Thank you secretly pregnant, yes Im hoping to have a smooth 6 months ahead..sounds like forever!
Thanks also everyone else for the advice about the midwife...I was pretty sure I did have a choice as it were (infact Im not sure it was my midwife who said it, but a woman at the booking scan who was asking all the questions about family history etc, there were 2 women there)
I will definately bring it up next time....congratulations to those who have had positive scans its great to hear lots of good news!
My mum is extremely happy and sounds very excited, it will be her first grandchild and she cant wait to take me shopping for lots of new gear (and admittedly I cant wait either!). It will be very emotional for me for some (deep and personal) reason as my mums mother committed suicide when mum was just 19 and she had me not too long after, and I guess it gets me somewhere deep because she never had her mum there to help or guide her (and I never met my maternal grandma and have always felt the loss of not having her there), it will feel very special to me to have her to support me but then I know it will set off deep feelings for her aswell as she never got to share any of her pregnancies, birth's or motherhood with her own mum.
I'm feeling very emotional at the moment as I bet lots of you ladies are aswell, I'm also knackered I think I'm getting on OH's nerves with all my demands :D I think I should make the most of the lie ins and being waited on hand and foot for as long as possible! ha xx