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July 2011 - the final push!

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buttonmoon78 · 23/05/2011 21:26

I'm not going to do the stats as it took up so much of every page! Welcome, everyone!

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buttonmoon78 · 20/06/2011 06:07

Looking lovely Stangirl! I've only put on 24lbs so now am doubly [cross]!

Will get dd to take a photo later for your amusement interest.

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SpannerPants · 20/06/2011 07:11

That's awful Button - I can't believe people can be so rude! The only person who keeps telling me that I look enormous is my MIL, who somewhat ironically is enormous (size 24ish and not very tall). I have to really bite my tongue when she starts, and DP has become a master of changing the topic of conversation quickly.

Still, I had a patient tell me last week that she didn't realise I was pregnant!

I had a scary hour about 4am today where I had 4 quite painful braxton hicks in the space of an hour, was at the point of waking DP up but then I managed to go back to sleep. Now I"m 37 weeks I'm overanalysing every little twinge Confused

buttonmoon78 · 20/06/2011 08:02

I know what you mean! I started taking the EPO capsules on Friday and have been having really strong BH ever since. I know it's only coincidence but still!

I'm swinging between hoping the baby turns so I can have a natural delivery and hoping it stays put so I can have a section Confused With dd1 she was perfectly positioned and it was the best labour I had and makes me want to try it again. The other two were not so good and make me want a section. I wish I could have the gift of foresight for both eventualities and then choose!

You'll have to wait for the photo. DD just turned camera on so I could be photographed but battery was dead so currently recharging!

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MissLolita · 20/06/2011 08:03

Hi ladies, glad we're all still in one piece after the weekend :) I can empathise with supermarket trips - I popped to Sainsbury's on Friday because although we normally get everything delivered I had run out of a couple of bits and (sad as it sounds) I wanted to buy myself some lightweight tracksuit bottoms and it's a big store with a clothing section and parking...anyway, I got really disorientated and forgot why I was there half way through and just at the point when I was staring into space my NCT teacher appeared and asked if I was ok whilst looking at me as though I should really be supervised... I flustered through and managed to get out but when I got on the car and looked in the rear-view mirror I realised I hd red pen streaked across my cheek and mouth...rather worrying on 2 counts - I had no recollection of having had a red pen in my hand at any time and it means that I had driven to he shop without looking in the rearview mirror....oh well...:)
Cara, Prof Brian Cox is a gorgeous particle physicist who also used to be in D:REAM?
My clumsiness has reached new levels and yesterday I dropped my iPhone onto the road and it's smashed :( it's hanging on for dear life but the damage is terminal :(

buttonmoon78 · 20/06/2011 08:07

Oh, MissL! I am Sad Grin and Blush for you all at the same time!

And PMSL of course Grin

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Badgerwife · 20/06/2011 08:44

Interesting weekend for me too. Went to a wedding on saturday; I was in the band and singing so got up at 7am, 1 hr travel, practice from 10am, wedding at 1pm followed by fantastic village fete themed reception (complete with hog roast and ice cream van); we were also invited to the evening meal which didn't start till 8pm and dragged so we didn't get home till 1am. So an 18 hour day!!! With lots of people saying "so you are due any minute then?" Er, no, 5 weeks actually WAAAAIL.

I cannot begin to describe the horror that was yesterday, I was in pain pretty much all over and basically spent the entire day in bed trying not to cry... Thank goodness I am now on maternity leave!

Stangirl · 20/06/2011 09:03

Badger - so sorry yesterday was rough - but yay for mat leave!

I'm now in a tricky 48 hours whilst DP is away in France. Bit nerve wracking. I do have a birth partner and childcare lined up - but would much rather Dp was around. Him and his bloody job!

Pesha · 20/06/2011 11:08

I am getting very cross about everything all the bloody festivals at the moment. DP is a cider maker so is having to do loads of overtime to get it all made and shipped out to them all. Sat was his first day off in 2 weeks, he worked 12 hours yesterday and is working 12 hours again today and its prob going to be like this for most of the summer. The money is great but I could really do with him being around more at the moment and not being completely knackered all the time because I am completely knackered all the time and could really do with some help! Not to mention that Pilton is located directly between home and where he works so his 40 min drive is going to start taking a lot longer this week!

Am so uncomfortable now, baby is just too big. Have consultant appt on Thurs although no mention of a scan on the letter. Everything has settled down now though and just having painful BH rather than the full on painful contractions I was having before so have accepted that baby is not going to come early after all and back to expecting him to be late so trying not to think about it all really. DP pointed out its only 10 days till due date which I quite like, sounds much better to be counting in days rather than weeks!

MissL - I never realised Brian Cox was in D:REAM, how come you got to meet him?

HighFibreDiet · 20/06/2011 12:30

Hello again. Well button your experience with the cashier sounds bloody annoying. I hate it that everyone feels it's okay to comment on your size (and everything else to do with your pregnancy). I went through a patch of feeling huge a few weeks ago and feeling sensitive whenever anyone asked when the baby was due, but now I just feel I'm actually a reasonable size. The thing that annoys me though is that everyone wants to comment on the fact that I have three boys already and must really want a girl. This one is a girl, but I really wasn't fussed one way or the other. Doesn't stop all the comments though. Sorry to hear about your pelvis getting worse too. Sad At least it's not too long to wait until it's all over...

Re the homebirths, despite the hospital assuming I had transferred all care over to them following the GD diagnosis, my midwife has finally said that she will support me in my decision. So we are having a home birth after all, hooray!!! I have my list of stuff to get but have most of it, just have to get hold of a few dustsheets and stock up on food for dp and the midwives. I haven't yet bought any presents for the boys 'from the baby' and better get a move on if I'm going to order DVDs from Amazon otherwise they might not arrive before the baby does.

MissLolita it's never too late to book a homebirth (at least in the UK that is) but realise that some hospital staff think it's never too late to persuade you to go to hospital either - my sister was taken in on the day she went into labour based on a rather spurious blood pressure reading. The reading was fine once she arrived in hospital and she feels the midwife attending her just didn't want to hang around at home. Sad

sues I am also sleeping much better than in previous pregnancies, no piles of pillows around me this time round and I don't even have a special bolster or pregnancy pillow. I think I'm probably just knackered enough to sleep whatever my position Smile.

crazyafterthought that's so wonderful, best of luck for your Dec babe.

twit all your pains do sound exciting although I can appreciate you don't feel that way. But it's good to have had your hair done. I'm hoping to get my legs waxed this week, although it is going to be a very busy week, and haircut next week.

cara even though everyone says each labour is different, it's hard not to base your feelings and expectations on what you've been through before. Anyway I bet you will deal with labour far better this time. But have you thought of trying hypnotherapy? I borrowed a hypnobirthing book from the library and it's very interesting. Of course lots of it is supposed to be done with a properly trained person but there's a CD with the book so you can do some of the relaxation and visualisations on your own.

LadygoneGaga check out our thread about Gestational Diabetes if you want to. I really hope for your sake that the GTT comes up clear, but if it doesn't, there's loads you can do to minimise risks to the baby and to you, and stop the baby from putting on loads more weight. A really low GI diet and exercise at night makes a huge difference to lots of women, although some still need to go on insulin.

Finally stangirl it is lovely to go out once in a while, isn't it? I still remember with pleasure going to a 'black tie' wedding reception when pregnant with ds2. In fact I still have the dress, must get round to putting it on eBay sometime as I doubt I will want it again.

Time to check other threads and then go on the exercise bike. :)

hefner · 20/06/2011 12:37

Pesha counting in days rather than weeks sounds good, I'm really excited today as I've realised I now have less than a month to go! Hope you don't have to wait too much longer.

I'm quite happy for baby to wait till the due date or even a bit longer, I'm feeling ok at the moment and I like the idea of having a couple of weeks maternity leave to relax before the baby arrives.

I'm trying to buy the last few baby things, and I have a question about bedding. Do you need to put a flat sheet over the baby as well as a blanket? Or can I just use fitted sheets for the mattress and cellular blankets to go over the baby? I'm thinking I might get a few flat sheets anyway as they might be useful for hot weather or in case all the fitted sheets are in the wash, but just wondered whether I should be using a sheet under the blanket or not.

buttonmoon78 · 20/06/2011 17:09

I find flat sheets v useful. Not normally for using on top of baby, but for swaddling etc.

Another good tip is to use a flat sheet or muslin across the head end of the pram/moses basket/cot. If baby is sick, you can just whip that one off and lie another one down. It saves wrestling with fitted sheets in the middle on the night!

I am so fed up now. Pelvic relief proved temporary. I have (apparently) grown since yesterday. Nearly all my tops are getting too short (is obviously not my bump getting too big). I am finding it difficult to drive. I can't breathe. I'm getting lots of BH which are really painful and make me stop and breathe through them every time. I'm getting hoofed in all my painful bits cos baby is still breech. And it's been so hot here today and muggy too. Someone at school said I was glowing with health. Think she's blind. I'm sweaty, that's all Smile

To top it all off, I had one of those damn annoying email updates earlier which said that if the baby was born now it would not likely suffer breathing difficulties and probably be born just fine. Cue me thinking 'well, let's get this show on the road then!'

Oh, what a whinger. I'm so jealous of all you guys who are ready to pop and counting in days. I have 39 days til official due date, 25 til probably date of induction/section.

I have a MW appt tomorrow. Hope I buck up before then or I'll end up crying all over her! Smile

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buttonmoon78 · 20/06/2011 17:09

Oh, and I can't upload the photo. MN keeps spitting it out. Any suggestions anyone?

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Stangirl · 20/06/2011 19:13

Growth scan today showed baby is 7lbs 7oz - at 36 weeks!

buttonmoon78 · 20/06/2011 19:17

Last time mine showed ds at 7.5lbs at 37wks. He was born at 38wks at 7lbs. It's not an exact science!

I'm such a grumpy cow. Shouted at dds earlier. They weren't being angels but didn't deserve me turning into Attila the Hun Blush

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Twit · 20/06/2011 19:53

well at least im not the only grumpy arsed fecker round here.
ladygonegaga i only got them little things ds1and 2 books they have been badgering me about dd a hello kitty toy she saw and ds3 a battery powered engine to go on his train tracks so not very much.
2 weeks to go tomorrow as babytwit wont go over of course Winkam counting the days (14) hopefully ill be back on the old laptop tomorrow so better able to join in. unless...

highheelsandequations · 20/06/2011 20:36

Well 4 days of work till ML starts and can't wait. Pretty sure pip dropped last night too, had very weird shifting sensation and today bump looks much lower, plus can breathe a little bit again and haven't spent the whole day with horrible heartburn :) Hoping this means everything is on track but haven't a clue really!

Want2bSupermum · 20/06/2011 20:51

I am also very grumpy today. I had another obn appointment this morning for 10am. I arrived 20mins early and didn't get out until 11.10am. Somehow I have managed to gain 6lbs in one week so the Dr ordered blood tests. I still haven't opened and they don't want to induce until I am dilated by at least 1cm. In the meantime I have a baby that is pushing down onto my lower back and it really hurts. If my back would open up just a little bit and allow the head to decend I am 99% sure my cervix would open. I am rather frustrated with my body.

Fraochsmum · 20/06/2011 20:55

Oh Button I know I shouldn't have laughed, but your supermarket scenario was like a Little Britain sketch! I'm sure it really wasn't funny, but you seriously can't make that sort of stuff up! Good suggestion re blanket under head btw. No techno advice I'm afraid - I'm currently trying to install my phone software to uploads photos from it. Probably v unsucessfully.
Sorry you're feeling rubbish Pesha, but not long to go now and you have that fabby holiday to look forward to afterwards Smile
My BIL has announced that our neice is being christened in Norway on 21st Aug, don't think I'll be bothering...
I got a scan today!! So chuffed, I said to mw we should err on the side of caution in case I spontaniously labour here early, she said I was pushing my luck Grin All looked well though, anterior placenta, head well down, chord out the way, plenty of lychen (?is that the word?). Though his/her nose looked squashed - DH asked if I had anything to tell him Grin I've also got my appointment in Glasgow next week (37+4) which I'm looking forward to and hope to get a wee nosy round the place if they are quiet enough. Mind you, DH is hectic at work and wants to do it in 1 day, which at 6 hours on the road, app, and picking up any last minute things is not making me feel at ease. I also got the breastfeed talk from her, which they all have to do even if you've done it before and will most likely do again. She said that of all the mothers she thought would have given up with it not being very easy, it would have been me because of difficulties I had with her and my sore nipples. It made me feel really good that I had managed to EBF, but I don't recall it being so bad - only the 1st night in the hospital. Maybe I just don't have the same sensation, after all I did get 1 pierced. Twice.

Hefner I just used a fitted sheet under DD when she was born and only swaddled her when trying to get her to latch on. She was born at the start of Jan, but I was conscious not to make her too warm all the same.
Hope you have fully recovered now badger x

buttonmoon78 · 20/06/2011 20:55

Twit the problem is it's not just my arse that's grumpy Grin

Feeling a little less hot this evening - rain has arrived so is much less muggy, much more pleasant.

Just spent a very nice few mins assembling my steriliser and breast pump and clearing a space in the kitchen for the whole contraption. Makes me feel a bit Smile. Also made the most of the drying weather today as the rest of the week is meant to be so pants. Now have a lovely pile of clean baby sheets. Again, makes me Smile.

Have just clocked that if I do have this one on July 15th (ish) the whole of dd2's last week of junior school is after that - discos, leavers' assembly etc. Whoops!

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buttonmoon78 · 20/06/2011 21:03

I'm laughing about it now fraoch. I was telling ds's nursery teacher about it this morning and she was almost wetting herself! Glad all is looking good for you. I'm not envying your roadtrip though. My dh sounds a bit like yours - eternally optimistic over what I'll achieve!

Highheels whether it's an indication of anything getting going, I'm not sure, but it's certainly an indication of things moving in the right direction!

Want2b It's frustrating isn't it? With every one of these horrible BH I'm getting, I keep thinking, well, at least it's getting me closer to d day.

I've decided to treat my grumpy self to a lager shandy. And a feast ice cream. Or possibly two. After all, if everyone thinks I'm eating for 3 perhaps I'd better make the most of it Grin

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purpleplump · 20/06/2011 21:47

Hi all, new to the forums, 38 weeks + 1 due 3rd July, just thought I would introduce myself x

Want2bSupermum · 21/06/2011 04:52

Hello purple Welcome to the madness.

Button I would eat ice cream if I could. It has too much salt in it apparently. I have been eating ice pops though!

buttonmoon78 · 21/06/2011 07:37

Are you off salt cos of the swelling? I'd be buying an ice cream maker Grin

Welcome purple. You'll fit right in I'm sure but if you've got a small bump I'll be jealous

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dyerlou · 21/06/2011 09:15

Hi all just wanted to pop in and say hi again! am on my way to have a sweep this morn and feeling very nervous! both because I had one on Ds2 and it bloody hurt and didn't work (I swore I would never have one ever again!) and because they might not actually be able to do it if am not favourable! meaning I think- ripe and ready! which will be so disappointing! really want to get this show on the road! Literately! Both my previous two were two weeks late and just can't cope with that this time so have requested a sweep today! am 38+1wks! wish me luck and will update as to weather it went ahead or not! Hmm

buttonmoon78 · 21/06/2011 09:18

Good luck!

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