Evening everyone, didn't get a chance to look at my mat policy in work today but dh thinks I was 6 weeks at 90% and 33 weeks at 50% too, so fairly good. i have lots of holidays still to take this year too and next years holidays to an extent. Trying not to take too many of this years before going off although will take 2 weeks in the summer to spend with dd 
Had the worst day at work today. So stressful and feel a bit overwhelmed by my workload at the moment
of course my boss doesn't know I'm pregnant which won't be helping. I didn't really want to tell him before 12 week scan but may have to just to let him know that I am struggling a bit with work, sickness, tiredness and uni all on top of being a a mummy already.
Off tomorrow as it is dds 3rd birthday 
so spending the day with her.
Dh home tonight so hoping for a decent deep sleep after hardly sleeping for 2 days. Feel really nauseous and dizzy tonight it just be linked to sleep deprivation!
Honey agree it might be a good plan to meet before the appointment to clear the air a bit? Although that might be hard of you don't want to speak with him, which is understandable.
Suffolk I have a bump too but can't see it yet with the fat on my tummy. Maas speaking to a friend today and she wore her normal jeans until well over the 20 week mark first time - second time round she couldn't button her jeans by the 12 week scan and her clothiers were right before that so it's probably fairly common 2nd or more time round. I just don't have motivation to look in shops for decent stuff to wear bit know I need to soon. I am usually a shopaholic!!!