Will be thinking of you today Tiny 
It is my resolution to keep my fanjo between me and DH for the rest of 2013 penguinita 
Yep, they check tubes to make sure it wasn't ectopic PJen . Told me to come in straight away if I have any stomach pains.
Thanks for all the good wishes. tigs said it much better than I could. That's exactly the word I was looking for - generous . I have hidden the regular June bus for now as I don't want to see it in my threads I'm on every day (though I may pop back to say hi once in a while), but I won't hide you ladies. You've all been so supportive, it really does make a massive difference.
I'm still struggling with crippling tiredness which I think is either the fact that I still have some pg hormones going on, or just the emotional and physical toll of the last few days - the stress, the worry. Not at work now till Tuesday so have the weekend to get my head together before heading back into the classroom. Didn't tell any of my colleagues what was going on (apart from one but she was on leave for most of the week so only managed a quick catch up yesterday before I left for my appointment). My headteacher and one or two other colleagues knew I had a medical appt/scan but not what for (though I'm guessing they can put 2 and 2 together).
Just waiting for my mum to skype me. May tell her - not sure. ILs know as they looked after DS so DH could come with me yesterday afternoon, though initially he told them he had a doctor's appointment. We dropped my car home though on the way to the hospital from mw though so they knew something was up.
I guess I need to focus on the here and now for a little while since we won't be trying again till after AF arrives (3 weeks if my last mc was anything to go by, but who knows!). Doing a 15k race in 3 weeks (and am seriously behind in training), have lots of school work to crack on with and DS is super cute at the moment (plus a few tantrums here and there!).