I came on to moan about horrible heartburn, stressy day at work and having been awake since 3am, but 34pinklady's news just puts it all in perspective.
Huge congratulations, very glad to hear of Josie's safe arrival and that she is doing so well.
tarlia, I would phone up to see if they want to see you, best to err on the side of caution?
natalie, I mean this gently, but yes I do think it's a little ridiculous to put off packing your nursery bag because everything has to be new when funds are so tight. At the very least, pack the stuff you have and replace it with new as you buy it, but if money is tight, should you be saving it for something you have to spend it on? I'm a total hypocrite by the way - I haven't started packing mine yet!