August 2014 - 12 week scans and holding hands!

[BunnyBaby]

Hello everyone, off we go again...

Fizzy, that's awful, and to have to go through twice, can't imagine how you're feeling. I had MMC but I had stabbing pain in my stomach briefly in the middle of the night, then lost my symptoms within 3 days, so although no spotting was suspect something wasn't right at scan. Please be kind to yourself, the miscarriage boards were a great support to me. So sorry to hear this news xxx

Fizzy, that's awful, and to have to go through twice, can't imagine how you're feeling. I had MMC but I had stabbing pain in my stomach briefly in the middle of the night, then lost my symptoms within 3 days, so although no spotting was suspect something wasn't right at scan. Please be kind to yourself, the miscarriage boards were a great support to me. So sorry to hear this news xxx

Fizzy, that's awful, and to have to go through twice, can't imagine how you're feeling. I had MMC but I had stabbing pain in my stomach briefly in the middle of the night, then lost my symptoms within 3 days, so although no spotting was suspect something wasn't right at scan. Please be kind to yourself, the miscarriage boards were a great support to me. So sorry to hear this news xxx

Fizzy, that's awful, and to have to go through twice, can't imagine how you're feeling. I had MMC but I had stabbing pain in my stomach briefly in the middle of the night, then lost my symptoms within 3 days, so although no spotting was suspect something wasn't right at scan. Please be kind to yourself, the miscarriage boards were a great support to me. So sorry to hear this news xxx

Hi all

I'm leaving the thread too. Exactly same situation as Fizzy, no heartbeat and baby lost at 9 weeks 1 day. I am heartbroken, as had scan at 8ish weeks and saw wonderful strong heartbeat then.

Good luck to you all, hope you all have wonderful healthy pregnancies and enjoy your little ones when they arrive.

Bloody hell misery, I'm so sorry. :-(

I really hope you also have a happy and healthy pregnancy very soon. xx

Oh no!!! I remember you had your scan a few weeks ago and all was OK Misery :( shit, how awful. This is a really really bad day. What terrible news.

Oh Misery, how terribly sad. x

BunnyBaby, you have me worried. I had a horrible random stabbing pain in my stomach last week. Hadn't had it before and haven't had it since. I haven't lost my symptoms at all, but I'm really worried about my scan next week. 10+5 today, and previous mmc was at 11 weeks, so a bit scared.

Jesus I'm so sorry misery, my thoughts are with you also. Seeing the hb at 8 weeks must make it even the more excruciating to have had bad news, I'm so sorry.

Ruggle try not to worry as a stabbing pain doesn't mean a miscarriage, it can be perfectly normal. I could honestly cry, statistically I thought that due to only 1% of pregnancies ending in a mmc found out at the 12 week scan we would not be unlucky enough to suffer that sort of heartache and loss on this thread how wrong could I be. I feel these next 3 weeks will be even longer now. Good luck to those having them this week, I really hope you all have good news.

Kitkat im so glad you have had good news! Good luck with your pregnancy

Oh misery so sorry to hear your news too- cant even imagine what you are going through. Thoughts are with you and fizz xxx

I've had the pains too but after feeling a stretching pain? oh god I'm panicking now.

I think we are probably all likely to panic now, sadly. Especially if we were worried before.

It's such a terrible thing to have happen. My heart goes out to Fizzy and Misery.

Pregnancy is so hard, both physically and emotionally. It's normal to worry. But let's try to stay strong together.

Xx

how awful Misery. so so very sorry for you and Fizzy. i can't imagine how you are feeling. all my losses have been weeks earlier.......

i had been thinking i could relax a bit after seeing a strong heartbeat at 9+1. now feel completely different. actually thankful now I have another scan on monday ahead of my Harmony test....

Such a lot if bad news... Statistically so unlikely as well. Thoughts to fizz and misery, so hope for good news soon. As hungry says, we need to stay strong and accept that what will be will be. Hard though. I came to that conclusion after the 20 week scan horrors of last weekend .

Misery - sending you big hugs too.

I'm trying to expect the worst for Friday but I can't help get my hopes up! Arrrrgh - I just want it to be here already

So very sorry to hear what's happened, Fizzy and Misery. What terribly sad news. Thinking of you both. x

Oh no misery Im so sorry. My thoughts are with you and fizzy xx

Life is so cruel at times.

Oh gosh girls I'm am so sorry, I wish you all the luck in the world and for you to have happy healthy pregnancies.

I'm a cup half empty girl. I won't talk about the pregnancy to DH apart from app booked. I can't bring myself to relax and enjoy as I dont feel like I derserve it. Although I am a good person, I just think that getting here is too good to be true and that something will come and take it away. I think if I feel that alls not well then I'll be pleasantly surprised.
Sorry depressive post.

Can someone add me to the list. Missvaughan85 Dc#2 due 15th aug. But to be confirmed next Tuesday

So sorry to hear your sad news fizzy and misery. Sending you lots of love and best wishes for the future. Xxx

3 days to go and worrying more each day....

I hope everyone else is doing okay and not panicking too much.

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I don't know what to say today. My thought and best wishes to you both. I don't think there's a right thing to say, so I'll leave it at that. X

Oh misery I'm so sorry such sad news. Look after yourself. Best wishes for the future

My heart absolutely aches for you both. I really don't know what to saw I'm so sad for you.

I had my scan at 9 weeks and saw a heartbeat. Thought that was reassurance but absolutely shitting myself for tomorrow, life is very cruel and pregnancy is not an easy ride at all.

I pray you both have a speedy recovery x

Misery really sorry to hear your news too

Really sorry for worrying others about stabbing pains, the ones i referred to were as bad as the contractions I had when pushing my son out. I literally woke up in absolute agony almost crying. I wouldn't compare them to the round ligament pain (when you roll over, or get up too quickly which I would say are more sharp), or to the cramping pain you get as the uterus stretches. This was excruciating and woke me up from a peaceful sleep to sweating, jaw clenching agony. I also have had stomach ache when constipated /upset stomach in this pregnancy and it is not as severe as that pain I had.

I would agree with everyone that the chance of MMC at 12 week scan is unbelievable low, and we must all stay very positive. Again, sorry if I worried people x

So heartbroken for fizzy and misery, just catching up now and feel hugely gutted. I really hope you both come through this and experience strong, healthy pregnancies soon xxxxxxxxxx

So sorry to hear you news Fizzy and Misery. So sad. Wishing you both all the best for the future x