Won't go into details but our son had oxygen starvation at some point leading up to his birth (born 11 days ago). We extubated him on Sunday and he's been treated palliatively as he's not expected to survive. She said goodbye to him the day before as we didn't think he would breathe for long on his own. However, 3 days later he's still with us and we are at the hospital (one of us) all the time, taking it in turns. I've tried to explain he isn't going to wake up and will eventually not be here any more. She asked me today where he will be going and I think I mumbled something about going up to the stars (we're not religious). How can I explain it to her? I've mentioned dying but I'm not sure if she really understands what that is. Are there any books that I could use? I don't want to make a hash of it, as we would like her to remember in a good way - she was able to come in to see him several times and do hand/foot prints with him amongst other things. Thanks