Sexual behaviour towards another child need advice urgently

[Worriedmum34758]

My DS (5) has came to me with something very worrying. He had a few friends over to play and he said that a girl (4) had "licked ***'s winkie". Im not sure what to do about this without causing a fallout (the girls mum is a friend). I do realise something has to be done but im not sure what. Please give me your advice.

Just because you're obsessive doesn't mean you're not right.

Eleison - it's better not to report posts like that, it's far better for everyone to see what has been said by all parties otherwise it only gets rehashed anyway. Not to mention that no-one has posted anything worth running to MNHQ for...

TheLibster - no she wasn't, it was aimed at me (as well anyway) in reply to my comment I hope you read this thread again tomorrow and are suitably embarrassed at the way you have read things out of context and attacked people But yes, if MA thinks ^What we see here is bullying behaviour.
What we see here is someone cherrypicking the rules of MN to suit herself and simultaneously and sanctimoniously chiding others^ she must have been reading her own posts.

And LOL at the massive irony of calling me obsessive after I identified six posts from the same poster, all harping on about another thread, and a seventh post about a whole category of other threads.

[really wondering if this thread is an alternative universe I somehow wandered into emoticon]

REALLY - you're STILL going on about it!!!!!

It's getting rather silly now isn't it. 'get a life' springs to mind..........

Still going on about it much yourself?

anonm is quite right and I hope that if the OP is still around at all that she is taking notice of the voices of sanity on this thread, especially those who have actually had similar experiences.

scurryfunge Wed 24-Nov-10 14:08:45
thelibster, if you want to be totally honest, you waded in because of a previous thread. None of my posts have been rude, just stating fact and being blunt due to your apparent lack of knowledge.

Where do you get off second guessing what is in another person's mind. I have not mentioned any other thread and was not thinking about any other thread when I appeared here. I have told you what prompted me to wade in here and what you call blunt I would call dictatorial. I didn't like your tone and I thought it wasn't helpful. After your first reply to me I thought you were.. (no I'm never that rude). I couldn't even say now whether or not you were on the thread you are referring to. You are really not that important to me tbh. I take no notice of posters names if I personally think they are talking rubbish. I mean, I like MN and all that, but in the greater scheme of things it's really not that important to me.

Other posts - please please stop.

Worried - a similar situation for me - talked it through with a health visitor (it felt a bit less severe then social services etc) - they followed up. Long story - child abused etc etc So - I understand social services may seem a difficult step to take - health visitor or even the confidential child line may help you in your problem.

This is too important a query & I really thought you might be getting some helpful advice. Again - other posts - please please stop.