callingallangels thank you- i had a complete melt down around week 5, reading far to many scary stories online, imagining the worst. Ended up in a blazing row with dh. So i stopped mn-ing, and googling for about 5 days, and resigned myself to the belief that nature will take its own course. I eat healthy, have a bmi of 21, don't drink alcohol (during pg!) and im keeping my caffeine intake low-ish so am now of the view that what will be will be, and for the most part, if I keep doing what I have been, I really can't blame myself if something goes wrong. Don't get me wrong, i still have doubts, i turned on tv last night and caught the last few minutes of hollyoaks were a girl was having a scan and the doctors think her baby has downs syndrome. Cue lots of thoughts in the last 24 hours of downs syndrome. But downs is definitely not caused by the actions of the parents, its nature and so again, im trying to go with the what will be will be. Whatever happens is nature's choice, god's plan. I just hope his plan is that I get a beautiful healthy baby in December 
Im feeling truly rotten again today. Im at home, on my laptop, supposed to be catching up on paperwork but im wrecked and have the top button of my jeans open even though i haven't put on any weight! So snap poly
We told my ds, db & sil, at the weekend plus my dh's sis and bil. All were delighted for us. DH's sis said she suspected but my family hadn't a clue! Delighted with that since we spent a lot of time with them over the easter holidays and were sure they had worked it out! My covert beer (apple juice) swigging was obviously genius! Maybe I should take up acting.....