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June 2012 - The Jubilee Train has been delayed owing to the wrong sort of dates on the line. We have now arrived at Post-Natal Station and all passengers should disembark as quickly as possible!

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McKayz · 16/06/2012 04:07

Morning!!!

Thought I'd start the new thread with Gwen's title now in case I fill the other one with my moaning.

I'll do the stats at a more normal time of day unless anyone else does it first.

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TortoiseshellMillie · 07/07/2012 12:16

Hello!

I hope everyone is well, and enjoying their Saturday as much as they can! Gwennie - have the pains started again? I hope so :)! Hope the walk helps.

I was admitted to be induced yesterday at 11am, however when I got there labour ward was full, so it looked likely to be cancelled. They admitted me to antenatal ward to be monitored, and we stayed overnight waiting for a space on delivery. Sent home at 10am as delivery was still full to the brim! Wouldn't give me a sweep - think it's because labour ward is full and if the sweep did do anything, it would not help their situation! On the plus side though, I'm 4cm dilated - mw said "why haven't you had this baby yet?!"

Hospital are calling me when there are spaces available - could be today, tomorrow, next week..just don't know...

x

TortoiseshellMillie · 07/07/2012 12:18

Good luck exBB! Hope your contractions start soon! The stop start thing is frustrating... x

gwenniebee · 07/07/2012 13:41

Oh good luck millie... that sounds incredibly frustrating! You sound very sanguine about it - I think I'd have flipped my lid. Actually, I have flipped my lid several times already in the last few days! Great that you're 4cm already though! Hopefully that means not too long when you finally get going.....

Well we walked for miles and got so soaked I said to DH "My waters could have broken and I wouldn't know". Back in the warm and dry now with very little other than the usual discomforts. Go to see the mw again tomorrow so I wonder if she'll try another sweep. It really did seem to do something yesterday, even if nothing in the end has come from it.

exBrightonBell · 07/07/2012 23:06

Some small amount of progress today. After 2 goes at the propess pessary (48 hours!), I have dilated enough for the midwife to do a proper sweep - woo! Bit uncomfortable but not too bad. So now for the third night on the antenatal ward, hopefully the sweep will kick off some more dilation, contractions or anything! I have lower back ache which is a start Smile Fingers crossed for everyone else - hopefully we'll get to meet our babies soon!

gwenniebee · 08/07/2012 12:52

Hopefully you are getting going now exBB :)

Just had my second sweep and hope that kicks things off this end too....

gwenniebee · 08/07/2012 18:59

It hasn't..... :(

Kveta · 08/07/2012 19:07

:( 3 days left though? thinking of you.

gwenniebee · 08/07/2012 19:35

Hopefully kveta. Except she did say today she hadn't been able to book me in for induction because she couldn't get through............ Hmm I refer you to my earlier comments re doing my nut if I'd been in millie's situation........ eeeek......

exBrightonBell · 08/07/2012 22:34

So.... end of my third full day in the antenatal ward. The registrar is pushing induction proper - rupturing membranes, syntocinon drip and recommended epidural. Exactly all the things I don't want. Sad On the upside, I am having contractions fairly regularly and frequently, so perhaps I may be able to beat them to it! I am hoping the contractions continue through the night and don't wear off.

The main reason for AROM and syntocinon seem to be "you are 12 days overdue" combined with "you have pre existing high blood pressure". My response to these are that being overdue is not a clinical reason to induce. My bp is currently ok and well controlled, with no other signs of pre-eclampsia. Grrr! I don't know what I will agree to them doing next...

gwenniebee · 08/07/2012 22:37

Ooh exBB that sounds a bit scary :( Hope those contractions get going and you do indeed beat them to it! Ironic really that I am counting the days until induction... although maybe I am being very naive about it - hoping they might just be able to "kick start" it and then let me get on with it. Maybe that's unrealistic......

Either way, hope things work out quickly for you :)

exBrightonBell · 09/07/2012 04:43

Thanks gwennibee Smile. An interesting turn of events - contractions got harder and more frequent overnight, and as of a few moments ago, my waters have broken spontaneously! So I am getting somewhere finally. Hopefully I'll make enough progress on my own to avoid any more interventions.

TeaandHobnobs · 09/07/2012 05:34

Woohoo exBB! Fingers crossed it all keeps going (I'm sure it will). Looking forward to news soon!

And Tortoise sounds like you could be there too (can't believe they don't have space, eek!)

Still hanging in there gwennie? Sad

gwenniebee · 09/07/2012 09:34

Yay exBB! Well done you!

Yes, tea... I am still here :( Had our first really real "false alarm" (as it turned out) last night - very strong contractions about every 10 mins for three or four hours. Also lost the mucus plug... nice! Decided at about 1am as they weren't getting any more frequent to take some paracetamol and try to get some sleep (as much coz I felt guilty keeping DH awake as anything) but was utterly convinced I would be up all night... but no, within about half an hour of lying down they were becoming less frequent and then next thing I knew was waking at 2.30 to go to the loo.

Up and about this morning which seems to be causing some rumblings again but nothing drastic. I am feeling very sorry for myself as have had horrible swollen glands for the last few days and keep thinking "they'll be better tomorrow" but they're just getting worse! The whole of the right side of my face feels battered :(

Ooh... contraction... better go and be friendly to it and make it stay!!! :)

Kveta · 09/07/2012 09:48

fingers crossed this is it then gwennie! :)

blondiedollface · 09/07/2012 16:23

Gwennie My plug went weeks before, BUT I had a bloody show and 12 hours later babe-in-arms :)

Hope this is it for you Xx

ffnorm · 09/07/2012 17:15

Hope this is it Gwennie!!!!

gwenniebee · 09/07/2012 19:06

Thank you all :) No news to report yet, just still really uncomfortable and lots of meaningless contractions. Seeing mw again tomorrow and keep thinking that this means she will be able to do something about it!

Feel very stupid as I'm torn between being desperate for induction just to get it over and done with, and feeling really pathetic that I can't even get the thing started properly on my own. I know that's ridiculous, and my "rational" mind doesn't really think that, but the hormonal me is taking over!

DH has come home fuming from work about yet more silly things they've done, so I think he might work from home tomorrow which will mean he doesn't go back til after paternity leave! :) I like it when he works from home. (He does work, he's very good about it - I just like him being around.)

CathFin · 10/07/2012 08:14

Fingers crossed here for you Gwennie!

exBrightonBell · 11/07/2012 04:26

Hello everyone Smile. Well we have had a real roller coaster of events over the last couple of days! But BabyBell has arrived - boy, 9lbs 13, very long and utterly gorgeous Grin!

My contractions petered out on their own, so I was moved to the delivery suite for a proper sytocinon drip induction. I was managing fairly well to cope with the harder faster contractions with just the TENS machine. However after hours of contractions my cervix wasn't even fully effaced all round, and hardly dilated at all Sad. I was already quite sleep deprived at this point and I was so dispirited that all my efforts had produced basically no effect at all Sad. The midwives were predicting that at this rate it would take at least 2 days to get fully dilated, if at all. So at this point I agreed to an epidural, so the drip could be turned up higher to try and speed things up. And, tbh, to try and get some rest as I had been pacing back and forth the whole time!

However, after 8 more hours on the higher drip, my cervix was still not properly effaced and only 2-3 cm dilated. My waters had been broken for quite a while, my uterus was showing signs of distress at this point, so there was quite a concern about what was happening. For some reason BabyBell's head was malpositioned, and all my contractions had done were to ram his head against my cervix in the wrong place. This had caused his poor little head to become really cone shaped! He definitely wasn't coming out on his own at this point - an emergency c-section was now the only answer.

When they got me open and pulled him out, the remaining waters around him absolutely stank. It was quite clear that they were infected - even though none of the waters that came out of me smelt or were the wrong colour. BabyBell also hadn't pooed in me either. So the paed whacked him full of antibiotics and took bloods to determine the level of infection and the cause. Unfortunately BabyBell was very sleepy and lethargic and couldn't figure out how to breastfeed Sad. At this point the paediatrician came back to say that the level of infection was very high, and that he had a non-blanching rash on his tummy. As you can imagine they (and I) were thinking it could be meningitis or a couple of other serious infections. So he was taken from me and whisked to the neonatal unit for monitoring and more antibiotics. I was absolutely bricking it at this point! Fortunately the test for meningitis is quite quick, and this has already been excluded, thankfully. We are now waiting for the blood cultures to come back to find out exactly what is wrong with him. He is doing ok though, and I managed to express some colostrum for him which my DP gave him via syringe Smile.

I am also a bit poorly too - my temp was sky high, and I was vomiting like crazy. Not good! So i'm on the same antibiotics as BabyBell, and hooked up to various other things as well.

Sorry for the epic post! I just wanted to get it all out, and I can't sleep anyway as there have been women in screaming labour all night. Grin Grin.

TeaandHobnobs · 11/07/2012 05:20

ExBB what a series of events! So glad you are both through the birth safely, and I hope they can figure out what poor BabyBell is suffering with quickly.

Hope you can get a bit of rest now - thus a lot to recover from (tell those women to shush Grin)

BabyBell must be being looked after very well in the Neonatal unit Smile

Big hugs and congratulations Thanks

TeaandHobnobs · 11/07/2012 05:21

^that is a lot to recover from, I meant.

It is 5:20am Grin

ffnorm · 11/07/2012 06:06

ExBB congratulations!! Sorry to hear that it was such a difficult time. Hope you and BabyBell get better soon! Try get some rest,I realise that is easier said than done Grin

CathFin · 11/07/2012 19:55

BB - hope things are going okay for you, what a lot to go through. Keeping my fingers crossed you all feel a bit better soon and can get lots of help if you are in hospital.
My DS went back into hospital last week at 9 days old with some mystery illness and they never worked out what it was, very scary when they are so little.

Can they give you a private room so you can get some rest? Not good to have noise keeping you awake!

ffnorm · 11/07/2012 23:13

No post from Gwennie since the 9th - hope good things are happening for her...

exBrightonBell · 12/07/2012 06:14

Thanks everyone for all the lovely messages - its been very nice to have the support seeing as I'm stuck in hospital. BabyBell (and me) have got Group B Strep - apparently it had somehow infected my placenta through my intact membranes, urgh. When my waters broke it then went rampant in the two-ish days between then and the EMCS. We're getting better hour by hour, and the midwives/neonatal team have been superb. I managed to breast feed him directly last night which was the best thing ever! We're still not very good at it yet but we are making progress as he gets stronger and more alert.

I hope all is ok with Gwenniebee, and that radio silence is a good sign.

Good luck to any Juners who are still waiting for their babies.