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Here come the PESH - over 3 years of hard fought baby wins!

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HaveALittleFaith · 18/09/2012 13:52

The Not-list:

BESH BAYBEES

dontrythisathome, girl born March 25 2010.
Cheggers, twinz girlz, born April 2010.
FannyPriceless, boy, born June 8 2010.
CurlyCasper, girl, born June 24 2010.
CUNextTuesday, boy, born June 29 2010.
AlpinePony, boy, born 1 July 2010.
Carrots, boy, born July 2010.
IggyPiggy, girl, born July 2010.
Cosmosis, boy, born Sept 5 2010.
Backinthebox, boy, born Sept 7 2010.
Skatergrrrl, girl, born Sept 10 2010.
VAG, boy, born Oct 2 2010.
Silversky, boy, born Nov 1 2010.
SomethingSuitablyWitty, girl born Nov 2 2010.
Honeymoo, boy, born Nov 11 2010.
okiecokie, girl, born Nov 12 2010.
ReginaMonologue, boy, born Nov 13 2010.
Lightspaperstandback, boy, born Nov 14 2010.
Maswera, boy, born Dec 24 2010.
PollyPoo, girl, born Jan 5 2011.
MrsFC, boy, born Jan 7 2011.
ChoChoSan, girl, born 6 Feb 2011.
Ginhag, boy born 11 Feb 2011.
Muser, girl, born 15 Feb 2011.
CluckyKate, boy, born 18 Feb 2011.
Perfect Dromedary, boy, born 23rd February 2011.
Casserole, girl, born 19th March 2011.
Medee, girl, born 26th March 2011.
StiffyByng, girl, born 17th May 2011.
Scorpette, boy, born 21st May 2011.
Rocketleaf, girl, born 23rd May 2011.
TwinkleToes, girl, born 7th June 2011.
Laurielou, boy, born 9th June 2011.
Orchid, girl, born 24th June 2011.
Ginfox, loving the new mega-boobs, due 12th July.
LadyGoneGaga, girl, born 24 July 2011.
Mrbitey, boy, born 29th July 2011.
Macaroonmum, boy, born 28th July 2011.
Owlbooty, boy, born 18th August 2011.
Ocarina, girl, born 6th September 2011.
Mountie, boy, born 27th August 2011.
Truffkin, boy, born 25th November 2011.
Islegrin, boy, born 14th December 2011.

Need dates:

BarbiesBeaver, can't quite believe it, due Christmas Day
BrownB, Baybee passport-grabbing bitch, due 22nd January 2012
AlpinePony, Greedy Double-Esh Baybee Boy Grabbing Bitch, due 19th Feb 2012
Rollerbaby, No pink here, expecting boy due March 20th 2012
KitandKat, third time lucky baybee, due 12th April 2012
IveBeenExpectingYou (CockDodger), A very active baby girl, due March 28th 2012
Silver, hoping for an easier sneeze, due mid-July 2012
Starryeyedmole, regretting recently investing in scales

cakeandcava (32), approaching walrus proportions, DC1 EDD 21/10/12
blonderthanred (36), no sugar I'm sweet enough, DC1 EDD 6/11/12
FriendofDorothy (36) DC1 EDD 16/12/12
LauraPalmer (38) DC1 EDD 9/2/13
Queenrollo (37) DC2 EDD 10/2/13
CamelKnees (34) fat and fatigued DC2 EDD 22/04/2013
HaveALittleFaith (31), head down toilet, DC1 EDD 26/4/13
fertilityFTW (34), weepy and whiny, DC 1 EDD 21/5/13

Welcome to our new home! :)

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HaveALittleFaith · 13/10/2012 15:02

Ok, been seen. Doctor says its either - MC (but thinks its unlikely) or another Blardy UTI! Got a script for antibiotics and urine sample sent off but he's referred me to EPAU for early scan so waiting for them for them to call.

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queenrollo · 13/10/2012 15:52

oh faith i've been busy and missed this. sending positive energy to help keep you calm.

HaveALittleFaith · 13/10/2012 16:14

Thanks queenie, well all of you. Have started the antibiotics and am home chilling on the sofa. Spotting seems to have stopped. OOH doc has rung having spoken to the gynae reg and is happy with management plan. I assume I'm still waiting for a call from the EPAU for a scan but they're only open til 6 so it might be tomorrow.

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HaveALittleFaith · 13/10/2012 18:21

So MSB rang the gynae ward who cover early pregnancy at weekends. The OOH doc was talking crap or maybe misleading not quite accurate. They don't scan on the weekend so it'd be Monday at the earliest, which leaves me in a dilemma since I'm meant to be working 7-7.30, my first day back. MSB and I have agreed we will see how I'm feeling - if the spotting continues or gets worse, I'll call in sick. If it settles and I improve on the antibiotics, I'll go in but explain I may have to leave. My head is screwed!

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blonderthanred · 13/10/2012 19:43

Oh that's so annoying they won't scan at the weekend. Sending oodles of luff and good thoughts in your direction. Given the previous UTIs it's maybe hopeful that that's the cause.

HaveALittleFaith · 13/10/2012 20:21

Yes, the doc seemed pretty certain it wasn't an MC and was UTI related, I'm holding on to that. We are keeping ourselves busy. I've started doing a cross stitch of Tigger :)

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blonderthanred · 13/10/2012 20:33

Oh that is very adorable of you. Hope the spotting has lessened now and glad you are home. Good work Faith's sister.

My little sister threw me a baby tea party today. I didn't want a shower as it seemed a bit grabby but she luffs organising parties so it seemed rude to refuse! Lots of games and nice scones. She is a sweetie.

HaveALittleFaith · 13/10/2012 20:38

Well knicker check revealed still spotting but its not got worse, maybe a bit lighter so I'm trying not to worry too much. Going to eat comfort food (chunky chicken and jacket!) to line my stomach so I can have another antibiotic.

Aw that's luffly! A tea party :) No I don't think I'd want a shower either but a tea party sounds very civilised!

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blonderthanred · 13/10/2012 20:44

It was nice, just a few friends and mums.

Glad the spotting is easing, just rest up. Work etc doesn't matter - if you have to rearrange, so be it. You are the most important thing and your bean!

blonderthanred · 14/10/2012 07:45

How are you today Faife?

HaveALittleFaith · 14/10/2012 08:26

Spotting appears to have stopped overnight so fairly confident doc was right. Will have a chilled out day but try and make it to church this morning.

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blonderthanred · 14/10/2012 08:28

Phew! I had a good dream that it had so I am relieved it was right.

HaveALittleFaith · 14/10/2012 08:30

:) dreaming about me?! How sweet! Yes, phew indeed.

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blonderthanred · 14/10/2012 09:00

I have had several dreams about the ESH, is that weird? I guess it is a bit.

Feel really off and anxious today. I don't think I should have parties, I just spend the next few days worrying that I said the wrong thing to people. Not helped by the fact that my mum had a go at me for not seeming grateful enough to my sister. Which I was. I obviously don't express things very well when I am feeling anxious.

LauraPalmerPlusOne · 14/10/2012 09:08

I've been away and missed all the drama - really glad to see you're in good spirits Faife. I'm so sorry you've had to go through a stressful 48 hours and that the whole UTI issue is still such a bugger.

The tea party sounds lovely! (And now I want some scones!) Being one of those dirty Americans, I would never consider a baby shower to be 'grabby' but I understand that it's different over here (& on MN), so it sounds like your sister found a wonderful way to celebrate your pregnancy (which, in the US, is what showers are about anyway!) Smile

With the bad rep showers get on MN, it's funny that in all my many, many years I've never been to a US wedding or baby shower where people play games though...we sit around chatting and drinking champagne or tea! And many of the showers I've gone to include partners. It's really just a social occasion to celebrate!

FriendofDorothy · 14/10/2012 11:14

I am finding that I am doing a lot of sleep talking. I seem to be having very vivid dreams and and then waking up sitting up in bed and talking. I actually shook The Mister awake last night. I was really distressed and sleep talking. My poor Mister didn't quite know what to do!

Glad you are feeling better today faith. Fingers crossed. X

blonderthanred · 14/10/2012 11:48

Yeah I guess it's funny LP, we're happy to do hen nights and so on but baby showers are still seen as a bit of an oddity. Maybe it's the term shower? I've only been to one other and that was a dinner and chat.

My sis looks after children for a living and all her parties have games or themes, she's famous for it and if you come to one of her bday parties you know there will be Pictionary involved somewhere! I am a ball of anxiety and embarrassment most of the time, I'm sure I'd be a lot happier if I just let go a bit. Hope I don't pass it on to the baybee...

Scones were luffly. Ginger ones. Yum.

LauraPalmerPlusOne · 14/10/2012 12:06

I actually LOVE games! Blush (Pictionary being a particular favourite.) I'd get on well with your sister!

I've been having weird dreams, too. Most of them are really really sexual - in very strange ways. Not sure what that's all about. And the other night I had a really sad dream where I woke myself up crying!

blonderthanred · 14/10/2012 12:12

Pictionary is very fun. She even had a quiz at her wedding which was good too. And Father Christmas came!

Where did you go to LP? sorry if you've said, I can't remember.

HaveALittleFaith · 14/10/2012 13:15

I'm reassured that the screaming in your sleep thing is normal. Not so reassured that it continues for so long!

I luff games too. Such fun! I guess in Britain you get gifts for a wedding but we wouldn't have a shower beforehand, same we wouldn't throw a shower to get stuff for a baybee.

We made it to church. I'm glad we did. We sent up some pretty heartfelt prayers yesterday! MSB was keeping a baybee entertained. After a point the baybee kept looking at him expectantly like come on, keep entertaining me! it was very cute :)

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FriendofDorothy · 14/10/2012 14:54

We had board games on the tables at our wedding.

My cousin Stef and I are lying on the sofas catching up on last nights x-factor. What's everyone else up to?

cakeandcava · 14/10/2012 15:21

So glad to read you're doing better Faith -scary stuff. Will you get a scan on Monday instead now?

I luff board games too -am a bit of a board game geek actually Blush My brother and I often play intricate strategy game-style thingys whenever we meet at Christmas and holidays -it's a sibling bonding thing.

I'm finding it harder and harder to sleep -last night I was lying wide awake for hours before I finally calmed down. I wonder if it is some subconscious restlessness or summat. I feel ok and prepared, but I'm sure there are tons of weird emotions going on at some deeper level. 39 weeks today...

blonderthanred · 14/10/2012 15:37

Wow cake not long to go. Are you doing any pineapple shagging or just waiting to see what happens?

I am in a bit of a blue funk today. Anxiety, tears etc.

cakeandcava · 14/10/2012 15:49

Pineapple, raspberry leaf tea, spicy food and walking, yes. Shagging, not so much. I am the walrus. But might give it a go if we get desperate in a few weeks' time.

Hope you feel better soon blondie. Your emotions just go overboard towards the end I think (well, technically the go overboard throughout the whole damn pregnancy...). You'll be there soon -just a few more weeks until you get to meet your baybee! :)

HaveALittleFaith · 14/10/2012 16:05

I don't know re the scan. I'm rota'd on at work so I'm going to go in but tell my boss about everything. My ward is close to the mat wing do I may just have to leave. If they say Tuesday it'll be fine because I'll be day off.

cake 39 weeks! Poke that baybee out! Do you have a burfing plan? Sorry you haven't been sleeping well. Guess your brain won't switch off?

blonde would you like a cuddle with the cod of comfort? The BESH gave it to me but I'm happy to pass it on!

Have you guys ever played Rat race? It's the favourite game in our house. Made by Wadfingtons who did monopoly. Never got as famous as monopoly but we like it because even if you go bust you can start again! There's always an outright winner too. you can get it quite cheaply on eBay :)

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