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My baby girl died aged 19 hours

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itmsylifeitsnowornever · 08/02/2020 18:46

My beautiful baby girl was born at 35 weeks. She died aged 19 hours. I don't know how we get through this.

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Sexnotgender · 08/02/2020 20:32

I’m so sorry Flowers

SAMlady · 08/02/2020 20:32

So so very sorry Thanks

FizzyGreenWater · 08/02/2020 20:32

Oh I'm so sorry.

lovelovelove2 · 08/02/2020 20:34

I am so so sorry and I am sending you lots of love and prayers xxx

Spacecudet · 08/02/2020 20:34

So sorry for your loss x Flowers

Livingtothefull · 08/02/2020 20:34

I am so sorry. Thinking of you.

Drabarni · 08/02/2020 20:34

I am so so sorry for your loss. Eleanor is a beautiful name. Thanks

FeminismandWomensFights · 08/02/2020 20:35

I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope that SANDS can help to offer you some support, in time. Flowers

Clackyheels · 08/02/2020 20:37

My heart breaks for you. She will always be your daughter, Eleanor, who felt your unconditional love while you nurtured her, held her and forever. I'm so so so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

Wwwomble · 08/02/2020 20:38

So sorry for your loss. Thought are with you x

LisBethSalander07 · 08/02/2020 20:38

You'll get through this.

There is life on the other side. I promise. It's not the life you were expecting, and it's sometimes a life tinged with sadness for what you've lost, but it's a life nontheless. For today, just keep breathing. Even though every single breath feels like you've been winded.

Many others on here have walked in your shoes. You're not alone.

Flowers
countrygirl99 · 08/02/2020 20:38

I'm so sorry. I'm sure we all wish we could turn back time and change things for you but of course we can't. I hope you and your OH have real life support. Such a pretty name for your lovely girl.

vixb1 · 08/02/2020 20:38

I'm so so sorry. This is just heartbreaking. Wishing you all the strength you need to find a way forward. Sleep tight little Eleanor.

namechangenumber2 · 08/02/2020 20:39

I'm so sorry OP Sad

waterbottle12 · 08/02/2020 20:40

I'm so sorry Flowers

thoughts with you and Eleanor

Flibbitygibbit · 08/02/2020 20:42

So so sorry for your loss 😢

SirChing · 08/02/2020 20:43

Oh OP, I have followed your threads. I am so truly sorry for your loss and pain. It's so bloody unfair. Eleanor was and is lucky to have such a wonderful mummy. You will always be her mum and she will always be your daughter. I honestly don't know what to say that doesn't sound pathetically trite. It's ok to be numb, to shout, to be angry, to even feel nothing due to the numbness. However you feel and whatever you need to do, to get through this awful pain, you do it. Just minute by minute if needs be. Eleanor is a gorgeous name FlowersFlowers and Bear for Eleanor. Sleep well sweetheart xx

Jallebi · 08/02/2020 20:44

Flowers so sorry for your loss

BIWI · 08/02/2020 20:44

I'm so sorry Flowers

Eleanor is a beautiful name - and would have been the name we used if we had a little girl. (We had boys in the end).

I simply can't imagine how you and your partner must be feeling, and send you all good wishes and hugs.

22WR · 08/02/2020 20:44

So very sorry for your loss, thinking of you x

Kittypillar · 08/02/2020 20:45

I'm so so sorry for your loss Flowers

Landlubber2019 · 08/02/2020 20:46

What a beautiful name, I am deeply sorry for your loss.

What lisbeth has said is very true.one day at a time x

PerfectPretender · 08/02/2020 20:47

I'm very sorry for the loss of your little girl.

UpperLowercaseSymbolNumber · 08/02/2020 20:47

I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter Flowers

waterlego · 08/02/2020 20:48

My goodness, I’m so sorry for the unimaginable loss of your precious daughter. It sounds as though it has been a horrendous journey to this most awful of destinations.

I wish I could do something to take away your pain. I wish this hadn’t happened to you. Thinking of you, your loved ones, and of course of baby Eleanor. 💐

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