Due in Nov 05 - Part VI!

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Yay!!

Into our last trimester everyone!!! Not long now surely!

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my midwife recommends perineal massage, she mentioned it when i was there last time as if it was a given that i'd be doing it. I've already had discussions with DH about it, as I can't even see my lady garden anymore let alone reach .

Have also read the threads about Arnica, think i might go for it, anything that helps with healing has to be worth a go in my book.

Pole dancing is very hard work, especially at the beginning, but it really works your thighs, arms and stomach. It's also very unsexy when you start learning, but a great laugh.

Morning all,
Hope everyone is well. I'm trying to enjoy my last day of being 29! Cannot believe the big '30' is tomorrow Bob - glad you're okay after scary ordeal and Nova hope the bite is okay.

Rodeo - Aren't you back yet? Don't see much of you and Beks here anymore. It's not the same...hurry back.

C u all soon

27+4

Nova - It's a great idea that you're going to start those classes. Have you thought of hiring a local hall? Have never tried it but enjoy belly dancing. I tried a few days ago but DH was getting worried about bump much to my amusement and there was certainly much more 'hip' than there is usually! I would definitely recommend that too.

Have never tried it - meaning pole dancing.

In light of my post thought you might enjoy reading this:

Bump and grind

What's the best way to work out when pregnant? Make the most of your assets, says Judith Eagle - put your tummy centre stage with a spot of belly dancing

Saturday June 11, 2005
The Guardian

Belly dancing in pregnancy? Isn't that a bit, well, weird? Well, no, actually. Not only is it that rare breed of exercise for which having a bulge is an advantage, but belly dancing was once a symbol of maternity in the Middle East, where it was traditionally performed (by women, for women) as a celebration of fertility, conception and birth.
While modern womenfolk seem unlikely to gather female friends around them to dance while they give birth, belly dancing can strengthen the internal support systems of the body during pregnancy. Forget "the quick dance of Turkish belly dancers in nightclubs with horsetails, and diamonds in their navels", says social anthropologist Sheila Kitzinger. The dance you need is slow and languorous, with gently undulating, rolling moves.

You can read the full article here:
bellydance

Tex - I used arnica tabs for healing with an operation I had about 5 years ago. Def. healed faster than expected and will use them again.

Meet-up.

Right, so far it's:
Me
Nova
Enthusia
Tex

Anyone else? Will you all be on mat. leave by September? Suggest we meet up at resturant near a tube stn, so easy for everyone to get too. My preference is something near the Angel Islington - there are loads of places to eat and the Angel is on the Northern line only a couple of stops from the centre of town. Any thoughts?

Goldenoldie - Already off work so any day during week is good. Only day that is bad for me so far Tuesday 6th as I have a MW appointment and on Thursday 15th I start antenatal at hospital in the evening! Other than that very free. As for where, no pref really, will probably come up to Victoria but quite happy to tube hop to wherever.

Enthusia, I did perineal massage with DS but ended up with a C-section so can't say if it helped or not. I do have a friend who swears by it, has had two babies and never torn or needed an episiotomy. I used sweet almond oil but my friend always used olive oil because she was concerned about using a nut oil. I'm sure someplace like Neal's Yard could recommend a good oil.

BUM protectiveness!! LOL Really should read my posts.

Nova - you should put a message on the pregnancy board about the belly bag. I would never have found out about it if it wasn't for you. Managed to drag myself away from it long enough to pick up ds from nursery, but am getting back on it the minute I've had lunch. .

Belly, pole and lap dancing, what's happening to this thread. Your dh/dps must have a wonderful time. Must definitely find a class, though I think dh will just piss himself laughing, and it won't do much in the foreplay department.

Tex - You not having any luck with your back. Hope it heals properly and doesn't cause you anymore grief.

Goldie - The meet up is a really great idea but unfortunately, I won't be able to make it, don't have anyone to look after ds.

Lunch is really. Will try to drag myself away from my belly bag ever now and then to say hello.

Hamster I think you can apply for the grant if you are on low income or income support (the job centre should help you)

BOB I understand the protectiveness, I'm really shy and won't stand up for myself, but when it comes to Jellybean...watch out!!!

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Hi Ladies, the belly dancing looks good , what a good idea, I'm going to look into in, read the link Cha Cha !
Hope you havea great birthday tomorrow incase I don't get back on , had my 31st last week, it's not so bad really !
CADS - doc gave me some antibiotics after telling me how women get pregnancy related skin complaints sometimes , he's so arrogant, but thanks for asking, look a real mess today !
Least people are leaving me alone. x x x

I love the term 'belly bean' , I'm afraid I've stolen it !!
Sharon 28+5 I think ??

SHARON!!!

did you see my message to you yest re location?

Hi pinkminx , think I've missed that one ?
What did it say ?
Sorry there's just so many to read sometimes !

hehe i know!

i'm guessing by your name, we share the same postcode LOL

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Chacha, i've read about bellydancing somewhere else - probably in one of the many pregnancy/baby magazines I now possess. My sister used to do it and really loved it.

I really don't have any intention of setting up my own dance classes, I'm happy to run informal sessions at my house, but hopefully I'll be able to get a job teaching at an established school once i'm back up to standard again.

Goldenoldie, i'm off work too and the only days i can't make are 6th and 26th September. Angel is fine by me, but i'm not familiar with decent places around there so i'm open to suggestions.

CADS, would it be possible to bring DS?? I'm glad you're enjoying the belly bag. It took me a while to find the best position on it, find it's quite good for laying semi-sideways aswell as face down. DH says it looks like i'm flying when i'm laying down as my arms and legs hang off.

the TW ? that's my surname - Taylor-Watson (all his not mine) !! not very adventurous I know - I'd never picked nicknames for chat places before, if I'd realised I would have picked something more adventurous like ShazWat or something ?
Would be a good idea though now you've mentioned it !!

what's this bellybag ???
any help getting comfy and sleeping I'm open to all suggestions !??

LMAO

sorry hun!!! I totally thought you lived in Twickenham like me hehehe sorry!

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Chacha, have you got your 3d scan tomorrow? You said it was a 30th pressie. Do you have any exciting plans lined up? I'm sure you'll be allowed at least one glass of champers

10 weeks til my 30th - I still get excited by birthdays, actually no, i get excited by the build up to birthdays, the actual day is usually very ordinary. Saying that, last year we went to Amsterdam for the weekend, featured in a fashion show in front of about 2000 people, and I got my nipples pierced. This year I will either be waiting for/having/have had a baby. Hmm which one is more fun....

I think it's a good idea, don't think anyone on the site is near me I'm in Guisborough Cleveland, near Whitby ??

Nova !!!! Ouch ! Really ?

Is everyone on this thread younger than me ??

Sharon, this is a belly bag. Again, it's another discovery from a baby mag.

I have a personal querie, Nova, you reminded me...i have a piercing, not sure what to do, its not the easiest to remove, plus theres a big bump in the way now. Will i need to take it out? Sorry to be rude, its been bugging me

Sharon...sorry again, i feel reaaly bad

Are newbs allowed to meet up? (although after the above question you probably wont want to meet LOL)

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