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TTC a 2012 baby - the GRADUATES!

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Carlitawantsababy · 05/08/2011 07:25

As requested/suggested this is a thread for those graduating from the TTC a 2012 baby -this is our year thread! Bring your BFPs and get yourselves comfy Grin

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Carlitawantsababy · 19/08/2011 10:20
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MammaInTheMaking · 19/08/2011 15:43

Ah...my rollercoaster has come to a shuddering stop as last night I miscarried our bean. Had a scan this afternoon and everything was gone. The hormones are doing a good job with the tears...Sad Will take a step back from MN for a while so we can get our heads around this and hopefully get another BFP real soon. Good luck to all you mammas-to-be. Sending you all a lot of love and happy wishes x

ghosteditor · 19/08/2011 15:48

mammainthemaking I'm so, so sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself.

BunMyOven · 19/08/2011 15:56

Oh Mamma I am so so sorry! Sad I can't imagine how you must be feeling. You look after yourself, sending a big (sincere) hug. I really don't know what to say Sad Hope to see you again when you're ready x

PiggyMad · 19/08/2011 17:52

mamma that is truly awful :( Take care of yourself.

Carlitawantsababy · 19/08/2011 18:14

So, so sorry to hear that mamma take good care of yourself and take your time and we'll see you back here when you are ready.xx

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Carlitawantsababy · 20/08/2011 12:56

Hi everyone, how are you all doing today? I'm failing miserably to summon the energy to tidy my stinking flat whilst realising that I really need to grow up in the next 6 and a bit months, I really won't be able to let it get this horrid!

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ghosteditor · 20/08/2011 13:11

Hey Carlita, I'm just considering having a nap! Got up early to drop DH at the airport and then went to stare at prams. Just got in, ate some lunch, and think I might do some sleeping now. Then a spot of baking and tidying later, I think!

ghosteditor · 20/08/2011 13:11

ETA: stare at prams in the pram shop, obvs Grin

Carlitawantsababy · 20/08/2011 13:46

Prams are pretty good to stare at! I'm feeling less and less motivated..I think I'll do it tomorrow, looking at baby stuff on the Internet is much more fun! Smile

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BunMyOven · 20/08/2011 15:11

Lol Ghost have an image of you following unsuspecting mothers around town, gawping at their prams Grin

Carlita I'm yet to grow up wrt cleaning. Had a rare motivated day yesterday, did the living room and the toilet and then the postman came with a delivery (gorgeous suit for DS for a wedding), I proceded to open the door on my toe! Wasn't sure if I'd broken it last night - was in agony. Feeling a bit better today though so must just be badly bruised (lots of blood under my toe nail Sad I, naturally, interpreted this as a sign from the gods not to do aymore cleaning. It's just too risky. Grin

Attempted to have a nap earlier, DS wasn't having any of it.
DP is being a lazy arse today and is doing my head in. Am about to do a hard shut down on his laptop if he doesn't turn it off in a minute. Pregnacy hormones? Noooo, not me.

ghosteditor · 20/08/2011 15:40

Bun what a day for injuries yesterday was! I felt the same way about cooking dinner - might just be stuff that doesn't involve the sharp knives from now on Grin

At my scan last week, someone brought a toddler in a Phil & Teds pram. Everyone in the room leaned forward slightly and started scoping out the pram - and then we all sort of smirked as we caught each other doing it.

carlita I think we definitely need to relax a bit instead of doing housework Grin

Am sitting here surrounded by pushchair leaflets. Have given up and started a thread asking for advice. Salesperson thought I'd be better with Bugaboo Chameleon due to outdoorsy requirements, but I couldn't get over how big it looked in comparison with the Bee.

I told DH that he would have to select the pushchair as he's very good with technical specs (and to him a pushchair isn't that expensive, in comparison with what he's been spending on bikes, which bodes well for my purchasing habits and less well for our bank balance). However, he's had a lot of stuff to think about lately and hasn't really got on board with the baby stuff (all changing after he came to the scan, incidentally), so I've been too impatient to wait for him to catch up. We're planning a big trip to Kiddicare in the next month or two so I want to be prepared with info/prices, rather than overwhelmed by the enormity of choice.

ghosteditor · 20/08/2011 15:43

Incidentally, in the shop, a lovely pregnant woman leaned over conspiratorially and whispered that she was buying a new pram to replace her iCandy Apple, which she didn't like because you can't push it along in a straight line with one hand when you're talking on the phone. (She already had one DC). I like personal advice! It just made me realise how different, and how specific, each person's requirements are. Exhausting!

CosmicMouse · 20/08/2011 20:51

Just realised I have fluffed cushions awaiting me here Grin

Hello! A very recent graduate, with an early BFP on Friday making me just 3+5!

Feeling ok so far. Bit queasy, bit tired, bit grumpy. Suddenly feel pregnant. Although DH is struggling to get his head around it I think. This was all planned and he is very pleased, but I don't think it feels real for him yet. It doesn't help that he apparently doesn't remember me having symptoms this early last time, so declared my feeling queasy and ditzy earlier "psychsomatic". This didn't go down well Angry He's normally uber supportive of everything, so I found that a bit hard to hear. Feel like he thinks I'm making it up Sad I was so very sick with DD, I'm not exactly looking forward to feeling crappy again! Hey ho. I'm hoping he'll get his head round it soon. It's very very early days I know.

Be happy once I'm past this weekend as that's when AF would have been due. Then will maybe phone docs at the end of this week, and that will feel like another little milestone.

Never had a MC, but I know so many people (online and in RL) that have, that it really scares me that we might have used up all our luck last time around. Fingers firmly crossed for us, and everyone here.

PiggyMad · 20/08/2011 22:51

Hi cosmic - congratulations!!! Grin
I'm also keeping my fingers crossed for you - and me! I'm 6 weeks today and not really feeling anything apart from some af-style cramps... hoping that's normal and not wanting to google! Sorry you seem to be suffering with symptoms already!
When you feel ready you should add yourself to our due date list.

carlita I can't seem to view your profile (for dungarees) - is it made public? I'm a bit of a slattern and hate cleaning and tidying - I also have several pets so my house never stays tidy for long - which I find so bloody depressing after blitzing it [sigh].

Am sad to announce that Pierre died last night in DH's arms :( He was 5 and a half so quite good innings for a guinea pig. Need to bury him in MIL's garden this weekend.

ghost you'll have to share all of this pushchair research with us all! It's so easy to get drawn into this 'pushchair porn' online when I should be doing other things...

bun hope your toe is better - sounds nasty and painful - have you been to the doc's about it? Hope there wasn't too much of a domestic involving the laptop Grin

Hi to davina and trope :)

CosmicMouse · 21/08/2011 09:50

Just adding myself to the list:

Ghosteditor (27) DC#1 EDD 12th January
Bunmyoven (23) DC#2 EDD 27th January
Davinaaddict (32) DC#2 EDD 9th March
Carlitawantsababy (29) DC#1 EDD 23rd March
Trope (32) DC#1 EDD 13th April
Piggymad (26) DC#1 EDD 14th April
Cosmicmouse (28) DC#2 EDD 30th April

Carlitawantsababy · 21/08/2011 09:57

bun, ghost and piggy thanks for the housework support! I really do need to do it today, we have a ton of painting to do before we can get our flat on the Market you see and I'm not allowed to paint, so, if I'm expecting DH to spend the day painting I had better do something, I spent yesterday afternoon making an owl cushion for my sister's twins (I'd post a pic but you wouldn't be able to see it anyway! Wink)
Re pictures and profile, I made sure the photos were public bit did not go to the effort of creating a profile, perhaps I need to have done both? Will try to get around to it soon and will let toy know!
bun ouch re your toe Sad I hope it starts to feel better soon!
ghost that is such a good point the woman made in the shop about the iCandy! That would really bug me if I was spending out on a pram! Not something I would have thought of either!
cosmic hooray Grin welcome! The poor men do seem to think we've made it up at first don't they? I think it is their version of "I can't believe we could be this lucky" whereas ours is worrying about mc. Sorry you're feeling rotten already, let's hope it isn't as bad as with your DD! Do you have any early inklings yet as to whether it may be a boy or a girl?! I know what you mean about the milestones, I recently passed when my second AF would have been due Grin
piggy wow, 6 weeks, it actually isn't dragging as much as I thought it would, I thought 9 months would feel like years! RIP Pierre i hope the funeral goes okay, it is so desperately upsetting to lose a pet, still, as you said, he lived a long life and one if luxury by the sounds of your piggies having their own bedroom, with people who loved him so what more could a piggy hope for? Smile

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ghosteditor · 22/08/2011 09:32

owl cushion you say, carlita? I have one of these and absolutely love it - DH bought it for my last birthday and it's just so cool, and very huggable. Unfortunately they're now everywhere so not quite so niche as I thought!

I'm a fan of chintzy owl things Wink

BunMyOven · 22/08/2011 10:18

Hi all! Hope you had nice weekends Smile
We had a cheeky 2yo sneak into our bed at 4 this morning so I'm not as alert as I could be!

Toe is getting better thanks, DS keeps stepping on it (by accident) though which is just horrible. Why is it that as soon as something hurts, everyone starts knocking it?!
Ghost I kept the injury cycle going, I banged my head on the bathroom sink on Saturday Blush Nice lump on my forehead now.
Have been so clumsy lately, the week before I managed to kick a brick wall instead of an inflatable orange (as you do) whilst bare footed! DP is finding it all very entertaining Hmm Grin

I wonder if that's just a problem with the iCandy Apple then because I'm always pushing my Cherry (iCandy Cherry that is!) around with one hand - have had lots of comments from other parents saying they wish they could whiz around as easily I can.

I LOVE that cushion!

Welcome Cosmic and congratulations!

Aww Piggy sorry to hear about little Pierre Sad 5 and a half is definitely good innings though.

Haha laptop related domestic was averted when DP realised I was in a stinker of a mood, turned the laptop off, put Cars on for DS to watch, told me to go for a relaxing bath and washed the dishes! Shock Bless him, I must give scary stink eye Grin

Time finally seems to be going at a decent rate now, 20week scan in 2 and a half weeks, sooo excited (and nervous but I get nervous about everything) going to Wales next week for 4 days too so that should be suitably stressful an event to distract me a bit!

trope · 22/08/2011 10:58

hello hello! Welcome to Monday morning!

Sorry for disappearing for a week - had a crappy week and just felt knackered and shit for most of it. But I've had a lovely weekend with DP and am feeling a (tiny) bit more human today, so that's good!

I too have heaps of housework/decluttering/tidying to do that I keep putting off. I told myself that once I was actually pregnant that would give me the kick up the arse I needed to get on with it - didn't factor in the fact that I would feel knackered and nauseous from the get go! If we stay in our current house (though we are desperate to move) my little office will be the babies room; you can currently do no more than stand in the entrance it's so full of stuff! We had my sister & family to stay recently so everything from DP's office/the spare room was dumped in my office to make space for a double mattress & travel cot! Plus we don't have a shed atm, so all the shed stuff is stored in the house too... is CHAOS! But, we finally put up shelves in the living room yesterday (and they look rather fab if I do say so myself) which we've been meaning to do since we moved here 4 years ago... so we are making progress at least!

Bun "sshh baby" - that's so cute! You'll have to teach him to sing the baby to sleep!! Wink How is your toe today - have you seen the GP about it? Hope it's hurting less!

Ghost Your job sounds absolutely fabulous! What a wonderful way to make a living - sounds really varied & interesting!

Useful to know about the iCandy apple btw - was surprised by that as you have the option of fixing the front wheels to straight for precisely that sort of thing - but I guess it might not be terribly practical, if you're in town for example, to have to lock & unlock the wheel whenever you need to push one handed! Another reason why I'll just have to fork out for the all new, all singing, all dancing, icandy strawberry instead I guess.... oh, what a shame... Wink

carlita - "ball of legs" - that's brilliant! Made me laugh - but I do have a somewhat black sense of humour... You do need to have a public profile set up for public photos to show - but you don't actually have to put much info on at all (or none I think, just hit public and leave the info fields blank!) Looking forward to seeing the dungarees - sounds like you're really crafty, must be great being able to make nice things for the baby! :)

piggy - AF like cramps - I get these a lot too - they aren't exactly like my AF cramps, but they're very similar. My AF cramps tended to be in a specific line across my lower abdomen, whereas these are more spread out, but quite intense and hard to ignore. I get them most days atm...

I also have a bit of an issue (WARNING - TMI!) that if I don't go to the loo as soon as I need to (i.e. if i'm stuck on a bus or whatever) then I start getting really bad pain - not sharp, but quite crampy and insistent and enough to make me a bit shaky and weak, that only goes about ten minutes after I finally go to the loo. Usually end up having to have a lie down post wee! I assume it's just that my bladder is squashing my uterus when it's full - but it's bloody horrible. Really looking forward to seeing the obstetrician and getting a scan / checking everything is OK.

Had a teeny tiny almost missable bit of spotting on Saturday AM - just one lot first thing in the morning - nothing since. So took it extra easy on Saturday. My sister had some spotting at around the same point in both her pregnancies, so I'm not worried - but glad I knew it was normal/nothing to worry about!

Aside from that I'm still queasy, but not actually throwing up (though I came close the other day; out to dinner with one of my friends I ate a bit much and the restaurant was really hot and stuffy which was making the nausea worse - then the waiter brought out a fish dish to the next table - I had to run out of the restaurant before I chundered everywhere!! Apparently I went really quite green!) Still really tired too - get a little bit of energy in the morning, but even just going around the supermarket wears me out and I end up napping mid afternoon most days!!

Is funny really - i had thought that I'd be one of those people that just "keeps going" through pregnancy; decorating, going out, working etc - I'm so used to my health/meds causing fatigue & nausea I thought I'd cope fine with it in pregnancy... but somehow it's really different. Instead of powering through it I just want to rest and take it easy and give in to it... knowing there's a life inside me really changes how I feel about pushing myself.. Silly really, but I'm very much rethinking what the next 30+ weeks are going to look like!

Hi cosmic - welcome! Congratulations! :D

:( that in the time I was away mamma came and went - how awful... If you're still reading this mamma, hope you're doing OK.

trope · 22/08/2011 11:04

ooh - cross post - really should refresh before I post!! Sorry your toe is still hurting bun! Regarding the clumsiness - if it makes you feel any better you've a long way to go to compete with my BiL; he had surgery a week or two ago on his ankle (a bone graft following problems after he broke it playing laser quest I believe, years ago) so he's got that in a cast and is on crutches. On the weekend he slipped on a pack of babywipes on the floor, fell over and broke his arm!! He really has a frankly impressive ability to break himself!

Sounds like your DP is doing a good job of taking care of you! Mine is the same; cooking and insisting I rest, not a word of complaint... wonder how long that will last?! Wink

So exciting about the 20 week scan - are you planning on asking whether it's a girl/boy? I think DP and I have decided to find out - but not tell anyone else.

ghosteditor · 22/08/2011 13:01

trope, ouch for your BiL!

I'm with you on the TMI loo visit thing - my needs are very immediate at the moment and I am often really uncomfortable after peeing - I was a bit worried that it might be a kidney thing (hypochondriac much) but on reflection it's probably just everything in my torso readjusting to the extra space. Definitely will attempt to go as soon as I need to from now on (but it's four flights of stairs at work, boooo)

BunMyOven · 22/08/2011 13:37

Hi Trope! Nice to see you back Smile Sorry you've been suffering! I was the same in the first few months, feeling really sick and the bone crushing exhaustion was the worst! Over the worst of it now though, rarely feel sick and have been able to drop my afternoon nap - was like a toddler, I needed the nap more than DS did! Grin Still not great though, feeling guilty for being half a parent to DS at the moment, so little energy and even less patience Sad

Your poor BIL! Thankfully my clumsiness is on the tame side, not broken any bones! Hope he recovers soon.

I've been quite surprised with DP this time round. Because having DS was such a shock and we had such a stressful time, DP didn't really get his head around it all properly until Oliver was a couple of months old. It's really lovely seeing him so excited rather that petrified! Grin Your DP sounds great! Did you not have to give him the stink eye to get him to be nice to you?! Shock Wink

Definitely going to find out the sex if we can, still not decided on telling other people yet though, DP doesn't see the point in not telling people, I'd quite like to keep it our secret but I'm bloody awful at keeping good news to myself so we'll probably tell everyone! Grin Definitely not telling people the name until we announce the birth though.

Gosh, your bladder (never thought I'd ever say that to anyone!)! Sounds rubbish - though I must admit to giggling a bit at you having a lie down after your wees! Grin Sorry. Blush
We've been watching Warehouse 13 (sci-fi series, we are slightly geeky), every episode lasts about 45minutes and we've got into the hilarious (according to DP) habit of him setting up the next episode whilst I go for a wee after every. single. episode. Hmm

BunMyOven · 22/08/2011 13:41

Wooops x-post, was going backwards and forwards to DS. 4 flights of stairs for the loo Ghost?! Maybe you should invest in a commode for your office? DP has suggested a catheter to me because I wake him during my night time visits (not on purpose) Grin

ghosteditor · 22/08/2011 16:02

Yup! And most of the time in my office it's 6 women to one toilet and 1 or 2 men to the other - have been known to use theirs before! Blush tis a necessary evil...

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