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"I'm a July baby.....GET ME OUTTA HERE!!!!"

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JimmyChoo17 · 14/07/2011 19:42

hi ladies fresh new thread in which hopefully we will ALL have our babies happy and healthy on the right side of our bellies by the time it comes round to a fresh new July new born thread :)

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scarthy1975 · 19/07/2011 09:36

Hi all, congratulations button

Oh Jimmy it sounds like you are having a bad time of it at the moment Sad I know its easier said than done but try to think positive and that baby will be here in the next few days. I'm trying to do the same as i'm now 9 days overdue and wondering whether its worth having a sweep on Thursday or not - will be induced on Friday.

Good luck to those who are contracting (lucky sods!!)

nicolamumof3 · 19/07/2011 12:36

Off to hospital day unit to be checked waters started to go at 4am decreased movements bit of cramping and loads of pressure!

Badgerwife · 19/07/2011 18:22

I had a bit of a show this morning, and have had low-level period pain all day but otherwise nothing. I'm hoping something starts overnight.

It can't be anything as exhausting as you Jimmy it sounds like you're having a really awful time. I don't understand why the hospital can't do anything for the pain and are happy to send you home like this. If you weren't pregnant and had this sort of pain level, you'd be admitted to A&E surely.

nicolamumof3 · 19/07/2011 18:32

Web admitted as hind waters going but head nit engaged too risky to go hope they hope it will start to ight or induction tomorrow for me

JimmyChoo17 · 19/07/2011 18:57

That's what I said! If I was an animal too...they would put me out of my misery! I think they don't realise how bad I am as tend to try and cover up things like this so might call them again tonight as like has been pointed out on another thread I may have a UTI on top of everything now...but can't tell what pain is related to what anymore. I'm really scared they still won't do anything for me.

I can't bear it. I think if I ring I'll end up crying in desperation so going to get hubby to call then talk to them once he's explained. He's struggling seeing me in pain but with no end in sight! At least if labour had started I would have a worthwhile reason to be in pain!

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minicorrect · 19/07/2011 20:18

MissL hope you and your LO are doing well and enjoying precious time together

badger hope things take off for you overnight - good luck

Jimmy and nicola posted to you both on the other thread but hope you're both bearing up ok despite the difficulties you're going through. Lots of luck to you both and remember it will be but a distant memory soon when you're holding your LOs in your arms. Big hugs!

JimmyChoo17 · 19/07/2011 23:51

Thanks mini! I think nic will beat me to be honest but hopefully I'll be close behind her.

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notnearlyasblondasiwas · 20/07/2011 06:53

Hi ladies, things kicked off Monday night after the sweep and went off to the birth centre at 1.30am Tuesday morning with strong contractions every 2 mins, got there to find I was 4cm. After 8 more hours of contractions had progressed 1cm!!! Then it all went wrong as the placenta started to abrupt and I was literally whisked into theatre where baby girl was born under general anesthetic at 8.28am weighing 9lb7oz. Spent the day in the HDU and got moved to a room last night - we are both fine if a bit shell shocked! Is the furthest away from my drug free first delivery than you can get but am just grateful we are alive as honestly thought I was going to die (drama queen!) Good luck to all still waiting, will be watching the thread!

scarthy1975 · 20/07/2011 10:10

Congratulations notnearly but sounds like the birth was quite traumatic. Like you have said at least you are both well and you have a lovely little girl to munch.

Good luck jimmy with induction.

minicorrect · 20/07/2011 12:27

Congratulations notnearly but sorry things didn't go quite as well as planned but glad the end result was as you wanted!! Enjoy these precioius early days!

Just been to baby & toddler group and was chatting to a woman who birthed a 10lb baby with no medication at all and just had some G&A afterwards for a stitch. Will be holding onto that image as much as possible in the coming weeks!!!! She's fairly petite too so very impressive!!

Still nothing here, but my left hip seems to have gone this morning so walking is beyond agony - thank god my parents arrive tomorrow and can hopefully take DD off our hands occasionally and give me time to sleep!

Got MW tomorrow at 38+4 - is she likely to "check" down there or just do the usual tape measure stuff does anyone know? At that appointment for DD1 they discovered baby wasn't growing and panic ensued from that point forward so have to admit to feeling a little bit down about it as I'd really hoped baby would be here by now so this wouldn't be an issue. Would love him/her to start making its way out tonight really...

SpannerPants · 20/07/2011 19:08

Congratulations to MissLolita and notnearly - hope you're all recovering well.

Jimmy I'm so pleased they're finally taking you seriously and the end is in sight!

Good luck Nic - here's hoping you have your little girl in your arms now!

10lb minicorrect - OMG! I'm wincing at the thought of it! Hope it goes well with the midwife, at my 38 week appointment they just did the usual tape measure stuff but given your previous concerns do you think she might check for you?

We had a horrendous night as Henry decided he was going to feed all night. He seemed properly hungry as well, really gulping the milk down, and everytime we tried to put him down he started screaming again. I rang my mum this morning to ask her if it was meant to be like this and she popped over on the train and looked after him for a few hours so DP and I could get some sleep which was lovely of her! Looks like he's starting again already tonight Shock. I'm used to working night shifts on little/no sleep but this is something else, I've never been so tired in my life :(

cara2244 · 20/07/2011 22:08

Notnearly congratulations! Make sure you set plenty of rest.

Spannerpants that sounds tough. My son was like that..I used to dread the nights as he would be awake all night feeding or crying. In the end I used to feed him lying down and go back to sleep. I co-slept with him as he fed so much. Hannah is feeding only three hourly at night and sleeps in between- but she will only feed if I'm sitting up and that means I have to wake up so I am tired and aching! I also wake up with her still in my arms as I struggle to stay awake. Not good.

nicolamumof3 · 21/07/2011 03:54

Baby girl arrived last night 6.16pm very speedy 4cm- birth so no time fir epidural was all over in 40mins still in shock I have a daughter totally amazed in love with her! Isla-Rose 8lb 9oz thAnk goodness it's over.

buttonmoon78 · 21/07/2011 08:55

Nic I think that's a universal thought process... 'yay wow love phew' Grin

Spanner the first few weeks are pretty shitty tbh. Once they begin to make some sort of distinction between night and day it will get better. I know it's easier said than done but do try to rest as much as possible in the day. You can't make up 8 hrs uninterrupted sleep but you can minimise the impact a bit. I can't remember his weight but was H big? S is my biggest and he's a bit the same. One of the MWs said (literally as he came out) 'man alive - this one's gonna take some filling!) Smile Take good care of yourself x

I'm trying to type my birth story bit by bit as time allows on word so I can just copy and paste it. It's taking a while though. One word at a time Grin

Badgerwife · 21/07/2011 08:56

Nicola this is fantastic news! LOVE her name too.

Things have started for me too following the show 2 days ago. My waters popped (I heard it!) at 11pm yesterday evening and have been trickling out regularly ever since. Then I woke up at 2am this morning and have had regular contractions ever since. Still only 7 mins apart but they are a lot more bearable than I expected and so I may be hours yet...

nicolamumof3 · 21/07/2011 09:12

I was like that badger then very quickly progressed!!

Spanner I'm with button on this the sleep deprivation and feeding spurts are a killer in the early days it will get easier take help and sleep where you can. My mum had ds3 overnight when he was a newborn dh and I slept 12hours it was heaven on earth. Hoping to be discharged this morning and back home to lovely big deep bubble bath and my soft bed!

scarthy1975 · 21/07/2011 10:49

Congratulations Nicola and good luck to badgerwife.

I've booked an appointment with the mw for 12.00 today for a sweep to try and avoid induction tomorrow. Having lots of period type pain today and baby does feel lower so hopefully this is the start (I've said this many times before!)

buttonmoon78 · 21/07/2011 10:54

Ok ? here goes? it?s a long one! Grin

Friday: 9am: rang to check bed availability, told to ring at 10am.

10am: rang again, told there?s no space, call at 2pm but it wasn?t looking likely for today. I had a small wobble and said the cons wanted to scan me but was only there in the morning. Was told there was no need for a scan. I promptly burst into tears, DH speaks to matron who says ?Mr Button, why is Mrs Button so upset?? Mr Button tells her in no uncertain terms. We are called in immediately for a scan Grin Scan shows baby has reverted to LOA ? yay! But there?s still no space. Ring at 2pm, consultant promises that if there?s no space today then he will induce on the Sat. With a wobbly chin I agree. We go out for lunch, then eventually they ring at 6.30pm to say to come in for 9pm.

9pm: in delivery suite. Bum is on bed but they can?t ?do? anything as they are short-staffed and unwilling to start me until there is someone who can be with us continually in case it?s quick (ha bloody ha).

11.30pm: sweep. I didn?t find it painful at all. In fact I totally got the giggles as mw was saying she was stretching it and pulling it forwards. Cue DH saying ?that?s it, hook it over her toe?? Hmm Sleep for a bit?

Saturday: 5.10am: mw can finally break my waters. Yay! But nothing really happens. Boo!

9.45am: synto drip put in. Within an hour, strong contractions but not dilating fast. The only way I could keep the pain out of my back was to sit bolt upright but that meant that the monitor wouldn?t register baby?s hb. After a while they said either I had to lie back (no) or have the fetal scalp monitor put on (no). So I asked for an epidural thinking the anaesthetist would be 30-60mins away. Within 10 mins I was sitting on the bed being swabbed down! The epidural worked great ? I had two top ups as I had two breakthrough zones ? one on each hip ? but each time the anaesthetist was there within 10 mins to sort it ? despite being a Saturday. They did warn me that usually they let it wear down for pushing but as I would know what I was doing (being #4) they?d try me with it full first.

Finally about 9.30pm: I began to shake uncontrollably and they examined me, found me to be 10cm and baby?s head ?right there?. They let me sleep for about an hour and then woke me and said it was time to push. He got a bit stuck (had a deep dent above one brow) but I got him out all by myself which I was really pleased with as DH said at one point they were discussing getting a dr in. They left the epi as was because although it was a bit of a struggle getting him out they could tell I was pushing 'right' apparently.

They put him straight on my chest where he just lay and snuggled and fed a bit for about 45 mins til I was sick all over his head Blush so they had to give him a wipe over then. Shame was, they had to do it again about 30 mins after that Blush Blush

Tiny tear, but already it?s got to the point where I can wee normally Grin. Feeding is going well so far. I am a bit sore on one nipple but it?s beginning to get better and I?ve got the local BF lot sending someone round later to check latch etc. I know it sounds daft but because I?ve never been v good at it before I?m not sure what?s right and wrong but as it?s going so well I want to do everything I can to continue.

BTW, if anyone?s struggling ? I did give S a tiny formula feed on Monday and Tuesday nights. He took about 1/2oz each time which was enough just to settle him and give me a bit of breathing space. And I can assure you that from the state of my boobs yesterday that it hasn?t affected my supply AT ALL! Wink

All in all this is a bit of an essay, but it?s been nice and cathartic for me so sorry you had to suffer Grin

cara2244 · 21/07/2011 15:19

Button and Nicola so excited for you both! It's lovely hearing about all these births when we have all been chatting since the first tri!! I feel like the exciting babymoon bit is starting to wear off now although I am trying to make it last. My mum has taken my two year old to The shops so I am chilling on the sofa cuddling my girl.
Today was my due date but I have a three week old...weird.

buttonmoon78 · 21/07/2011 15:47

I know what you mean Cara. My mum's just gone off on the school run. I'm sat here with a thoroughly satiated S next to me swaddled nicely and gurning at me from time to time as he's got a bit of wind. Happy days Smile

MW came today. S has lost 9.8% (but that's 14oz!) so she's coming back on Saturday to weigh again as apparently they're cracking down on 10% losses for some reason. He's either got to remain static or put on. If he goes down any mor he's got to be medically reviewed Sad We're hopeful he'll be ok though and stay the same at least. She did say that with him being a couple of weeks early and induced he was bound to be a bit of a slow starter re feeding so I feel like she's on side at least.

The lady from the BF place was lovely too. Helped me to get him latched on quicker. She said once he was on the latch was fine, but that he was being a bit fussy getting on which was probably why I was a bit sore (although that is now improving). I've been giving the Lansinoh a bit of a bashing today too - it really helps to make sure the breast pads don't stick to sore nipples because when they do, my face looks like this Shock when I try to remove the pads!

So, DH has gone to London overnight, and mum has put me on strict instructions (with MW approval) to only leave the sofa when I need the loo Grin. I am officially sofa bound - but for the very best reason! Mum is determined to see me succeed this time. And if not, it won't be through lack of her trying!

isitreallythattime · 21/07/2011 20:02

Guys, are we going to start a post natel thread to share our stories, tips etc?? x

nicolamumof3 · 21/07/2011 20:12

evening all, just quickly popping on. Sore exhausted but thrilled with baby girl!

wondered same about postnatal thread actually? Its weird how quickly you forget being pg once they're here. This time yesterday Isla was not even two hours old. I've been home, done school run Shock (had promised ds2 for months that when baby arrived would take her to school to show his friends, and today last day of term!) unpacked bags done some washing. Just waiting for dh to cook steak then dinner, bath and bed for me.

Hope everyone doing ok? Have been thinking of Jimmy today, any news?

nicolamumof3 · 21/07/2011 20:20

button will read your birth story tomorrow when i can focus again.

Made huge huge decision (well for me anyway) not to BF dd. Feel very confident about my decision this time, no guilt at all. However she is very reluctant to feed. All my babies have been slow tho to recover from birth and first 24hrs mainly sleep. It is very strange giving such a young baby a bottle but she is getting hang of it slowly. I've spent too many early days struggling with BF only to give in. So i want to enjoy the early days this time, particulary with DH returning to work on Mon/Tues. The boys have been very demanding already this afternoon, (my two youngest are five and four) and so the holidays I can see already will be hard work!

isitreallythattime · 21/07/2011 20:38

Off to bed now while i hasve a feeding break but will be very happy to start post natle thread if there 5sn't 6ne a33ready. D* bac2 t6 w6r2 06nday and have no idea how ou manage with new born feeding 24/7 and ds (4) looking after. Assuming some routine will be needed but not sure i can say routine/new born and bf in the same sentance as i know they dont go togethder!!

Night night, enjoy each minute shut eye you can get! xx

isitreallythattime · 21/07/2011 20:40

Oh dear, will re-send above tomorrow, no energy to re-type correctly.

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