glamorous!