I have a wonderful 15 month DD who is just starting to stamp her territory in our lives and although we aren't having too many tantrums (just a few little ones) I fear I may not be reacting in the best way to not encourage more ! I want to strike a balance between letting her grow, explore and define her own personality but understand 'NO' and some important boundaries. She has also just started having days where she just wants to be carried everywhere (very unusual for her !) and cries at everything. I'd like some guidance, so book recommends welcome. thanks