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Due in Dec 05 - The wind up to the countdown!!!!!!

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sweetheart · 01/11/2005 09:24

OK, well we've needed a new thread for ages so I've taken it upon myself to start it.

Good luck ladies - we are nearly down to the last month

35 + 2 or should I say "T minus 4wks 5 days"!

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flutterbee · 10/11/2005 15:18

I would go and get checked out bonkerz just to be on the safe side, I did and look what's happening to me

Ebbie -- Not really leaking anymore, more like a jelly type discharge!! But have been assured that this is normal as there is NO fluid left round baby to come out!! I just loose it as I replenish it which is why they have decided on the induction.

ThomCat · 10/11/2005 15:22

Afternoon ladies. Well I was back in bed and asleep by 10.30, got woken by work calling me about something trivial about 12ish but woke again about 15 mins ago. Just made my self some fresh chicken and vegetable soup and having a little MN moment before goiong back to bed again.
I will not allow myself a notebook & pen, maybe a little bit of TV and hopefully some more dozing.
Think I might blow out my yoga. Would mean sorting myself out and being on the road by about 5.30 and I just don't think I can.

My official last day at work is 01 Dec, I don't work on Friday's anyway so....

God, still feel shattered.

Nemo - happy anniversary babes, have a lovley evening

Flutter - sorry you had a painful appt, take it easy hon', and good luck, it's all v exciting.

Bonkerz - hope you feel better soon sweet.

sweetheart · 10/11/2005 15:24

ohhh yes forgot to say Happy Anniversary Nemo!

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ThomCat · 10/11/2005 15:24

I'm 34 weeks exactly today.
Just taken my 1st Raspberry leaf tablet and just about to have my first raspberry leaf cuppa.

sweetheart · 10/11/2005 15:25

ahhhh thanks Scully. I shall be on here asap to spill the gossip about my leaving lunch tomorrow

Have a good weekend hun - enjoy your Friday off!

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sweetheart · 10/11/2005 15:26

TC - whats Raspberry Leaf? I'm 36 + 4 - should I be taking it?

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expatinscotland · 10/11/2005 15:29

35 weeks and starting to struggle. Having a hard time keeping food down b/c my stomach is pushed so high, so stayed home today. I'm just SO bloody tired. Want to sleep and sleep. My hands go numb easily as well.

Am starting to roll on the birthing ball in the evenings and to go up stairs sideways b/c baby is SO high.

ThomCat · 10/11/2005 15:37

Hi Sweetheart -

women who had taken raspberry leaf tablets were found to have a shorter second stage of labour and a lower rate of forceps delivery (19.3% versus 30.4%).

It is very important not to use raspberry leaves until the last three months of pregnancy because of their stimulating effect on the uterus. Start with one cup of tea a day or one tablet and build up gradually to a maximum of four cups of tea or tablets daily. The tea can be sipped freely during labour, too.

The leaves of the raspberry plant have been used as a medicinal herb for centuries. It is thought to have many varied properties including those that are beneficial for pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding. It is believed that raspberry leaf, if taken regularly through pregnancy and labour can:

Ease the symptoms of morning sickness.

Sooth and prevent bleeding gums which many pregnant women often experience.

Relax the smooth muscles of the uterus when it is contracting.

Assist with the birth of the baby and the placenta.

Calm cramping of the uterus.

Provide a rich source of iron, calcium, manganese and magnesium. The magnesium content is especially helpful in strengthening the uterine muscles. Raspberry leaf also contains vitamins B1, B3 and E which are valuable in pregnancy.

Raspberry leaf is also used for the following:

To aid fertility.

To promote a plentiful supply of breastmilk.

To help stop excess bleeding after birth.

To treat diarrhoea.

To regulate irregular menstrual cycle and decreases heavy periods.

To relieve sore throats.

To reduce fever.

It is thought that around one fifth of pregnant women take some form of raspberry leaf. Women believe that it will shorten labour and make the birth easier. The use of this herb for remedial purposes dates back to the sixth century and its benefits in childbirth have been recorded as a proven aid in maternity in the most ancient of herbal books.

flutterbee · 10/11/2005 15:37

Thomcat -- was told by MW some time ago that you should stear clear of Raspberry tablets/teas till at least 37 weeks because they so very good at starting labour. Not sure if she was being over careful but just thought I would let you know.

ninah · 10/11/2005 15:38

Sorry to be so ignorant but wondering what birthing ball is supposed to do - is it like those big plastic globes at the gym. Could I use a space hopper?

ThomCat · 10/11/2005 15:40

You can start Raspberry leaf stuff at 34 weeks and build it up.
It's really not powerful enough to start labour.
By week 36 you can really step things up and take more.
I checked this with my midwife, the woman in the health food store who I get on really well with , and my active birth yoga teacher.

ThomCat · 10/11/2005 15:42

Birthing balls are much much bigger than space hoppers, you use them to sit on in evenings. You can sit on a low stool and lean forward and support yourself on ball. You can roll around on it while sitting on it, can help with contractions. And then you can use it to lie bubs across when he/she is here and rock gently back and forth so good for colic and wind etc.

ninah · 10/11/2005 15:46

thanks TC! I saw you got one
Imagined they were physio type things. I think I'll stick to sofa for the time being!

scully · 10/11/2005 15:46

I've been on the birthing ball for so many weeks now that my dd has a beach ball which we've blown up for her and she sits on hers now, hilarious to see
Rasberry leaf tablets are meant to help you have a shorter 2nd stage of labour. As they stimulate your uterus you aren't meant to take them until the last 3mths of pregnancy. I quite like the tea, haven't tried the tablets, but as I didn't labour last time, don't know if they had any effect.

ThomCat · 10/11/2005 15:50

I didn't use tablets before euther but they are more concentrated and can be taken with the tea anyway so I thought i'd go for it.

Not massively enjoying the tea i have here, I remeber it being more fruity before. This is more tea like than fruit like but is a good brand. I let it seep for 7 mins as directed for medicinal purposes!!

sweetheart · 10/11/2005 15:55

ok well thats me sold on Raspberry Leaf - I'll be off to buy some tomorrow!!!!

Well, just had a call from my assistant saying she will pick me up from home tomorrow. I'm not to bring my car into the office - ohhhh it's getting very intreaging now!

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scully · 10/11/2005 15:57

a friend took the tablets before her 1st baby was born 9wks ago - he was overdue and she was getting desperate
she laboured for 6hrs from start to finish, so she will definitely be taking them next time around, in the hope they helped speed things along.
birthing balls are also good for giving your baby room to move, especially if it's breech etc. I haven't been able to sit on our sofa for ages now, the back rest is too far back and I'm just at completely the wrong angle to encourage the baby to be head down, so I've been on the ball or sitting on the floor for about 2mths now

bonkerz · 10/11/2005 16:31

Have been to midwife. My blood pressure i still high but not much higher than Tuesday and i have a trace of protein in my urine. HAve to go back tomorrow for yet another full blood count and also another urine test and am meant to go see her next thursday but wont be here cos im with you lot!
Strict instructions to rest and if headache gets any worse or it hurts to wee to go straight to hospital.
Says it could be a viral infection or the onset of a urine infection so any major back pain or stinging and she said i will probably be admitted to hospital for obs.

flutterbee · 10/11/2005 18:08

Bonkerz make sure you take it easy, it might be nothing but just to be on the safe side make sure you put your feet up as much as possible.

george32 · 10/11/2005 19:05

Sorry you are in pain Flutter. I hope that this is it & you don't have to stay in pain for long. Rest, rest & more rest for you

Same goes for you Bonkerz, feet up & telly on.

Hope you have a lovely day tomorrow SH. You might be right about doing more at home than work. I'm shattered today after trying to put the nursery together. Not even half way through yet but had to have a sleep.

Ninah, £3.99 in Argos for a ball - bargain and ever so comfy (honest!!). I love mine and sit dementedly bouncing on it

Wow, TC, sounds like you really did need some rest. Glad you have tomorrow & all weekend too. Your little one must be doing a bit of growing in there.

Nemo, how lovely of your DHs mum to send flowers to you.
How is your carpet? All fitted & lovely?

Lazy night for me (as if any night isn't!)

Nemo1977 · 10/11/2005 22:19

Evening all
flutter half hope it is the start for you

bonkerz hope you have taken it easy tonight!!!!!!!!!

well how excited am I the carpet is gorgeous sooo much better than I remember and the rooms look huge now!!! Dh was winding me up when the men were fitting it saying it didnt go with wallpaper and we had picked a dark dirty colour etc...I actually waited for adam to go and check and he shouted up its nice mummy..lol Have spent most of day lugigng furniture about and have still got loads of nick nacks to go away. Dh and I had a take away tonight for tea after adam had gone to bed and it just took us over an hour to eat it and even then we were too stuffed to eat it all..lol mmmmmmmmmm

ebbie22 · 10/11/2005 22:42

glad u had a gd nite nemo....
Whittard do a cranberry and rasberry tea,lovely...
5.oo for a big tubfull...Though i could and do drink it all the time xx

dramaqueen72 · 11/11/2005 00:18

blimey1
right.........
nemo/george carpets sound gorgeous, dont thye make a huge difference/ glad youre both happy with them.
george am with you on moving into nursery. mine is small (well fourth child get the box room I'm afraid!LOL) but sooooooo peaceful and calm. unlike rest of house.
bonkerz, take ti really easy girl, doesnt sound good; how youre feeling, get better soon!
flutter, SIT DOWN!!LOL and rest rest rest. hope everything keeps on plan for you now and you dont hurt too much.
scully you and dd sat on balls? sounds very very cute! I often come into sitting room to find another family member sat on mine....youre right about the sofa being so the wrong shape for now. i cant get comfy for long on sofa at all.
Tc glad your okay, nice to see you here more. hows your poss home brth plans going?
s/h hope youre spoilt rotten tomorrow! have a truly lovely time and rush back to tell us all about it please!

weird weird midwife appointment yesterday. had some trouble getting my head round it, which will sound silly to you all I'm sure but.
they cant tell if baby is breech or not now. so have scan booked for week 37 (first whole week of dec) with many options....
have to take in labour bags. will have scan in labour ward, not usual scan place (this statement makes me jittery enough!) either the scn will show straight away baby is now head down and i go home then.
or
baby shows up breech, consultant arrives and does ecv -medical turn- with a an unltraspund during to see what bit of babys where. these HURT and i'm nervous already. (just dont look them up on the internet, cause some of the bruising pictures .......
then either that works, baby goes head down, they monitor me for an hour to make sure baby is not stressed and THEN I go home.
or
baby refuses to turn, or turns but gets distressed. they monitor me for half an hour to see if baby calms down.if not I get an emergency c-section there and then! now that FREAKS me out!!!!!!!!
she actually yesterday wrote down the dates and times and started to put the wheels in motion, its so surreal to see that wrote down and being processed. my quiet home birth hangs in the balance cant know until week 37!!!!!!!!!
so i had to get my head round this yesterday and i admit it was harder than i thought. but i can do it right? 98% of all babies have turned by 37wks. I'm IN that 98% surely.......
sorry for off loading all this on you guys. but needed too, RL & non-pg people just dont get it.

MINNIE1 · 11/11/2005 08:51

dq
Lets hope the turning goes to plan and all will be ok.. Its alot to take in righ t now! How many weeks are you now?

ebbie22 · 11/11/2005 09:06

dq hope it turns by itself,keep watching the baby channel they have good tips will look out for you...
SWEETHEART Have a lovely LAST day today......
how is everyone else?