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Due in October 2012 Part 7 - towards the finish line, going for Gold!

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Planktonette · 30/08/2012 20:39

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Beccus · 16/09/2012 18:49

kyria, forgot to ask what's your posture like? If u r a bit slumped through the upper back, try some movements to correct your posture to give more space to the front of your chest. Also, try some deep breaths and visualising more space around your chest.

Can you find something likie a yoga mat you can roll up and place under your spine and just lie on your back for a few minutes with arms at 90 to your body, elbows flexed at 90, possibley with pillow under them to support them, but they should be lower than the top of your chest. Again this will push chest forward, openning chest, and do deep breaths, visualising the extra space you are creating for baby.

Zara1984 · 16/09/2012 18:49

Just a quick check-in ladies - hope you're all well! Spotted Angelico talking about nursing bras - I just bought some today, online!

Got the stretchy microfibre type to see me through the final weeks (current bras getting a bit tight, but don't want to buy any more non-nursing ones) and until I figure out my right size once boobs have settled down. Bought a couple of Bravado ones from this website which has fantastic range and customer service!! Also got a Boob Design Fast Food Bra (also stretchy/size adjustable type). To hell with waiting at M&S to get measured...

Also bought some nursing tops and a nursing dressing gown, and another nursing dress.... I think I've spent close to a grand at this point on nursing clothes and maternity clothes!! Blush Definitely more than I've spent on anything for the baby...!! But I have felt very comfy and stylish and plan on keeping it all for the next one!

simonthedog · 16/09/2012 19:32

Hi all i've been lurking since the start but was too afraid to post after a miscarriage last december. I gave birth to Betsy my beautiful little girl on wed. I was 35 weeks due on oct 17th. We are still in hospital, but i am so happy. Good luck to all of you.

Angelico · 16/09/2012 19:39

Good links Zara thanks :)

Hi Simon and congrats on your bean, hope all goes well for you both :)

Fjord am feeling your pain - literally. Don't know what I did today but the bean has DROPPED big time Confused Her head feels like it is pressing on my fanjo, is very odd sensation. Hope it's not going to be like this for the next week and a half as I was feeling quite comfy thank you very much! Confused

WantAnOrange · 16/09/2012 20:25

Squid well done on doing the walk. A friend of mine is losing his battle with cancer, he's right in the end stages. He's only 28. Sad

I am 36+4 now and DS arrived at 36+6 with no complications so I'm not worried. It would just be a bit more convienient if she stayed put for a bit longer. Suppose I should get my ass into gear and get the house sorted and college work done!

Yomping That sucks, but I bet your DP is a wonderful Dad, because he knows how not to do it, if that makes sense! I'm with you on unsolicited advice. It hasn't bothered me much up til now but last week on the school run I had like 5 people tell me how tiny I am. I answer bluntly "she is measuring quite small for her dates but midwife says not to worry, we're keeping a close eye" I hope this reminds people that having a small bump is not some achievement on my part, but actually a concern.

Angelico I went to Mothercare for nursing bras the other day and was really disappointed. They had literally no choice in my size. Just one pack! And they were unpractical colours so I didn't buy them. I only wanted a plain white and plain black! Got them in Marks and Spencer instead, who had a much better range.

Kyyria have you tried getting down on your hands and knees for a while? Looks daft but it helps me sometimes.

My back's hurt all day and have been in a foul mood, really tearful and snappy. Poor DH and DS. I did get to read DS the first chapter of Paddington bear though which cheered me up. Usually Daddy does bedtime stories. DH did the dishes and put a load of washing on while I was reading, and made me a cup of tea! Shock

DS has sports day tomorrow and I'm very worried about standing around all day. They have events on in the morning and in the afternoon, and we are expected to leave and come back Hmm. Well organised that school!

CWest30 · 16/09/2012 20:47

simonthedog welcome to the thread and congratulations!!!!!

Who was it who said the first baby on this thread would be someone unexpected?! Looks like that was right LOL :)

Woke up today with the most awful backache, my bump has changed shape and definatly dropped - so much so that I've felt like she's going to fall out of me all day!! Never felt so much pressure "down there" before. Don't remember it from DS so its a really odd sensation.

Had a lovely day with DH as DS was having a sleepover at my sisters. We even attempted to DTD, but I think DH was too worried about hurting baby as it didn't "work". Never mind, was the closest we've got to it in about 5 months!!

I've been wondering if the tightness and pains I get are proper BH too, or if I just need a poo! Pooing is so bloody awkward coz of those flipping iron tablets, be glad when I'm off them!

Well final consultant appt tues (when I should be able to state my preference for a GA) and got my pre op assesment on weds. Then, that's it! Apart from......

AAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRGGGGGHHHHH 8 DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYSSSSS!

smileyhappymummy · 16/09/2012 21:09

simon lots of congratulations on your baby, very exciting.
cwest 8 days.... Wow! Iron tablets are evil to take, I chickened out and have now got spatone, not sure how well it's working though as still fee dizzy loads of the time, even sitting down, but at least I haven't got perpetual stomach cramps. Good luck with appt hope you can get all your questions answered and a plan you feel happy and confident with.
zara really like the look of that fast food bra, as well as loving the name, makes me smile. Prob ought to get another nursing bra, just wearing what I had last time but they aren't massively comfortable so probably not the right size,don't want to end up with mastitis from badly fitting bras!
squid well done on the walk, what an achievement especially at this point. Was in Sheffield yesterday seeing friends and we were pottering round the food fair (well they pottered I lumbered around it in an undignified and awkward fashion but never mind!) thought of you.
Have had a nice relaxed family day today. Not done anything too exciting, just nice lunch, seen good friends, playing games with dd and enjoying it being the three of us plus bump before we have a family of four. I am really excited, but also want to enjoy this time with just dd. Does that make sense?
Long day at work tomorrow. Not looking forward to that, starting to regret planning to work up to 38+ weeks but maybe will be glad afterwards when I don't have to fret so much about going back.

lisbethsopposite · 16/09/2012 21:09

Hello all, just back from being fed and minded at mums.
Thank goodness all beans have remained in situ - tut tut, you are not invited out ...yet.

Yomping Stop feeding your dark dog, you will drag yourself down. You and DH and bean are your own family now, a wonderful little family!! Overall, my extended family are great, and my in laws are fine - but there are some issues and members who make me glad I see little of them. I'm sure they have issues with me and DH as well, but I don't care/want to know Grin
Keep your eye on the good stuff and feed your bright dog!!
You are articulate, loving and fun with a great career, a wonderful DH and about to be a mum. Could your life be better?
I often think of writing a letter of complaint - you could treat yourself to a coffee and chilled out half hour with a magazine, or you could write a letter and dwell on whatever issue it is. I sometimes think, I am not on their payroll, it is not my job to improve their service - let them go and pay a 'secret shopper', I'll just tell my friends. Grin

I would consider writing a letter of complaint to your ballet school Elpis Shock at leaving a 3yr old to wander around alone, within the class time. (or even after - you could have been unavoidably delayed). I would not run to the loo and leave my 3yr old in the lobby alone like that - what were they thinking of???

lisbethsopposite · 16/09/2012 21:18

Congrats Simon stick around - there is a post natal thread with links further up attached to this, keep an eye on it too - I think it was started by YompingJo. I can't do links. Blush

We'd love to hear more about you - was this #1? Sorry about the MC. When you have time, you might tell us a bit of Betsy's birth - you would have an interested audience for EVERY detail Grin

londonlivvy · 16/09/2012 21:21

Hi everyone,

Slightly odd to hear everyone talking about imminent birth concerns and pains when D Day is still so far off for me (probably). I wish you all the best luck and the best staying inside thoughts for those that need to orange. and the best COME ON OUT for those of you who are at term and bored of being pregnant!

We had our housewarming party yesterday which as great fun though manic, trying to chat to everyone and sort food and drinks for everyone and so on. Today I feel AWFUL. Sore throat, feverish, exhausted. I have achieved absolutely nothing - slept and watched a james bond film - and feel bad that I haven't done any of my coursework. UGH. if I feel like this tomorrow I am not going to work. I'm taking paracetomol and trying to drink lots of water. Any other tips?

Oh and one of DF's colleagues brought various bits of baby stuff to the party including a small baby gym (YAY) a larger baby gym (undecided), a baby walker (NCT lady was very against - said is v.bad for hips / walking development) and another large plastic item that I haven't worked out yet. I am not ready for this much plastic tat in our lovely new home!!!!

Kyyria, I'm told that being on all fours, washing the floors, can help them to have more space, so baby can move. Alternatively Beccus suggestion would work or just sitting upright, cross legged (not on the sofa), reaching up with your hands, then leaning over to the other side, creates a sense of space in the ribs. OR maybe try swimming?

Simon congratulations!!

I am full with envy re all your comfy bras but I think I'm going to have to make a trip to a Big Boobed retailer as most of those soft cup bras say they cope with boobs up to an F. And I'm beyond that. At the moment brastop has some decent Cheesecake nursing bras which don't look bad. How much bigger do your boobs get when the milk comes in? I'm debating ordering some bras now though I'm only 33 weeks. Theoretically my back size will go down too, right? I started as a 30F and now a 34G or GG so I guess I should go down to a 32 when baby comes out? But a 32 H? or larger? (lordy - doesn't bear thinking about - my sister ended up as a K or an L as I recall).

Yomping yay re finishing work. Hope you get a bit of chilling out time before baby arrives.

Sorry to anyone I've forgotten. Bit low on mojo.

Kyyria · 16/09/2012 21:45

Hey simonthedog waves

You're welcome to join us for a proper chat - we don't bite Grin Hope everything went well with the birth - as lisbeth says we'd love to hear the story if/when you feel ready Smile

Right, I am going to try being on all fours for a bit before bed and see if it makes me and the bean a bit more comfortable x

Elpis · 17/09/2012 07:27

Hideous night. Woken at 2am by what I can only describe as a 'reverse gulp' - sudden influx of saliva into my throat, like choking. Is this reflux?

By 4am I was being kicked in the bladder, ribs and cervix, and BH-type sucking sensations were pulling at my stomach. More gulping.

At 5am I heard scuffling sounds from under the bed. Yes, the rodent that ate half my hospital bag was back to see if he could find more delicacies in my handbag. Woke DH and the vermin ran away to his hole.

5.45am: DH up for work. Still not asleep.

7am: DD comes into bed. First day of preschool today. Already have that eyes-stretched, prickly sleepless feeling.

Kyyria · 17/09/2012 07:53

Sending hugs elpis

I had a slightly better night than the previous 2 but was still tossing and turning all night. Thankfully the point at which the LO was ramming my ribs again it was 5:30am and alarm clock was aboutto go off.

lisbethsopposite · 17/09/2012 07:58

Another bad night here -
Bizarre dreams/weeing combo. Dreamt I was living in a rented house with group of people (October mums??), anyway an old man died and we did not get round to burying him so we kept the body in the house, in it's coffin. When other people found out they were like 'can I leave this body here too and then you can get rid of them all together' WHICH WE DID!!!!
SO, I decided one Saturday that I was going to get all these bodies removed in a fit of housekeeping zeal. There were now bit of bodies in people wardrobes, so I instructed housemates to gather up all body parts and called an undertaker to come and collect for burial. Instead the police arrived and we couldn't remember where the different bodies came from or who they were, and there was starting to be a smell, and I was too full of adrenalin to go back to sleep!!!

I lay there from 5 until 6.45AM, then I gave up, I'm up since and god I feel cranky, not in that blue morose pregnant helpless way, more like the road rage way. Actually feel full of energy -

Elpis you gotta get rid of them before you bring home baby (talking about a surplus bit of adviceGrin)

Gotta go and use some of this energy to do something useful around the house!

hufflepuffle · 17/09/2012 09:00

Lisbeth............. !!!!!!!!!! That is some dream!!!!!! Old wives tale is that dreaming of death equals birth, quite appropriate really, lots of bodies in your dream, lots of us having babies!!! But what a story!!! Mad!

Happy Monday all, off to work again, grrrrrrr

squidkid · 17/09/2012 09:12

Have just discovered boyfriend has bought whole wheel of Tunworth and it is in the back of the fridge ready for post-labour gorging. Oh wow.

Beeblebear · 17/09/2012 10:23

Good morning (3am again)

Well ladies, new panic of the day...I CAN.T GET MY WEDDING RING OFF. for weeks I have kept checking and it had come off ok, but overnight my finger has swollen and now there is no way it's coming off. Ladies if you havn't done so already TAKE YOUR RINGS OFF NOW! Will try drinking lots of water today and totaly cutting s ask t to drop my fluid retention and try some of the tricks from the internet... Will keep you posted. Sure hope it doesn.t have to be cut off.

firstbubba · 17/09/2012 10:42

beeblebear trying running your finger under very cold water for a while, apply some Vaseline to finger and give it a go may take several attempts, good luck

crazypaving · 17/09/2012 10:47

lisbeth that is a hell of a dream! Urghh!! Pregnancy has a lot to answer for!

Elpis sorry you had such a crap night. Sending lots of energetic vibes your way for today....not that I have many (story to follow)

CWest holy CRAP 8 days? Oh. My. God.

simonthedog hello and huge congratulations!!!

kyyria glad you got a slightly better sleep last night. How annoying that your baby has found a comfortable place that doesn't really work for you...have you tried any of the spinning babies-type manoeuvres?

londonlivvy Shock at your knockers Grin Mine got a lot bigger when the milk actually came in, but don't think that's everyone's experience. Hope you're feeling better today, and if not, that you're resting up. Blimey, you need it!!!

smiley good luck with your long day today.

wantanorange do you think you're in a bad mood because things are on the move? It's so hard with little ones when you're tired and grumpy Sad Thanks for you

Well I had a bit of a scare last night. I was feeling pretty shocking yesterday, really wiped out and crap. Got to 9.30 and decided to go to bed, lay down and realised there was a distinct absence of any movement in my tummy. And couldn't remember when I last felt any. Which is really unusual for me - this baby is like a permanent rodeo, usually.

Went downstairs, moved about, drank iced drinks, lay on my left side etc etc, nothing. Sat in my car driving seat (sounds weird but the baby seems to love/hate it and always kicks the crap out of me there) - nothing. Rang delivery suite, they said to come in. DH had to stay at home with DS so I had to drive myself. Was terrified, and threw up all the water I'd drunk on the way Sad

Not a great experience at the hospital. It was really quiet but I had to wait for half an hour or so. Then a really abrupt, non-communicative midwife strapped me to a monitor, took MRSA swabs from nose, throat and groin (WTF? She didn't even take a fecking urine sample but she took MRSA swabs?) and said she'd be back in half an hour.

By this point I'd heard the heartbeat and I guess all the stress had woken the baby up because he/she began to kick the crap out of the machine strapped to me. So I pressed my buzzer (I was in a room with a closed door, alone) and asked to go home. It was 11.30 by this point and I was practically weeping with exhaustion and the shock of the whole thing. Midwife came back in after 20mins, took the machine off, told me I was self-discharging against advice and would need to sign a form. I said fine - she had explained precisely nothing to me and I just wanted to go home. She went to get my notes, and took another 20mins doing it - if she'd just left me strapped to the goddamn machine she'd've got the half hour monitoring she wanted. She eventually wandered back in, eating something, handed me my notes and told me I was "free".

I then wandered round the hospital for a good 20mins lost because all the usual exits had been shut and there were no signs for the out-of-hours exit.

Got home at 12.30, and had to be up at 6.30 with DS this morning as usual, running after him and doing a usual day. I'm tired and I'm really really fucking relieved that I'm having a homebirth. If I have to transfer to hospital for any reason they'll have to drag me by my hair Sad When I told the hospital mw that I was having a homebirth she said "oh dear" and looked very disapproving.

I have only had bad experiences of that godawful hospital.

Sorry, very long rant. Not a good night and I'm tired and not in the best of moods obviously!

crazypaving · 17/09/2012 10:50

beeble also try elevating your hand for a while to let the fluids run out. I haven't been wearing my wedding ring for a while because I've been so paranoid - wearing a different, bigger ring! Hope you get it off - don't panic!

Angelico · 17/09/2012 10:54

Morning all :)

WantanOrange thanks for bra tip off - there is a Mothercare AND an M&S in the shopping centre I'm going to go to so will see what they have :)

CWest hope the appt goes well tomorrow and sympathy on the bean drop front. She might move up a little bit - I found sitting with feet up helped last night. And to you and Smilie - the iron tablets have reduced me to 'Angelico point five poo' (ie every two days) but I do feel so much better taking them that they must be doing something.

Livvy congrats on the party - think you earned a sofa day after that. We haven't bothered having a housewarming because I want to be able to have a few drinks at ours so we'll probably just do something at Xmas or New Year Angelico starts expressing now :o

Elpis and Lisbeth - bad nights by all accounts! Not sure which was worse Confused lol - the real beastie on the prowl or the imaginary beasties stalking through dreams :o

Huffle I sense a latte and an ice cream in Morelli's coming on... :o

Squid that cheese is my worst nightmare (apart from maybe that cheese with some fish added to it, that would be worse again :o). My lush equivalent will be a piece of some dessert with cream and a coffee

Beeble my finger puffed up the night in hospital and my wedding ring came off. I ran it under the cold tap and used liquid soap to get it off, might be worth a try? Haven't been able to wear my engagement ring for months, quite looking forward to getting it back on!

Have realised that I'm still losing weight Confused. Have lost between 4 and 5lbs in the last week and have been very hungry the last few days, in spite of eating exactly the same. No to low ketones. Don't know if the bean is trying to have a final growth spurt? Bloods have been perfect and I'm eating really well and healthily so don't want to suddenly just eat more carbs in case it sends sugars rocketing. Seeing endocrinologist tomorrow luckily so will ask her advice Confused

Fuck, just over a week to go Confused Where are the days going???

Angelico · 17/09/2012 10:58

Crazy cross posted there - you poor thing. Glad you and bean were okay but am Shock at that MW! What a fantastic bedside manner... Hmm Hopefully you won't need to go back there and can just get settled in at home - can't believe she looked disapproving about homebirth, no wonder women would rather have well-attended homebirths than just get abandoned in hospitals! Sounds like you interrupted supper Hmm Hope you're okay today x

Londonmrss · 17/09/2012 11:19

Poor you, Crazy, that sounds horrible. But everything's ok, that's the main thing. Try and relax today.

I've developed a REALLY REALLY painful boob. It's not the nipple, it's the tissue below and on the outside towards my armpit. There is nothing to see or feel, but it's agony- kept me awake most of the night. Got an appointment at the docs tomorrow in case it's somehow infected, although I would have thought there would be other symptoms if it was. Anyone else had anything similar? I remember one of you getting mastitis in the early months (I'm so sorry, I can't remember who that was)- was it like this? Can't believe how painful it is. If it was both tits, I'd assume it was normal pregnancy crap, but as it's just the one- and it came on fairly acutely yesterday, I'm not sure. Sad

londonlivvy · 17/09/2012 11:28

LondonMrs I had mastitis back at about 20 weeks - boobs (both, but one muchmore than the other) were very engorged (rock solid) and very hot to touch. Incredibly painful. As I recall, cabbage leaves that had been in the fridge, shoved down the bra, helped. Not sexy, nor glam, but might be worth a try whilst waiting for the doc (and I feel certain it can't do any harm).

Crazy I am very OMG re the MW too. Cripes. Hoping the ones I get on the day will have slightly more milk of human kindness. But glad all is ok in the end.

I am feeling rough as anything today - sore throat, feverish, sick, sweaty, - so am at home. Got up when DF did, had brekkie then realised this was pointless and went back to bed. Rubbish.

Beeble good luck re ring. Sure you'll find a solution.

Liesbeth that is one mighty weird dream!!

CWest30 · 17/09/2012 11:36

squid and angelico how are both feeling as we only have a week left????!!!

I have a faint glimmer of excitement about finally getting to meet her, but am mostly scared lol. I know I'll be fine once she's here, its over, and im on the road to recovery. It will also be a relief not to be pregnant anymore and I can't wait to see what she looks like!

At lease it should be over quite quick, I am being admitted at 7:30 am next tues. Last time I was the first one and got taken down to theatre at 8:30. I think I had come round from the anaesthetic by 11am so it is quick.

Breathe.......breathe.......breathe..... 1 more week! This could either be the longest or shortest week EVER!!

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