Good luck EauRouge! Good for you - its your baby and birth, don't let them pressure you into anything you don't feel comfortable with :)
Also good luck to slowangels - its sounds so frustrating, really hope they can "fit you in" - they need to make sure they can!
Janedoe the 4th march does seem like ages away, I really hope things start for you much sooner. I went 6 days over and it was long enough!
pinkie and ledkr hope your lo's are doing well now, it all sounds very scary tbh. I've found it hard enough with a healthy dd, I don't know how I'd cope with all that stress as well. Hope you are both ok.
Thought I'd share a bit of my birth story - arrived at hospital at 9.30am, measured 3cms dilated at about 10am, dd was born just 2 hours later no time for even a paracetemol (as offered by the midwife
) So very quick but looking back on it now the best possible way!
How is everyone coping with lack of sleep/general adjustment to this massive change?! If anyone is finding it as difficult as me I'd like to hear about it 
Sorry for super long post, know I;ve not been a regular poster on this thread but have found it a massive help to read over the past few months xx