Thanks comtesse, I will have a look at that as seen mentioned in reviews before. DHs family buying it so cost not too much of an issue, although obviously don't want to take the p*. The chameleon did seem a bit flimsy which isn't great considering the cost!
Glad you got checked and all is well Natalie. That sounds a reasonable idea that it is hiding its feet behind your placenta. Placentas move up during the pregnancy too (I am hoping mine moves up a lot!) so that makes sense to me.
My baby was super active last night for about an hour to the point it was quite uncomfortable and I couldn't sleep through it. Little monkey. Didn't want to post this morning when you were worried about no moving.
Roofio, I think it is completely normal to have at least a few freak outs over such a huge change in all areas of your life. Me and DH absolutely see ourselves as a team in bringing up this baby and DH is very happy to support us financially, he would rather I didn't go back to work after maternity leave. It is such an important job bringing up children and I think it should be hugely valued. I see regularly at school what can happen when it is done badly and it breaks my heart.
We didn't have a joint account until we got married though, and even now we have our own accounts as well, we both pay enough into joint account for bills and keep what is left. Mine is just enough to buy DH a christmas present and top up my phone. DH keeps a lot more, so we will have to rethink that when I have no income. Though he puts more into savings, which we have used for big things like the kitchen.