So pleased that there have been positive scans today, yay!! Eco mine is a week tomorrow too!!! I will be 12+3 according to my own calculations
this will be my 2nd scan as I had a scan at 8 weeks to rule out ectopic pregnancy due to left sided pain but it was over so quickly that I don't actually feel I had a scan - although of course it have us so much reassurance.
Dizzy I am also getting pains in my tummy, slightly cramps but I also have a very upset tummy too which isn't helping. Someone mentioned having backache down the thread? I have had back pain for weeks and had it last time too...for me it only for worse as my pregnancy went on. It's a very achy pain as opposed to sharp pains. I assume they are a mix or normal stretchy pains and upset tummy pains.
I can't remember what I have posted today as my phone had no signal when I tried to post huge replies earlier! So forgive me if I repeat anything I already said 
My nausea was so much better today - so much so that I managed a 2 course lunch which was delicious!! I was very worried that the very sudden lack of nausea was a bad sign when it came back with a bang tonight. Yuk it's awful. I can't decide if it would be better to be sick or not, though I spend all my time trying not to be.
Glad I'm not the only one whose rings are tight! Last time in only felt them right in the final weeks. This pregnancy is so different! I wonder if I am having a boy or whether it is nothing to do with gender? What do you guys think? I just don't get how two pregnancies can be so different for the same person! Is it hormone levels?
Sorry for those of you who are spotting still. Ariel although you must be so worried and dread every trip to the toilet it is positive that your spotting is brown as this is old blood.
Bangon loved your list! I would love:
- to break my mamas and papas pram and pretend it was accidental so that I could buy an icandy or bugaboo (dh would be mad!!!);
- to commit to aqua natal classes - I love swimming but didn't so this last time which I regretted;
- use reusable nappies too! (Prob wont)
- breastfeed for 1 year+ but this scares and worries me slightly
Highly recommend baby massage my dd loves it and even now age 3 we still do it occasionally, especially when using her eczema cream. We just went to a free local authority class which was good.
Tonight I have brought a selection of snacks and drinks to bed with me in case I fancy anything and it miraculously cures my nausea. So far nothing is appealing apart from the cold tap water and that's not really helping 
I don't think I can feel my fundal all the time though sometimes when lying flat I do feel a distinctly hard area - other times I can't find it. Do you guys think this is normal?
Hope you are all ok tonight 