Hey all, thanks for all the messages, I'm feeling better today, less BH with lots of rest. I think baby has moved since yesterday because I'm feeling a lot of movement which I haven't before. I had to go out earlier because my eldest had parents evening and needed to go to my job for an hour to debrief the interviews we did last week. Fortunately I don't do a lot with this job, it's mostly meetings. Back in bed now.
Just going back to posts I missed.
Mandasand, my risk of rupture is (or was, it's gone down now because I am "tested") 5% which is the highest possible risk from a CS. It was enough to put everyone else off, although I would have taken it, with my second, so I do understand how scary the numbers can be, especially when you have two. Last time I did a lot of research into what a rupture means, what happens when it does, what the signs are, how the risk can be lowered etc and with the help of a wonderful Doula I went for it. I actually found far more support at the hospital than I expected. One of the things for me is that they leave me labouring until last minute and then crash me, but labour is a higher risk than pushing - although I just happened to be reading that UR is more likely to happen in pregnancy than the birth.
Sheldonella, she probably came from a time when things were different and staying home or going to work was a choice. My middlie went to nursery when she was about 18 months, when her sister left they offered me a place for her. She loved it and really thrived, I think it's good for them to have some time with other people and away from their parents, even a SAHP.
Lexi, she's in for a shock! When you've not spoken to any other adults in a week that you hope the postman brings a parcel so you can say at least two words to someone, you soon find that nothing other than talking to an adult will help; when does she think a baby will allow her to study in the first 5 years; and what does she think she will study for 5 years?
Ood, sorry to hear your news.
Vivee74, I've added clothing to the version of this on Facebook that I'm updating as we get more ideas.
tedmundo, I'm hoping for my second VBAC this time. The aspirin shouldn't be having that affect on you, it sounds like you need to see someone pretty urgently though, that's not a good thing to be going through 
myjobismum, if everything has been good for you in the past then homebirth is something to look into. Put it this way, my eldest was a crash section, the doctor came in, did a VE and said "We need this baby out now" it took them 15 minutes to prep me and the theatre for the section and another 15 minutes before she was out - that's an absolute emergency and generally you aren't surprised by one, we knew an hour ahead that it could happen, normally you have half to an hour to get to theatre. An ambulance can do the journey to hospital in less than half the time your car could and they'll have been with you quite quickly too. In the time it takes you to get to hospital they will still not have the theatre ready for you. Things like cleaning your nails, removing jewellery, tying your hair up etc can be done on the way, consent forms will be signed when you arrive still with plenty of time to get you to theatre.
Night all!