Oh 10 my love - I have such admiration for your strength over all of this. I second everything everyone else has been saying. The only thing you can do is focus on the positives: the sheer wonderful professionalism of the staff at LWH, the expertise re your little boy and the determination of everyone to make sure he and you make it through all of this. That's what everyone is working towards. Keep talking to us, won't you.
Did manage a giggle at your battle with the moron opposite. I've fortunately never had to spend a night in hospital but if I did, that's exactly the kind of thing which would make me seethe. Keep the lights on, use her toothbrush to scrub the toilet and make sure someone rings your mobile while she's asleep. Selfish cow.
scooby congratulations!! 
well done for persevering!
On the FB group, would it show up that I've joined it on my feed? The only reason I ask is, because of various family difficulties (my sister miscarried at 12 weeks when I realised I was pregnant and it's safe to say this has not gone down well and she is still enormously delicate about the issue 5 months later) I have not revealed my pregnancy on FB. Mainly I don't want the congrats/well-wishing to affect her, which it still would do.
I live in London but am a proud Scot, and lots of my Scottish friends still don't know I'm up the duff.
So if the group outs me, I'll have to steer clear....