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A new thread for Stephen.

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Mhamai · 14/01/2007 13:03

Thankyou to all the lovely kind mumsnetter's who posted words and thoughts for myself and my daughter Sarah Jane 20. Sarah's dad committed suicide on Friday, she had only met him eight months ago. I was quite distraught and posted inappropriatly on the original thread. I asked MN HQ to delete it out of respect for my daughter. Please if anyone wishes to leave a message here for Sarah Jane and perhaphs say a prayer or light a candle for Stephen it would be greatly appreciated.

Many thanks
Sandra
Mhamai x

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PinkTulips · 14/01/2007 13:07

OMG mhamai.... i'm so very sorry

how is she holding up? how are you holding up for that matter?

i'll light a candle for him in Galway Cathedral when i'm in town tomorrow.

Our thoughts are with you and please e-mail me if you need to offload (scream, shout, whatever.... i'm here)

Love Dee, Sarah ande Caleb xxx

Greensleeves · 14/01/2007 13:14

I'm so sorry Mhamai

I'll light a candle now.

Mhamai · 14/01/2007 13:16

Thanks pinktulips, they accidently met each other eight months ago, there were problems rebulding their relationship but n othing we didn't think time would sort out. He had been off work the last couple off months, he also leaves behind a wife and ds 12 and dd 8.
Please keep them in your thoughts too. Thankyou again pinktulips x

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Mhamai · 14/01/2007 13:20

Thanks Greeny.

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WelshBoris · 14/01/2007 13:29

I'll say a prayer in Mass Mhamai for Sarah.

I'm so so sorry for her loss

Mhamai · 14/01/2007 13:42

Thanks WelshBoris.

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Mhamai · 15/01/2007 07:00

I am unashamedely bumping this thread, will you please think of my dd Sarah Jane today, her father took his life on Fri and his remains are being brought to the church this evening.

TIA
Mhamai

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Jelley · 15/01/2007 07:04

I will be thinking of Sarah (and you) today, Mhamai.

Mhamai · 15/01/2007 07:21

Thank you jelley.

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flamesparrow · 15/01/2007 07:27

Oh no I will be thinking of you

Mhamai · 15/01/2007 07:33

Flamey it's so unfair ffs he wasn't there, then he's back just to go as suddenly Why why why? sorry hun, not meaning to burden you and thank's for your message but fuK me if the bas8* wasn't alraedy dead I'd nearly have gladly done him for doing this to her!

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Mhamai · 15/01/2007 07:35

Sorry know that last post makes no sense.

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SpookyMadMummy · 15/01/2007 07:37

omg... have just seen this. I will be thinking of you both today Mhamai XXX

Mhamai · 15/01/2007 07:38

Ta Spooky x

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PinkTulips · 15/01/2007 10:25

{{{{hugs}}}} mhamai...... you've every right to feel like that

my thoughts are with Sarah today (and you and his family of course)

CheesyFeet · 15/01/2007 10:37

Thinking of you Mhamai, and Sarah Jane.

I wish you the strength you'll need to get through the coming days, weeks months and years.

You will have the support of each other, which is crucial.

Much love to you both. x

SaintGeorge · 15/01/2007 11:05

Only just seen this Mhamai.

Much love to you and Sarah Jane xx

Twiglett · 15/01/2007 11:15

so sorry xx

Fireflyfairy2 · 15/01/2007 11:18

Candle is lit mhami. Thinking of your beautiful dd. & your posts does make sense, would feel the same way myself. xxxx

VeniVidiVickiQV · 15/01/2007 18:58

Ah, just seen this too (posted on another thread).

So sorry to hear this mhamai

xxx

Carmenere · 15/01/2007 19:07

I too am very sorry to hear of your daughters fathers death Mhamai. I hope today is going ok and that his family are nice to your dd.

Saturn74 · 15/01/2007 19:08

Thinking of you both, Mhamai.

Skyler · 15/01/2007 19:12

So sorry to hear this. How sad.

Pinkchampagne · 15/01/2007 19:12

Thinking of you & Sarah Jane, Mhamai.xx

kittylette · 15/01/2007 19:13

awww how awful

you are all in my thoughts

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