My brother is 41 and dying of terminal cancer, he only has a few weeks left. I'm going to see him this weekend in the hospice to say goodbye. How do I do that? How do I live without him? I'm heartbroken. He's my whole childhood.
This is so surreal and incomprehensible.
I'm rambling but hope others may have been through similar with a sibling and can identify.
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My brother is dying
CloseYourMouthLynn · 15/06/2022 20:56
CloseYourMouthLynn · 27/06/2022 17:16
@FatArse123 thank you and Im very sorry for your loss too. Brothers are so precious, I wish I had told him I loved him every day. I'm grateful that I got to tell him how much I loved him and he said it back a week before he dies, before he could no longer speak and all I could do was feed him sips of water and sssh my 41 big brother like a baby.
I collapsed in tears on the kitchen floor earlier as a song came on the radio that was playing on the drive back home from the hospice after he had died. My 7 month year old son looked very confused. I don't feel like I'm parenting very well right now. I don't want to go anywhere or do anything. I feel so lonely even though I have lots of family and friends. I feel so overwhelmed by it. Thank you for your kind words. Talking about it is helping. I feel like sibling grief is very hard to understand unless you've been through it. I thought he would be in my life forever. X
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