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Mumsnet behaviour-is it a police state?

499 replies

talktalk · 04/05/2006 14:18

Hello, I've been lurking on Mumsnet for some time now but finally decided to post having been horrified at the reception that some people have received.

I always assumed that, within reason, mumsnet would be a place for parents/carers to come and, mostly anonymously, discuss their concerns. Over the last few weeks I have seen some ghastly behaviour from mns against innocent posts.
Are some of you out there assuming the mantle of "mumsnet police" and if so should you not announce that fact?

Why are people so aggressive? I've researched some of the more aggressive posters and it seems that there is a pattern to their behaviour.
If you disagree with a post or challenge its viewpoint perhaps you should just make it known and move on-berating people for their view or concern seems wrong to me.

There are lovely people on mumsnet and its such a shame that there are others who seem to get too busy and bully people into submission when they don't agree with them Sad

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FrannyandZooey · 07/05/2006 16:47

Twiglett, I don't really know myself but everybody got VERY SHOUTY INDEED Shock

ggglimpopo · 07/05/2006 16:51

Bloody hell Grin

Baby modelling anyone?

HunKeRMunKeR · 07/05/2006 16:52

FMF, I hereby appoint you Chief MN Long Thread Summariser! That was marvellous!

Twiglett · 07/05/2006 16:53

oh what a fab precis fish o' the moon .. thank you kindly

ok .. here's my bit

it is a police state .. now fuck off

if you're still here .. welcome, you'll fit in

fullmoonfish · 07/05/2006 16:53

Cheers HM, don't mind if I do! (I used to do this for a living, only the material was never this interesting Wink)

desperateSCOUSEwife · 07/05/2006 16:54

Greensleeves are you a codette
effing brave to admit itGrin

fullmoonfish · 07/05/2006 16:55

Aw Twig, you totally out-edited me...rrespec'

sourtrout · 07/05/2006 17:03

if i stink of fish
am i a codette

ssd · 07/05/2006 17:19

Twig, I'm sitting here ploughing through this and enjoying it, but best of all I'm eating a packet of twiglets. 2 for 1 in Morrissons, taste great, not too fattening so you can have 2 packets at once (going off for the 2nd one now...)

ssd · 07/05/2006 17:29

wow, I've killed a riveting thread with the talk of eating twiglets....

yes, my Sunday is a bit boring today!1 Grin

Greensleeves · 07/05/2006 17:29

Well I don't stink of fish

not to my knowledge anyway Shock

fattiemumma · 07/05/2006 19:02

As its been decided its a police state....can we bail bovverboots NOT to return?

marthamoo · 07/05/2006 19:17

I wasn't going to post on this thread - though I have read the whole damn thing - but just wanted to reassure Pollyanna that I had no idea you say Fitty Cent instead of Fifty Cent either Grin

At least I knew he was part of a modern popular music ensemble.

fattiemumma · 07/05/2006 19:19

Actually i had no idea about 50 cent either....nor did my ultra hip younger sister thank god..i was beginning to feel very old indeed

Greensleeves · 07/05/2006 19:20

Can't believe this thread has 440 posts. What a petty bunch of tossers we are Grin

arfy · 07/05/2006 19:24

i didn't know about 50 cent either - but then have never had any reason to say it out loud anyhow
I did thoroughly enjoy TaiTai's tip to look up 'fuckwit' on Google though Grin

Pollyanna · 07/05/2006 19:27

apparently you can say Fiddy Cent too! I suspect I'm better off with Radio 4.

TaiTai · 07/05/2006 20:21

Can I just say - bovverboots, please do not (supposedly) stick up for me in any way ever again. Thank you.

sansouci · 07/05/2006 20:25

stop trying to get rid of bovver! no matter how much she gets on your tots! AngryGrin

PanicPants · 07/05/2006 20:26

It's taken me 20mins to read the posts since I last posted. Wink

Fitty cents? Nah, way to old for this now. How do you say Terry Wogan in popular culture then?

Caligula · 07/05/2006 20:30

Senora - true.

But better education alone was never the only part of the jigsaw. Broadly again (obviously with exceptions) working-class graduates have always earned less than middle class ones. This may of course be to do with the industry sectors they chose.

cod · 07/05/2006 20:31

PMSL about fifty cents
what a tosserish way to decide if omsoen is street or not
i find the suasage roll test is the best

tallmummy · 07/05/2006 20:32

Go on cod - what is the sausage roll test

niceglasses · 07/05/2006 20:33

the sausage roll think really gets on my tits actually....lazy labelling.

Dior · 07/05/2006 20:34

Well, I had heard of him, but didn't know how it was pronunced. Pmsl @ marthamoo, 'part of a modern popular music ensemble'...