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November 2012 - into the third trimester

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StuntNun · 11/08/2012 12:44

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kirrinIsland · 18/08/2012 20:48

My midwife does empty mine before giving back! And if I'm really lucky I get a tissue to wrap it in :)

DH21 I've just been reading through the thread to catch up, and I think you may well have brought my Britax! Lots of coincidences if it isn't you!

ValiumQueen · 18/08/2012 20:57

That is disgusting reusing piss pots! The chalky stuff will only be in the pot if it is to be sent to the lab for testing, not just for a dip stick in the clinic. I would refuse to take a pot back, especially full. The clinic will have a special disposal place for them all. I feel ashamed to be an NHS employee, then again I frequently do.

ValiumQueen · 18/08/2012 21:00

Wouldn't that be funny kirrin Just as well DH is pleased with it!

ValiumQueen · 18/08/2012 21:01

I think the lady I bought my PnT off was a MNer. She was lovely, and had a sling.

Catbag · 18/08/2012 21:07

Lol at VQ outrage. Maybe my mw has a stock of chalky ones in her handbag too :)

kirrinIsland · 18/08/2012 21:09

Yes Valium I am pleased to see she liked it, though I have to say, if it is mine she did get a very good deal! That's the price i've paid for being fickle and buying a PnT instead!

Catbag · 18/08/2012 21:26

Is anyone else sick to death of being pregnant yet? I can feel myself getting more and more bovine every day. I can't do more than basic stuff around the house (and only then with massive gaps in between tasks) and all IQ points feel like they have exited stage left. I have felt myself getting slightly hysterical in my quiet moments at the thought of being like this or worse for the next two months.
I'm also panicking at the thought of having to spend weeks in hospital like last time (went into labour at 33 weeks, labour stopped to give steroids time to work but not before I had got to 6cm, wouldn't let me go home because of distance from the hospital and my quick labours, had to be induced 2 weeks later). Partner does not think that this is cause for concern, but perhaps this is because he has a slightly overinflated view of his ability to cope in my absence. He might have genius level intellect, but basic household appliances mystify him.

On top of everything else, we are getting married next week. It sounds a bit trivial but I'm pretty miserable that rather than looking lovely on my wedding day, I shall look slightly comical with my already ridiculously large bump. A bit mutton dressed as lamb, as it were. I shall spend all of my time trying to avoid having my photo taken. It's not what I envisaged as a girl :(

Sorry for the whinge.

kirrinIsland · 18/08/2012 21:42

Me catbag - and I have been for weeks. I feel enormous already and get that sinking feeling every time I consider the fact that I've still got more than 2 months in which to put on even more weight. This weather isn't helping either - moan moan moan ..........
Congratulations on your wedding - I'm sure you will look fab :)

On the plus side I have a toddler free day tomorrow and I shall spend it with friends at a horse show, which I haven't done for ages - can't wait:)

Chunkychicken · 18/08/2012 21:52

Why is it any more disgusting having to take my own pee home again, when I've already carried it there in the first place? Confused I put it in a sandwich bag so it can't leak!! My MW is at a children's center so I imagine they don't have the correct biohazard disposal systems in place.... Admittedly, I thought I would get a new one each time but heh, its only a bit of wee!! :)

Chunkychicken · 18/08/2012 21:56

Catbag congratulations on your wedding!! I'm sure it will be lovely, regardless of your 'comedy bump'.

But I too feel stupid all the time at through mo. I feel like my brain has melted. Feeling very concerned about my return to work in September, as I am so tired at the mo. I can't see how I can cope teaching for 7wks.

TitsalinaBumSquash · 18/08/2012 21:57

We are only meant to get 1 pee pot at the beginning of the pregnancy but they have a habit of nabbing it at the consultants office so I've had a few, I get a lot of sighing and tutting if I ask for a new one though. Grin

Passmethecrisps · 18/08/2012 22:15

I get a new pee pot every time. I would have thought they had to be sterile.

Thanks for the heads up on the code for babies are us. I bit the bullet and bought the starter kit. Great value at £52.

Have spent the day tidying and cleaning - pooped now. Am having to use a hot water bottle on my back most nights now. Sitting with one right now

GTbaby · 19/08/2012 00:11

I too am not dealing with preg well ATM. chunky am dreading going bk to school ! Really think summer holidays have worked against me at this stage as I'm not used to intense days n have no idea how I'll cope for 6 weeks!

Welcome osterly. Get ready to read lots! Keeping up with the thread is a full time job Wink.

Had a really rubbish preg day. Loads of ppl at our house. N I couldn't do much. Say about as other ppl sorted food. Felt really lazy, but as soon as I'd try n help would just hit a wall n be too tiered. Had a lil cry to sil. She is 4 months n fantastic. I was still suffering ms as her stage. Didn't have a nap today and still can't sleep. Envy.

Sucks! N I wil not apologise for my winge and ranting. So there.

GTbaby · 19/08/2012 00:12

*how I'll cope for 6 weeks when I go back to work (secondary school) in September.

DesperateHousewife21 · 19/08/2012 06:04

Omg kirrin I think it was your buggy!! Your name is similar to your eBay name isn't it? I didn't know anyone on this thread lived near me!

Evilwater · 19/08/2012 06:32

Well I'm off to work again. I really want to finish, I've had enough. I think I'll move when I go back to work.

Let's hope today is a good day.
Evil

ValiumQueen · 19/08/2012 07:21

I think it is disgusting that you are not given a clean pot and the old one disposed of because if they are the non sterile ones, they cost pennies. Universal precautions should be taken with all bodily fluids, i.e. samples from boden-wearing mummies or prisoners or substance users should be treated the same for the protection of all. In order to ensure the sample test result is accurate, it needs to be in a clean but not necessarily sterile container. If you knew how much money is spent on specialist testing of substance users you would weep. I think it is poor show that they cannot spend 20p on a pregnant woman for the duration of her pregnancy.

I also have visions of folk forgetting it is in their bag, finding it five weeks later all putrid, trying to wash it out, or toddler finding it in the bag and pouring it in your shoe, or worse. Not that any of you lovely ladies would, obviously.

In clinics there should be a disposal system in place, either there or back at base, with a system in place for safe transfer.

If a mum is known to have Hep C, it is unlikely the pot would be given back. What if another mum notices that she gets a clean pot each time. And no, I do not have Hep C Grin and other mums who have been given clean pots should not assume that either.

We all have things that irritate us, and this is one of them. Others are obviously entitled to their own opinions.

kirrinIsland · 19/08/2012 07:30

DH yes, my eBay name is similar to here - same start different ending?
Hope you're very happy with it! (and your DS is gorgeous by the way :) )

I'm off out today can't wait - but kind of hoping it's not quite so hot as it was yesterday!

Thechick · 19/08/2012 07:50

I get a new pot every time. My midwife is at the doctors surgery, not sure if that makes a difference to anything.
I organised a picnic at my local park. It's supposed to get to 32 degrees. I'm not sure if I should go.

DesperateHousewife21 · 19/08/2012 08:00

kirrin yes that's right, def was you then! Aw thanks he was a bit sweaty yesterday, your dd is lovely too and so is your house! We drove through the countryside to get there instead of going through Canterbury and I had serious house envy!

I think it's meant to be just as hot today, I'm off out with dh and my parents, down to the beach and the harbour and let ds throw stones in the sea.

FatimaLovesBread · 19/08/2012 08:14

I'm not dealin with it well this weekend also.
Last night I had a bit of a cry because I just wanted to sleep normally and be comfortable but I can't get comfy or I sleep half an hour then have to move which takes another half hour. Last night I was shattered and fell asleep pretty easily, it lasted all of 20 mins and DH snoring woke me up. He wasn't even snoring loud. I managed to get some sleep on the sofa but got woken up by leg cramp at half six and I've been awake since Sad

Might have a look on babies r us to use that code.
I was goin to get the Tommee Tippee started kit but a friend sent over some bags of baby things on Friday.. In it is an Avent steriliser and some avent and a couple of Tommee Tippee bottles. That's fab and saves us some money. However I'm not sure what breast pump an other bottles to get now?!
We've bought some TT bottles so was going to go for a TT breast pump, but the steriliser is Avent. Although I prefer the look of the TT bottles and teats. Suppose I could use a combination Confused

My sis and BIL are coming over today so DH and BIl are going to sort out the nursery furniture then I can sort out moving all the baby stuff in

Brockle · 19/08/2012 08:20

Happy Eid to all! Ramadan has finished and I for one am glad as it means no cooking and eating at 9pm! By the end my husband was sleeping at 6.30, I was putting the boys to bed, cooking and then falling asleep as soon as he woke up at 9pm.

I only have only had one pee pot. Seems a total waste of resources to give a new one each time. It gets emptied at the appointment and I wash it when I get home.

Off for two weeks and then I have only seven weeks left at work. Just want to be home now and its harder as with the amount of holidays I have I could be off now but trying to save my mat leave for after the baby is born.

The swollen feet have descended after working a bit too long at work on friday before my hols. Luckily they have gone down but but still uncomfortable.

SwissArmyWife · 19/08/2012 08:44

I get a new pot every time AND my full one is given back to me, as according to my mw they don't have the facilities at the surgery to dispose of it. Lovely!

Sympathies to fellow fed up ladies, I'm quite fed up with the fact I haven't got the energy to do much of anything, and I feel bad that I can't play properly with DD or take her out as much :(
Plus the heartburn is horrendous, and I'm finally starting to get too big for a lot of my clothes, oh no :(

catbag I'm sure your wedding will be absolutely wonderful, and you will look like a beautiful blooming/blushing bride to everyone else, despite how you feel :)
I think pregnant brides look lovely, I wanted to be one!
Just try and embrace it and concentrate on the positives, as it's such a special day :)
(I really hope that doesn't sound patronising, I didn't mean it to!)

ValiumQueen · 19/08/2012 08:58

catbag I spent my wedding day dodging cameras and I was not heavily pg. I do not like cameras when they are pointing at me. Enjoy the day for what it is- a celebration of your love that you are sharing with other people who love you. Everyone will think you look beautiful - all pg women are.

My foot is a lot better now, but my bump is growing and MS definitely back. Great. We have made a den in the lounge and are playing piggies and wolves. I am sure I look totally daft crawling around the floor in my state, but we are having fun!

Chunkychicken · 19/08/2012 09:02

Thinking I'm going to go 'off grid' for a few days. My hormones, lack of sleep, stress & the heat are conspiring to make me short tempered and I'm finding it very hard to avoid confrontations on MN for some reason!!! Even when I don't give a rat's arse about the topic...Confused Blush

So Happy Eid Brockle, Congrats again Catbag and good everyone feels a bit happier soon & stays well. I'll prob be back in a day or two def NOT an hour or so because I'm addicted :) Take care.