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November 2012 - but that's the month after next

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StuntNun · 16/09/2012 06:33

Previous thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1556125-November-2012-the-ten-week-countdown

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kirrinIsland · 19/09/2012 20:54

Elijah is a great name - it was on my boys list.

horsey that sounds horrid. I don't know how midwives etc deal with that part of their job - I couldn't do it :(

I had a lovely day out with DD and friends today, but now I am exhausted and I ache all over. I'm definitely counting down the days now.......

ValiumQueen · 19/09/2012 20:57

I need a poo too evil

daisy I had a catheter before my epidural when I was induced for my VB, and also with my section. If you cannot walk to the toilet, you will need one, and the contractions with the induction drip were instantly relentless, so I could not control my bladder at all. It is not nice, but better than sitting in piss all the time. Also if you have fluids, like with the drip, they need to monitor what goes in and out.

Evilwater · 19/09/2012 21:02

I heard a rumour that diet coke is a laxative, but i never drink the stuff. I also hear it makes a great toilet cleaner.
I know blackberries for me usually helps in that department, but because I'm prego who knows.

horsey OMG..... That's awful.
Evil

Sophiathesnowfairy · 19/09/2012 21:10

I had a catheter after a forceps delivery with a spinal block.

Catbag · 19/09/2012 21:15

I too am in the need-a-poo club. Have eaten the babies body weight in lentils this evening in the hope that tomorrow will be Joyful Poo Day.

GTbaby · 19/09/2012 21:18

5w5days. OMG. So close (scared face).

Ok. Am I being crazy? I have the opportunity to do a gcse in computing starting in October. It's a 3 hour session every two weeks. Am I crazy for wanting to do it with a new born? Well start it while i have a new born? But then I think it's a gcse, and I'm a teacher! How hard an it be? My head is in a spin Sad

Catbag · 19/09/2012 21:54

Had another growth scan yesterday. The scan was ( I think) fine, but the whole experience left me feeling very hormonal and tearful. Went in for the scan almost straight away, but then was left for 2 hours in the waiting room, watching other people who had arrived after me go in, until I was the last person left. When finally summoned to see the consultant, the conversation went like this:

Consultant: How are you feeling?
Me: Fine (a little grumpily)
Consultant: Great, ok, well we'll see you for your final scan at 36 weeks then
Me: Oh

The only other time that I saw the consultant was at my dating scan when they discovered I was carrying twins; I've seen a registrar at every other appointment. I did manage to spend at least 5 minutes in the room with them though. At my last appointment the registrar said that they would be scanning me every fortnight UP TO 36 weeks, and then weekly thereafter, which is something that now appears not to be the case. I went into labour at 33 weeks (which I will be on Monday) with my last set of twins and so have form for premature delivery. I was kind of expecting that they might be discussing plans for labour at this appointment, however briefly, since I could well deliver before 36 weeks.

By this time it is well after 1pm. It'll take me an hour to drive home and leave me exactly no time to have a nap or do anything useful before picking up the DDs from school. Already, I am tearful at the prospect of no nap.

When I got into the car, I opened up the notes to have a look at the scan report. It has Twin1 weighing 3llbs 15oz and Twin2 weighing 4llbs 4oz. At previous scan T1 was 3llbs 14oz and T2 3llbs 7oz. Now either this is a big cock-up and they've got them the wrong way round, which would mean actually that they have both put on just under half a pound, OR T1 has only gained 1oz in a fortnight and T2 has piled on almost a pound. Either way, it was not referred to at all, even to just reassure me that they labelled them wrong. I am even more tearful at this point.

Finally got home, opened mobile phone bill and was presented with the sum of £136, which is outrageously high. Turn out that DS, who has a sim only contract on my account at a cost of £10 per month, stupidly signed up for one of these idiotic quiz-things by text in order to win an ipad or some other such loony and unlikely thing. Said quiz was then charging him £10 per text. Called Orange and kicked off- they said it was a third party agreement and therefore there was nothing they could do about it. Called helpline number in one of the texts to demand son be unsubscribed. Phone answered by a very bland-sounding Asian man. I stropped about how this was a disgrace and questioned how it was possible for my son to enter essentially into a contract for services when he is only 13? Bland-Asian-Man blandly stated that he had removed my son's phone number and he was now unsubscribed, several times. I then asked him to confirm that my son's number had been removed from the database. He said 'no, if he signs up again, he will be subscribed again. I suggest you take better care of your son'. I said' thank you for your advice', hung up and burst into tears. Again.

It wouldn't be so bad if it hadn't come straight on the back on DS getting into trouble at the weekend too. We use Plusnet as our ISP and have a 60GB download allowance per month. We pay £5 per 5GB that we use over that. For the last 4 months we have averaged between 40-70GB OVER our allowance, which has cost us a fortune. Turns out that DS has been downloading like a mofo and spending lots of time on Youtube too (as evidenced by the watching of 29 vids on Friday alone). What really got him into trouble was him trying to cover his tracks. Unfortunately for him, DH is a computer programmer and is better than DS at this sort of stuff.

I didn't tell DH about the phone thing. I couldn't face him hitting the roof again. Today has been better. Sorry for the rant people :/

MissMummy1 · 19/09/2012 21:59

As another naive first timer gtbaby I don't think you're mad at all. I plan to take December and most of January off then pick up 2 or 3 of my tutoring clients again. Thinking a couple of hours a week is manageable plus it will give DH some daddy/junior bonding time. Ask me again in January though if I still think it's a good idea!

daisychain76 · 19/09/2012 22:07

So stressed now -blood pressure suddenly leapt up but mw did not seem interested (previous mw checked again after meds, etc, for smaller rise). This mw spent 15 mins telling me about how stressful her job is then left with a ?call me if tou need me?. Plus another mw forgot to give me my meds or do bp earlier. Hate feeling unsafe in the place l should feel safest!

Ps thanks for the info re catheters vq.

MissMummy1 · 19/09/2012 22:21

Catbag fc the weight thing's just a mistake. If it was serious they'd have surely mentioned it? If it's any consolation my mum's going through similar stresses with my teenager sister and step brother. He's run up a £200 phonebill phoning/texting his girlfriend (he's 15 - mum and partner have never met her) and my sister (17) has thrown a massive strop my mum won't pay for her car insurance. To the point she's now alledgedly moving in with our dad. Between the 3 teenagers still at home (my other sister's 14) they manage to go over their 'unlimited' broadband by about £40 a month, every month. Maybe it's a teenager thing? Everything's a drama.

Daisy I'd deliberately be a huge pain in the arse till i felt i was being looked after properly! Take care xx

georgee · 19/09/2012 22:37

Sorry you've not had the best days today Catbag and daisy.

Just to say I share YW's name and spelling. 5 of us on the thread then?

There's a thread in Baby Names at the moment about naming your absolute favourite girl's name. Given me some food for thought anyway! I've added Helena to the list. It's not actually anyone's favourite but Elena is and I remember trying for that last time but DH saying no - but he does like Helen. So I'll give that a try!

I've had a catheter too with the CS but I think they put it in in epidural stage because I simply could not tell I needed a wee and my bladder was massive and hindering things! Nice! Overwhelming memory of catheter though was the thought that my FIL was sitting within a metre of my weebag when he came to visit the baby. Oh, and getting up once forgetting it was attached to me. Ouch.

'Night all.

Dixiebell · 19/09/2012 22:43

DS is 2 in a couple of weeks. He says "mummy got baby in tummy, it come out", and "baby bruvva". and he says when it comes he's going to be gentle and stroke baby's hair. So thought he'd got it. But yesterday he was insisting that both he and his toy rabbit had babies in their tummies Hmm.

blonderthanred · 19/09/2012 22:47

I'm in the same name gang too - different spelling though.

Passmethecrisps · 19/09/2012 22:48

Evening all. Parents' evening tonight. Not long home so totally knackered. Was pleasant though.

Interesting chat about arnica and raspberry leaf tea. Will get on that.

valium we get a tour sort of the ward in a few weeks when we go for the classes thing. The labour rooms are a virtual tour online. I have heard good things with jt being brand new.

People were also exclaiming about how I can't have long left - I must have looked particularly enormous today. No more "goodness, aren't you neat" for me!

Iheartpasties · 20/09/2012 00:08

sorry to hear about the stress ladies, sounds awful!

GTbaby · 20/09/2012 03:55

Oh oh awake again. Hope this isn't a pattern building up.

Iheartpasties · 20/09/2012 04:35

I have two people in two days tell me that I am looking good and they cant believe there is only 7 weeks to go! That made me feel good. I know it really depends on what I am wearing, a flattering dress helps, other outfits do not help at all and make me look massive!

Lilliana · 20/09/2012 07:30

Thanks for the info about raspberry leaf tea and arnica, another thing to add to my list.

Not looking forward to the teenage years so much now though!

We don't get to look around the mat unit any more - they have 3 virtual tours on youtube to show you around but not sure how old / up to date they are and they have been doing work to the unit for ages now - fx it is finished by the time we get there.

Around what time does baby stop turning around? Atm mw says baby is breech and back to back but I'm guessing there is still plenty of time for that to change (31+5)

MM I was thinking of doing a bit of tutoring after a few months too, not sure if that is mad or not so will wait and see.

DesperateHousewife21 · 20/09/2012 07:34

I think I had to have a catheter because I had stitches but I think next time I'll say I'd really like to avoid having one. I'm sure not everyone who has stitches has to have a catheter?

There's an NCT sale in my area in a couple of weeks which I've been looking forward to since the last one! Hoping to get some more bits for the baby.

Spending the day with my mum, sis and youngest nephew today. Going out for lunch and taking kids to the beach.

Evilwater · 20/09/2012 09:12

Well I'm one month today!!! Yep. One month... Shock so next week, if he decides to come early he will be 37 weeks. Shock
Eeek...
Evil

Titsalinabumsquash · 20/09/2012 09:13

Argh, DP has just confessed that although on the outside he is cool and calm, he is actually going nuts with worry/fear about life as a dad! I'm not sure how to respond to this... It's normal for a first timer right?

TheDetective · 20/09/2012 09:14

DP seems to be keeping to his schedule, and doing a pretty decent job of things. Im off to sleep. In my clean house Grin I could get used to this!

Ps. I'm sleeping like a log. Always sleep better on nights because I have the bed to myself! Yay! Sorry to the insomniacs! But why not kick the other halves out for a better sleep?!

NervousAt20 · 20/09/2012 09:24

Haven't caught up on the thread yet but seems there's alot of people who wanted the flu jab, just wondering why we need it? Ive got to have mine today

NervousAt20 · 20/09/2012 09:24

Goes back to catch up on thread...

ValiumQueen · 20/09/2012 09:31

daisy I am so sorry you feel unsafe in a place where you should feel most safe. Hopefully that selfish incompetent cow is not on much. I know they are busy, but they have a responsibility to care for you and your little one. I think the reason, indeed I know the reason my first birth was so awful, was because I did not feel safe. The communication was awful. I hope you have since had some reassurance, as feeling unsafe is not likely to help your BP! It is hard to be a PITA also, as you worry that they will ignore you further, but you can ask to see the senior midwife or doctor at any point. You may need to wait a bit, but you have the right.

catbag most likely a mistake, but not good I agree! Shocking they did not discuss birth options, especially with your history! I have a cervix that will not open without dynamite, but we discussed it at 34 week appointment. I would encourage you to chat to your MW perhaps to express your concern. As for that phone, gosh! I did not know that could happen. I will be old and senile before my kids are teenagers, which is some comfort Grin

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