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Flying high enjoying their wings, Remembering our precious much loved children...

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CazandBelle · 21/11/2010 20:35

For my beautiful Anabelle Violet. Born an angel.

Mummy and Daddy miss and love you so much. Always. xxx

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shabbapinkfrog · 10/01/2011 22:36

Yes I knew my dates exactly....I had laser treatment for cervical cancer and they told me not to do rudities for 6 weeks because of risk of infection. When we worked out the dates I was already 10 days pregnant with Tom when they did the laser stuff. BUT because I was almost 41 they didn't even do a pregnancy test on me before they operated Shock So I chose to have an amnio and by the time my results had come back I was 20 weeks and had felt him move.

They kept scanning to query dates and saying he was small for MY dates....no matter how much I told them I only have small babies nobody listened. When he was born he had proper eyebrows and eyelashes (none of my other babies had) he had long nails that needed trimming and he looked like he had been in the bath for 20 days!!! He also didn't sleep after he was born for 12 hours ROFL!! That started a major sleep problem till he was 5 years old when he went through the night for the first time.

Oh yes.....me and the mighty Tomster have had a lot of fun over the years Confused

InnocentRedhead · 10/01/2011 23:26

Hey guys, thank you for the kind words! Yeah 16 was hard and i had to really grow up, i wouldn't have coped with my emotions if i hadn't matured. Dad didn't stay around, as soon as he heard i was PG he ran! But my parents were amazing and patient. Well i don't think i coped very well. It did send me off the rails slightly, i drank heavily, and took drugs, not proud of any of this, not to the extreme but these influences were in my life, they blocked out the pain. However i am through the other end a much stronger person and i am also quite ahead of my years. I work with some girls the same age as me and thats what they are, girls, i like to see myself as a woman

Then i met my kind patient DP who helped me through everything and let me talk, unload, cry, laugh, everything. I am so proud to call him my partner, the man who i am trying for a child with and also the man i am MARRYING on July24th!!! I'm only 19 now and i know many people will still see this as very young. But to me family is everything, i really have found the man who has it all and means the world!

Wow there is a lot to catch up on here for tonight.

PPM i hope you managed to enjoy your day in some way shape or form, I like you, because you like lists by the sounds, nowt better than a good list - Hope you got your hour of headspace x Well with your DS too, at least he ate, thats a good sign!

ilike, please just use your PG as an excuse, what is/was your craving? If you have one, have plenty of that - mine was cucumber and marmite together so at least when i ate lots of it, it was healthy. But eat lots of what you want, you probably wont have time to eat when lo comes along!! x

LF, i really hope it all sorts itself out for you in the end, all you have to do is keep going higher in the hierarchy, they will get the message, hope DH is being a massive help in annoying and bugging the bigwigs generally helping it along. STay as calm as you can, easier said than done. You are in my thoughts x

Minione - Thank you honey, knowing people are there even just to virtual hug is fantastic xx And there is nothing wrong with getting around 2 right on UniC, i see that as a sign of intelligence :o

Shabba, hope you had a good day, i really wanna catch the Wright stuff too, hope its on replay. One born every minute was tempting, but seeing as i am at work i cant watch it and i just could not bring myself to record it, whether that was someone saying to me that i dont want to watch it i dunno but we will see how i feel if i find it on catch up.

Caz, i really hope you get your BFP this month, me and DP are trying our hardest and it is really taking it's toll on me, i am impatient i suppose. Just keep at the SWI regularly, have fun, lie back and enjoy the ride it will happen (i can advise this but when it comes to listening to myself or someone saying it to me i just cannot believe) Fingers crossed you at leats get an indication of when you will OV

Sorry to everyone i have missed out, if anyone, and i hope you are all okay tonight.

Love and strength to all xxx

shabbapinkfrog · 11/01/2011 06:48

Morning girls xx

InnocentRedhead · 11/01/2011 07:10

Top o' the mornin to ya shabba, how are you? is this a good day for everyone? :)

Just re-read my post, rather long and boring natterings me thinks!

x

shabbapinkfrog · 11/01/2011 07:13

Im OK thanks love....Long and boring???? I dont think so Grin - you haven't seen my posts when I have had a few drinks. xx

InnocentRedhead · 11/01/2011 07:36

Haha! Well i can't even use that as my excuse. I can't remember the last time i had a drink :/ actually i do, i was pissed off at DP and thought it would be a good idea to drink a litre of martini to myself!

I need to get out more lol.

Shabba, just being onto your profile, the pictures of your children are all lovely, you have a gorgeous family! I'm going to have to get at least some form of picture on there soon of something

x

shabbapinkfrog · 11/01/2011 07:37

Thank you - they are not a bad bunch at all xxx

CazandBelle · 11/01/2011 09:00

morning all xx

struggling to wake up today!

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travellingwilbury · 11/01/2011 09:05

Good morning xx

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shabbapinkfrog · 11/01/2011 13:42

Oh yes a small cry on them can't hurt. The very best of luck to you my friend....everything crossed here for you....try to keep us updated if you can BUT I am sure we will all understand if you cant xxxxxxxxxx

hazygirl · 11/01/2011 13:46

afternoon girls, hope everyone ok, my eldest two granddaughters are off today with sickness bug ,nothing but bugs at the minute ,good start to new year .
ppm hope your ds is feeling a bit better ,big hugs to eveyone elsex

travellingwilbury · 11/01/2011 13:46

LF Good luck and I agree with Shabs a good cry on them is not a bad idea . Let them see you are not a faceless patient xx

hazygirl · 11/01/2011 13:47

lf,crossed post sorry love,big hugs and thinking of youxxx

CazandBelle · 11/01/2011 14:49

LF thinking of you. xxx

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 11/01/2011 14:54

Fingers crossed you are admitted LF, I'm thinking of you xxxx

peterpansmum · 11/01/2011 16:45

Good luck wishes winging their way to you LF

Have called the school and they have agreed DS1 can come back tomorrow (nt quite 48hrs but he's had no other bouts of sickness at all)... YAY!! He seems ok and i don't think mooching around house is gonna do him any good whatsoever!!

deemented · 11/01/2011 16:49

LF - thinking of you, sweetheart.

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 11/01/2011 16:57

Good news about ds PPM, do you think maybe the sickness was nerves or anxiety? I always used to feel a bit anxious after being off sick.

Minione · 11/01/2011 19:58

Fingers crossed for you LF, sending a big hug your way xx

Good news about your son PPM, glad he's on the mend!

Heliantha · 11/01/2011 20:05

LF - lots of love to you. Hope everything's going ok x

woollyjo · 11/01/2011 21:17

Hey LF thinking of you xxx

lavandes · 11/01/2011 22:20

Good luck LF sending love to you and your family from Cornwall xx

hope your little boy continues to get better PPM xx

InnocentRedhead · 11/01/2011 23:12

LF - my thoughts, prayers and best wishes (along with big hugs) are on their way over to you, fingers crossed. Keep us posted - we understand if this is not possible though :)

PPM - glad to hear about your son, maybe something he picked up rather than the D&V bug that is going round because that is just nasty!

Well here i am at work, with you until 8am, i stupidly agreed to do overtime tomorrow night too, in a moment of idiocy, however it means more MN time xx

shabbapinkfrog · 11/01/2011 23:26

What job do you do love? Dont worry if you dont want to say I am just a nosey pig Grin

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