my baby boy

[vickyd0]

my baby ben was taken away from me and his daddy , i was 35 weeks pregnant wen i went in to hospital thinking i was in labour n they told me they couldnt find a heartbeat had to go back three days later to have him and now i find my self soooo lost n empty and we have to arrange a funeral where do we start n how do we cremate our lil boy x

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Hi Vicky, I have been thinking about your and your Dh. How are you both coping?

yea were getting there just sorting out funeral xxx

thinking of you vickyd0 x

Oh I am so sorry to hear this :(

RIP Ben and lots of love to you and your family

thank you guys xx

I'm so sorry!!! We lost our 2 year old son on may 4 th and I to was dreading the funeral!! We also chose cremation!!! It's very hard!!! Didnt know if I would be able to cope but somehow we did! We chose some lovely songs tears in heaven, Eric Clapton. And also a song by Jon shmidt called the last lullaby Tomas song, it's on I tunes the album is winter serenade it's beautiful!!!!
Burying your baby will be the hardest thing you will ever do but keep strong!!!! Lots of love to you and your family!!!

Im thinking of you, its my babys funeral tomorrow, we chose cremation and bought a little urn to put the ashes in, we cant decide what we would like to do with them just yet, its seams to early.

My baby died at 36 weeks. We thought we were in labour to, we were but they couldnt find a heart beat, I was lucky in a way that I had my baby with in 4 hours of getting to the hospital. I couldnt have handled going home pregnant.

It will be five weeks on wedesday, its still hard every day. But the thread eveyone else has mentioned is a blessing.

I would say, do what you want to do dont be led by others into grief, You grieve in your own way. If you want to talk, talk. If you dont dont.

lots of love

Greenzebra, hope the funeral went ok!!! Was thinking about you!!! There's nothing else to say really!!! It's so hard to find the words!!! I know what you are going through!!! Even the the cercumstances are different it feels the same!!!!
Vicky, I hope you are ok!!!
Love to you all, and our little angels!!! Xx

awwww gingegirl thats sounds lovely the music we chose was mark waterman glory baby , gerrit hofsink still and faith hill it was a lovely service couldnt ask for nothin better for my lil man , i got his ashes at home with me its true wat u say it is to early as i dont know wat he liked and wat his fav place is. take care every 1 and gingegirl thank u xxx

We called Oliver little man!!! We had that engraved on the coffin, my husband read a poem called 'daddies little man' which was perfect!!! We are also having that on the head stone at the cemetery.
It's strange seeing someone else using the term, but it's such a sweet way to describe a baby boy!!!
How are you feeling vicky?

I'm so so sorry to read this. Wishing you all the strength that you need. I can't imagine the hell that you must be going through.

So sorry .

thanks wandering sheep x

God bless you Ben xxx