Nov 12 babies

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Hello
I had a bfp yesterday. Due 1st Nov. Anyone else due in Nov yet ?

It's dc 2 for me!

well they can't be lone magpies if there's plural ;)

Izzy I am sorry, take care of yourself and keep safe.

Does anyone know anything about viability scans? Can they tell if everything is ok right there and then or can they look and see if everything is likely to progress normally iyswim? I am in two minds, part of me thinks it would be a relief to see something on the screen to really get it to sink in and stop the worries about lack of symptoms etc. Part of me thinks that if it's going to end badly like the rest then I would rather not know about it. Also most of them say from 7 weeks, can they see a heartbeat then?

Ha! What I meant was that there are lots of them coming and going (I think) but I only ever seem to see one on its own at once. It lands on the roof, taunts me with its presence, then flies off to be replaced by another one a minute later.

Or maybe it's the same one flying round and round...

Oh shit (excuse my French) Izzy that is horrible. I'm so sorry. Went through the same thing in January and am desperately hoping I've got a sticky one this time but am still decidedly in the compulsive knicker checking camp. It'll happen for you it really will, fingers crossed for all of us lots of love xxxxx

Hello have been keeping up with the thread but no time / opportunity to post. Just wanted to say Izzy so, so sorry. What a horrible disappointment and loss - I hope you are looking after yourself and taking it easy. Thinking of you.

Tits - re early scans. I had one after early bleeding with DD1. They told me that it was only an indication of the current state, and that it wouldn't predict what might happen in the future, as it were. So although it's reassurring to see / hear heartbeat etc, it is no indication of whether that pregnancy will work out. Hope that makes sense.

Good to be reading about everyone's symptoms, or lack of them. I thought mine had gone (worrying) and yet am now sitting at work with aching tummy (tights are too tight?. Arrrrgh). And trying to look all bright and breezy?.

I thought it would be too early too apple but when I rang my doctors they said to get sorted sooner rather than later so I've an appointment this Tuesday coming (I'm also about 5 weeks with my first too!)

Oh no izzy I am so sorry. Can't imagine what you are feeling. Hope your hubby is looking after you. So sorry xxx

Oh izzy I am so sorry to hear that, poor you. Sending you hugs. Thinking of you.

PS the bacon sarnies were a one-off charity fundraising special in aid of it being mothers day. They were blooming gorgeous though!

Really sorry for your loss Izzy :( I'm on my phone and was on page 28 or something, posted my reply to apple and then found those extra two pages I'd missed as it hadnt refreshed :(

Thank you. I'm not sure what will happen now to be honest. The midwife said they will see what bloods taken today show and decide from that whether i need more taken on sat or if it can wait til mon. She said if levels are high or increase then that can mean ectopic although i dont see how that is possible given the 'stuff' in my womb. I feel numb.

So sorry to hear your news Izzy - thinking of you.

Sending positive thoughts your way Izzy xx.

Perhaps I will give the docs a call then and see what they say. It just seems so early. Perhaps once I start having appointments it will seem more real. It feels a bit like a dream at the moment and I don't want to wake up.

Izzy So so sorry for your loss

Welcome to the newbies - misslaughalot we have the same EDD!

My condolences izzy

Sorry to hear your news Izzy :( My thoughts are with you

So sorry izzy xx

sorry izzy

So sorry izzy - what rotten luck. Look after yourself - lots of little things you enjoy and hugs from your hubby.

Take time for yourself Izzy. I lost my first baby (a baby boy) and nothing gets you through it just time and a lot of love and understanding!! I had to have a labour etc etc etc and things just took on nightmare proportions - hosptials, pain tears and nothing at the end of it all!! You will get there eventually sweetheart, I now have three grown up children but trying again after losing my baby was the scariest thing I have ever done!! I didn't relax at all until the baby was safely in my arms!! My thoughts are with you today more than anything, it is heart wrenching when things don't go right which sadly is all too common but when it happens to you it is the end of your world, I still remember my baby with a white rose. To all those who have found out that they are expecting precious little bundles - I wish you all good pregnancies and wonderful reasonably pain free deliveries! To Izzy I wish you good heart to eventually try again and the strength to cope with the here and now as do all other MN's out there - what a wonderful lot you all are!!

Oh my, I cannot keep up with this thread!

Issy - sorry to hear your sad news

Misslaughalot - Hello! Soooo pleased that you've joined us!

I'm sure I have loads to say but my brain feels frazzled today. Dd has not been sleeping too well lately so I had a lovely catch-up nap this afternoon. Pyjamas and everything. Twas lush!

Dh went to a cheese and wine evening last night and felt bad that I had to miss out so what did he surprise me with this morning?....an enormous lump of Brie in the fridge! He apparently forgot that I'm not allowed to eat it. Grrrrr......

What a lovely message bossboggle

I forgot to say...can someone add me to the list? I'm always on my phone and it won't let me paste. Cheers me dears!

Ellesabe [29] - dc2 - edd 14/11

that's such sad news izzy. I can't imagine how you feel. I hope you have people who can look after you.

Welcome misslaughalot we have the same EDD too - such early days isn't it? I had a vanishingly faint line on Friday and a decent one on Sat; feels like I have known forever yet it still doesn't even have a heart beat! having an earlier positive would surely be a good sign for you. And the sickness ;)

tits I had an early scan with DS1 privately as I conceived on the pill and had NO idea of when he was made and it turned out he was only 7 weeks old, had a heartbeat and was a tiny little bean. The heart starts beating at 5 weeks. Although once you see a heartbeat the likelihood of that pregnancy failing drops dramatically there is no way they could predict what may/may not happen.

am off for my thai red curry tea. I am eating so healthily with this pregnancy so far, it is most odd. I would hate to get as fat as I did with DS again but am tentatively waiting for the sugar addiction to kick in!

Izzy so sorry to hear your news, it will be an incredibly difficult time but with love and support from your family it will become less painful, but you will never forget.

Can I join? BFP on Tuesday. Scared ridged! Lost our first at 17weeks last May (MMC). Still pretty weepy about it and will never forget.

Feeling rather crampy and worried how the hell I'm going to make it through to even next Thursday! (1st appointment, they're early scanning me)

So pleased as punch, but scared as hell! HELP! Have told no one except DH and my mum! (and now you lot!)