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Is this name too rare to be used?

119 replies

SilkyChocolate · 28/07/2026 20:01

I'm due in November with a girl, and I've really been liking the name Estée (pronounced ess-tay) after finding out that I had an ancestor called this. It's very simple and pretty to me. I think my DH is starting to come round to it too. Just wondering if I've gone mad.

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user293948849167 · 28/07/2026 21:44

I think it’s really pretty

Mumofgirls2017 · 28/07/2026 21:46

Estelle
Yes estee as a name is too cosmetic brand. Estelle is lovely!

Restcoz · 28/07/2026 21:52

60andcounting · 28/07/2026 20:14

It's a lovely name but I wouldn't say rare. I know of 4.. all in their 20s, 30s and 40s.

I’ve just checked, and it didn’t rank in the top almost 4,000 names of baby girls born in England and Wales in 2025. I’d consider it incredibly rare.

PetrolFrogs · 28/07/2026 22:31

Most people will know how to say it from the makeup brand. I don’t think it’s too unusual to use.

Firebird83 · 29/07/2026 00:00

I prefer Esther

JugBouquet · 29/07/2026 00:11

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 28/07/2026 21:17

Just make sure your daughter never wears a top with her name on it in capital letters. I saw a photo in which a group of teenage girls (a sports team?) had their names on the back of their hoodies, and were sitting with a mirror behind them. Poor Lana...

And in other things that never happened…

Viviennemary · 29/07/2026 00:12

Its ok. But it does remind me of the make up brand. Maybe Esther which is nice and Estee for short.

Workisntworking · 29/07/2026 00:25

I think its lovely. My first thought was that it was like Esmée, but prettier.

I dont know why so many are being sneery about it also be part if a makeup brand name.
Looking at my dressing table, that would slso rule out Charlotte, Liz, Terry and Laura.

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · 29/07/2026 00:33

Workisntworking · 29/07/2026 00:25

I think its lovely. My first thought was that it was like Esmée, but prettier.

I dont know why so many are being sneery about it also be part if a makeup brand name.
Looking at my dressing table, that would slso rule out Charlotte, Liz, Terry and Laura.

But those names are very common, whereas most people have only heard of one or two Esteés at most.

I love Estelle and Estella (and Esmé). I’d call her one of those and give her Esté as a nickname.

ClairDeLaLune · 29/07/2026 00:44

Estée Lauder. Sorry OP. Why not use the name Estelle or Estella instead?

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 29/07/2026 01:02

JugBouquet · 29/07/2026 00:11

And in other things that never happened…

I wish I could find the photo again and prove you wrong, but I saw it at least eight years ago and don’t dare search the combination of words that are most likely to find it. But it was from the days before AI, so likely to be “real” even if staged.

Morepositivemum · 29/07/2026 01:03

I’d think make up but also think it’s gorgeous and totally useable.

Pieceofpurplesky · 29/07/2026 01:19

It's a lovely name - yes older people will associate her with the cosmetic brand but her peers at primary won't know it! For me it's Aunt Estee but I doubt kids have read or watched the Testaments

Bravemama · 29/07/2026 01:26

French for Esther, meaning Star. Beautiful name, considering it for my daughter too ❤️
Best wishes for your pregnancy 💖

Imherearenti · 29/07/2026 01:33

In my accent, Estée sounds more like ezz-teh rather than ess-tay. Esmée also sounds more like ezz-meh rather than ess-may in my accent.

I could never use either name because they sound very unappealing when I say them, but I do love both of them.

sashh · 29/07/2026 04:15

cannynotsay · 28/07/2026 20:02

just makes me think of the make up brand

Which is also the name of the founder.

Actually the founder's real name was Josephine Esther. OP

What about Esther but using Estée as a diminutive?

SummerSummerSummertime · 29/07/2026 04:15

PoppieCock · 28/07/2026 20:04

That’s what I instantly thought of too

This

Mullaghanish · 29/07/2026 04:21

Estee Lauder I’m afraid, Estelle is better, with nickname Este or Elle, or Esme is close..

MinPinSins · 29/07/2026 04:38

It's a great name OP, and there's nothing wrong with sharing your name with a make up brand. People will come to know it as her name, which will dull the make up association.

discodoggy · 29/07/2026 05:29

Love it and was on my list by couldn’t get it past DH. I’ve also seen it spelt Este. If you wanted a longer name could use Esther

SummerSally · 29/07/2026 05:30

No accents! It’s a pain in the arse and she’ll be called Ess-tee not Ess-tay

What about Tessa? Similar and so cute

Tablesandchairs23 · 29/07/2026 05:34

Is your surname Lauder

onesinglepringle · 29/07/2026 05:38

It's lovely, OP.

I didn't think "Lauder" but I suppose a few people will mention that, so depends if that bothers you.

Bournetilly · 29/07/2026 05:47

I like it, I’ve met someone called Estée before and didn’t actually realise it was so rare. It’s similar to a lot of the E names which are popular, but also different.

CurlewKate · 29/07/2026 05:50

As a rule of thumb-I would avoid any name that means every time you say it in your own culture, several people will respond “I’m sorry-I didn’t catch that….”