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November 2012 - babies arriving thick and fast

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StuntNun · 22/10/2012 07:31

Previous ante-natal thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1589461-November-2012-lots-of-babies-that-cant-wait-for-November

Post-natal thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/postnatal_clubs/1579907-November-2012-babies-are-here-at-last

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StuntNun · 26/10/2012 17:24

Slightly ahead of time but the new ante-natal thread is here: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1597357-November-2012-but-that-starts-on-Thursday

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Passmethecrisps · 26/10/2012 17:27

Snowing! YW was right!

Titsalinabumsquash · 26/10/2012 17:30

My friend is just outside Aberdeen and she has updated Facebook to say its snowing hard, I am also very Envy we stayed with her last Christmas for the whole of Dec and got one measly flurry of snow the whole time!
It's just grey and miserable looking down here in the south.

Passmethecrisps · 26/10/2012 17:36

It's very bizarre. Went out to get the washing - blue sky but freezing. Popped kettle on, went for a wee and when I came back the sky was heavy and it was snowing!

I won't miss winter driving.

tits cry for all you are worth - they sound like arseholes.

DesperateHousewife21 · 26/10/2012 17:41

It was v cold today, really windy too and it's raining, think winter is setting in and is probably here to stay.

Although cosy nights in snuggling a newborn sounds v enticing, and it's Xmas soon!

Titsalinabumsquash · 26/10/2012 17:44

DP is seriously considering looking around at private options Blush my something I'd usually do, I am very grateful for the Nhs and all that is does but this is rather taking the piss. Neither of us are sure how sic things work though.
At least I got a half decent turkey sandwich for dinner and a cup of tea! Grin

Titsalinabumsquash · 26/10/2012 17:44

*not something I'd usually do that should say!

horseylady · 26/10/2012 17:52

Tits if you can afford it - look into it but costs can mount and you can't pick and choose.

Id speak to pals. Speak to them ASAP and you tend to see results faster.

They'll be dragging their feet as they'll be wanting you to go into labour which will help with many of your issues. You should not be left in pain, you should not be left needing the loo!!! Big hugs!!

Peaky1 · 26/10/2012 17:58

I've just been out for a short walk with DP just to get me out of the house and to persuade baby to move and boy it really is a biting wind! I love wrapping up warm in cold weather though...well...obviously! Have given up and put the heating on and now it's all cosy, love it!

I was discussing the car situation with DP on the walk. I currently get a brilliant lease deal that is finishing in December and the renewal quotes still haven't come through but I know they're more than double the cost now. DP has agreed to come with me to a couple of dealerships tomorrow to see what kind of offers we can get on hire purchase older cars etc to compare to the lease renewal quotes. It did make us think about going down to one car (DP's) and I just get insured on it. I surprised myself at how I struggled to imagine living without the luxury of a car to myself. I even thought the idea of getting on a bus with a pram etc seemed too difficult for me...what a snob! Or maybe it's just laziness. I happily catch buses/trains if I need to but the idea of dealing with a pram too just seemed like a huge faff. Hmmm. Need to have a word with myself I think! Any advice or cyber-slaps from you ladies who cope perfectly without a car are welcomed!

I just think that my main worry isn't about catching buses, it's the feeling of being a bit isolated if I can't get out and about as easily as I'd like, particularly with the prediction of an arctic winter.

Passmethecrisps · 26/10/2012 18:06

peaky I cannot imagine life without 2 cars. I am just used to both of us being able to go where we want when we want and not have to consider timetables. DH works 2.5 miles away and could easily use public transport but it's just not what we are used to at all.

I know that there will be ladies on here who will navigate busses with the same ease of having their own car and without all the costs. Each to their own!

Passmethecrisps · 26/10/2012 18:07

Would you be up for a fleet-car auction? Might be able to get hold of a decent, well-maintained car pretty cheaply

MissMummy1 · 26/10/2012 18:08

Peaky we're having a similar debate. If I can convince dh to hold off buying the hilux he has his heart set on until March then we're going to trial sharing mine until then. We're fortunate enough that he only ever works during the day one week of the month, a week of nights and then 2 weeks off, so there is no real need for us to have two cars. I don't think we can justify it on effectively one income either for the sake of him needing it to drive 2 miles down the road one week of the month and then have it sit in the carpark for 12 hours while he's at sea. Having to share my car has been a bit of a culture shock though, I've always had my own car since I passed my driving test at 17!

Sending you lots of hugs tits what an awful experience to be in xxx

My weather station has just beeped to say snow is 'imminent'. It's cold enough anyway - had the heating on and fire lit all day and I'm still freezing!

horseylady · 26/10/2012 18:08

Peaky - sadly I agree with how you feel about cars!!! I rely on mine far too much!!! Plus public transport a nightmare and the busses don't always turn up!!!

MissMummy1 · 26/10/2012 18:11

Also the only public transport in our village is the train station at the top of induction hill. We've called it that aa DH is adament it will induce labour if I walk up it! Even the car struggles Hmm.

I must add he often has the option of a lift to/from work with one of his deckhands..

Peaky1 · 26/10/2012 18:17

Horsey plus there are places I will be going to visit good friends that would require several buses! Lol, so hard done-by.

MM That's the problem for me, DP works 4 days a week during the day as a physio (though I could always do the drop off-pick up...in non-snowy conditions) and he does personal training appointments during a couple of evenings a week. I'm sure it won't be as hellish as I imagine and is defo worth a trial. Surely a few taxi's here and there, bus/train, WALKING would be cheaper than £250+ a month for a car. I've hardly used mine much in the last 3-4 weeks of AL/mat leave but then I am getting a bit of cabin fever.

Pass I had no idea they existed! I've never even been to any auction before in my life. Why do fleet cars go to auction rather than go on the forecourts of the dealerships?

Peaky1 · 26/10/2012 18:18

LOL@ Induction Hill and LOL even more when I misread your sentence as 'one of his dickheads' MM Grin

Titsalinabumsquash · 26/10/2012 18:30

they're talking induction!!!! Reviewing in the morning. Fingers crossed ladies.

georgee · 26/10/2012 18:32

Oooh, Tits!! Fingers firmly crossed here for you!! xx

Passmethecrisps · 26/10/2012 18:35

Hooray tits! No resorting to a toothbrush for you! Fingers crossed they stick to it.

peaky I think it is because they usually have high mileage which makes them less attractive on a forecourt. If you check out auction websites for your area they might have certain days in the month given over to fleet auctions. You will pay more than normal auction but most cars will be relatively cheap and usually well-maintained.

DesperateHousewife21 · 26/10/2012 18:41

That's good news tits fingers crossed for you.

horseylady · 26/10/2012 18:41

Great news tits!! Same here peaky I need my car!!!

Erm can I ask wwyd? Just been to the loo as I stood up something went pop and I jumped!! Then a small amount of pink discharge came out. I've put a pad on, I've not really checked it again as I don't want to panic myself. What could it be? Do I tell dh who will go into blind panic mode when he gets in!!! We were going to the cinema tonight can we still go??!!

I've been having bh all day on and off after the pains last night? 39+2 for date people? Shall I just watch and wait?!

Peaky1 · 26/10/2012 18:44

Hmm I'll have a look at that as another option Pass thanks. It does make sense. My car is 3 years old and got nearly 40,000 miles on the clock because it's used for both business and personal (and my work is 16 miles away to start with).

Glad think are finally starting to go your way Tits but please run if they come at you with a toothbrush. I had to buy one today and shuddered as I put it in my basket!

shanelle5 · 26/10/2012 18:50

OOh horsey keep an eye on that, sounds like waters but think you would have had more fluid than you describe though not always so if just "hindwaters"? Go to cinema and try to relax if nothing else happens, you will know when you are in labour theres no missing it!
tits SO glad to hear you are being induced tomorrow - been worried for you, sounds like you have been treated terribly Angry Good luck and post when able x

Passmethecrisps · 26/10/2012 18:54

Pop like inside or pop like outside? I read somewhere that your waters breaking can feel like a pop or an elastic band twanging.

I'm going to do poker face though and not get excited for you even though it does sound awfully like something exciting!!!.

horseylady · 26/10/2012 18:54

Shanelle thanks - that's what i thought!! There wasn't much fluid but there is more pink? Perhaps it's the show? Will keep an eye on it!!