The Sunflower Thread for bereaved mummies. For Gareth and Matthew - only a whisper away

[shabster]

Hello my new friends.

Come in, pull up a chair and have a gab

So you married kiwi ?

nope lol, I married a Cherokee Native American lol.

However all my girls' names are from other countries. Freja is the Norse Goddess, Raeden is a Japanese God, and then there's Calypso

Hi Ladies - been so busy at work not had time to post.

Alisteal - so sorry for your loss, hope you will find some comfort here.

Triplets - don't know if you will be able to post today but wanted to let you know that I have been thinking about you and DH today, knowing that he had chemo today, hope it wasn't too bad. Will he be staying in hospital long or will he be able to have the chemo as an outpatient?

We are off to London tomorrow for DH's check up at Barts where he will have a bone marrow test, hoping everything is clear.

Ive had four inches off my hair ladies!! not nearly so long now will add the pic to my profile.... my neck feel cold!!!

Hi everyone,
First of all love to Evansmummy, love hurts, it takes time, a long time, hard to believe at this stage but you will one day think of him and smile instead of cry, but it hurts in the meantime and no-one can take that away for you, or we all would.

Dippy, thank you for remembering about today. He was in the hospital for 4 hours, now has a pump attached to him for 46 hours, not sure how he`ll sleep, he feels ok so far, but of course its too ealry to tell. I hope you get some good news tomorrow, will think of you xx

Im having mine chopped tomorrow Lottie - cant wait. Bet you look posh.

Think I have a touch of the baby blues!! Can Grandmas get them??? Feel a bit deflated today - mind you this has been a mad house for the last few months. All will be well on the 28th - returning to our little bit of paradise - Rhodes. xxx

Hiya trips - we posted at almost the same time AGAIN xxx Hope H and you are OK. One more step along the way my darling xx

And spooky..............I am having my hair cut tomorrow Shabs!

and we are both pregnant and expecting multiples again

OMG Shabs, imagine H`s and Derksters face

Alisteal, I am nosey and love the States, may I ask where abouts you live?

and Dan and Ems faces!!!! ROFL. Tom would love it.

The quads would be Uncles to Lewis and younger than him

Anybody here ?

Me! H just gone up to bed, hope he gets a good night, God knows where he`ll put the pump, oh thats sounds rude

Hi Trips, sounds like today went as well as can be expected and great news you wont have that journey to do for further treatment.

Enjoy your group hair cuts wont you......

Shabs lovely talking with you again today, I wish we were all closer, someone suggested somewhere we get a map and agree on a meeting place, sorry a couple of celebratory glasses of wine and names are faceless.......is that right ?

Night night Vaggy, get that map out and I`ll be there! Sagapo x

Heya Trips. i'm in Indiana, the great CORN state lol. We've been having flooding recently though

Good morning girls - everybody ok? Raining hard here and cold.

Alisteal, you married a Cherokee Native American....... bet your DC's are beautiful. What a wonderful heritage.

Trips we need to take the international MN'ers among us into account......

Hawaii ????????

Morning all, weather is ok here....Hoping to take Wilf to see Ruby-Jean this weekend! Am waiting to hear today if we can or not!

I second an International trip! But have been to Hawaii twice so maybe we could try somewhere else if you don't mind. Maybe somewhere in South America? How about Cuba?

Ali, hope I didn't seem insensitive prattling on about hope, etc, etc. After all you've suffered I completely understand why you've decided against any more! I love the whole whale rider thing!

Trips, sorry, forget your dh had chemo yesterday. How is he feeling today? I (thankfully) don't kow anyone who's had chemo so have no idea whether you get rough straight after, a day after, a week after! Anyway, I hope he's feeling OK and that you both got a decent nights sleep.

Nice to hear everyone is getting haircuts ready for the summer! Maybe I will too! Although dp DID threaten to do mine yesterday after my little mishap with the clippers!

I saw a homeopath yesterday. She said she reckons I need to find myself a psychotherapist, not because of recent life events but because of life events going back to when I was in-utero! However, in the meantime, she is going to treat me and has also suggested I consider other alternative therapies to unblock blockages, maybe a bit of Reiki or something. Anyone got any good experiences?

Shabs, re the multiples pregnancies for you and Trips - maybe you can officially make your big announcement when you're back from Faliraki

Hi All
Hopre you and dh are doing ok Trips and that today went alright Dippy.
Hope all of you have a lovely evening.xx

Evening girls, watch out for sexy Mamma Shabs, she's got a new hair do and looks the dogs !

Alisteal.......... cooooooooo eeeeeeeeeeee