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Is this name too rare to be used?

119 replies

SilkyChocolate · 28/07/2026 20:01

I'm due in November with a girl, and I've really been liking the name Estée (pronounced ess-tay) after finding out that I had an ancestor called this. It's very simple and pretty to me. I think my DH is starting to come round to it too. Just wondering if I've gone mad.

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BunnyLake · 28/07/2026 20:26

I’d probably call her Estelle or Estella. If you call her Estee her friends will probably just say Esther. Your choice of course.

Sunnyskies882 · 28/07/2026 20:33

I've only come across one and she'd be in her mid 20s by now. I think it's very pretty

Twoshoesnewshoes · 28/07/2026 20:33

I’m familiar with it, as a shortening for Esther.
i think it’s lovely and not too unusual.

Raquelos · 28/07/2026 20:43

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 28/07/2026 20:18

I would think of Haim, which is a very cool association! Though I think she spells it a bit differently.

Came here to say the same thing, a cool association for sure. Este Haim spells it without the second e or the accent, so you could consider that if you want to weaken the association with the make-up brand. I think it's a really pretty name

Likeiloveyou · 28/07/2026 20:48

It has a very strong association with Estee Lauder which makes it a bit like calling a baby Chanel.

I wouldn’t do it.

holachicatita · 28/07/2026 20:48

EssCarGo · 28/07/2026 20:21

I quite like it. It made me think of the Taylor Swift song that has the name in it.

Me too! We meet up every Tuesday night for dinner and a glass of wine!! Lovely name OP.

ColdLittleHeart · 28/07/2026 20:48

I’ve loved it ever since hearing the Taylor Swift song with the band Haim where it references the name. It’s the name of one of Haim’s members, although she spells it Este I think. A beautiful name!

ToastSafeFromMothsAndDogs · 28/07/2026 20:51

Name her Esther and call her Estée? That gives her options and a much less downmarket vibe than risking everyone thinking you named her after a brand.

Duvetdayneeded · 28/07/2026 20:53

A lifetime of make up jokes and ridicule

AliceMcK · 28/07/2026 20:55

I completely avoided the name Lenore because of the brand association. I was also mocked with Tui because of the brand but I know lots of Tui’s out of the UK.

i think the world is changing with mocking names, there are far more out there names than Estee, it’s very pretty.

lmnabc · 28/07/2026 20:55

Are you related to the Lauder dynasty? If not , just no

Shloopie · 28/07/2026 20:57

I quite like it.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 28/07/2026 21:01

You're submitting your child to a childhood of piss taking

"Maybe she's born with it"
"That's not even the same brand!"
"Doesn't matter, still funny"

And that's before they think of anything actually vaguely relevant.

I can't talk. I named my kid Lana. She made it till year 8 before the "anal" jokes started. Although, the McDonald's happy meal suggested her Superhero name was "Captain Anal" when she was 7. I tried so hard not to snigger. I failed.

Oceangrey · 28/07/2026 21:08

Pretty nickname for Esther, Haim, Make-up, in that order. I like it.

IStillHearTheWaves · 28/07/2026 21:10

ladycarlotta · 28/07/2026 20:23

It's pretty! My first thought seeing it on its own wasn't "... Lauder" either. But then I knew that was named after a person anyway.

The Mercedes in Mercedes-Benz was also named after a person, but people still associate that name with the car (at least in the UK where the name in uncommon).

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 28/07/2026 21:13

I see it as a name first and a brand second (the brand was named after the person), so I think it it's fine. it reminds me of Esmée/Esmé. However, judging by some of the other replies, it sounds as though Esther would be a safer bet for the birth certificate than Estée, which could be a nickname.

PrettyLittleRose · 28/07/2026 21:16

Videos · 28/07/2026 20:25

I'm absolutely amazed you know 4 people called Estee. Statistically that's incredibly impressive.

Yes, I have never met a single soul, ever, who has that name. I googled, and in the entire 2000s - (2000 to 2009) less than 90 babies were named Estée . In the whole of America.

And only about 100 babies were called Estée in the 1990s in America.

In the entire 1980s it was around 180. In the whole of America.

In the entire 1970s it was around 30 ... in America.


In the UK it was 3. For the whole of the noughties - 2000 to 2009.

In the UK it was 0. For the whole of the 1990s.

In the UK it was 0. For the whole of the 1980s.

In the UK it was 0. For the whole of the 1970s.

So I find it extraordinary that that poster knows so many of them!

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EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 28/07/2026 21:17

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 28/07/2026 21:01

You're submitting your child to a childhood of piss taking

"Maybe she's born with it"
"That's not even the same brand!"
"Doesn't matter, still funny"

And that's before they think of anything actually vaguely relevant.

I can't talk. I named my kid Lana. She made it till year 8 before the "anal" jokes started. Although, the McDonald's happy meal suggested her Superhero name was "Captain Anal" when she was 7. I tried so hard not to snigger. I failed.

Just make sure your daughter never wears a top with her name on it in capital letters. I saw a photo in which a group of teenage girls (a sports team?) had their names on the back of their hoodies, and were sitting with a mirror behind them. Poor Lana...

PrettyLittleRose · 28/07/2026 21:18

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 28/07/2026 21:17

Just make sure your daughter never wears a top with her name on it in capital letters. I saw a photo in which a group of teenage girls (a sports team?) had their names on the back of their hoodies, and were sitting with a mirror behind them. Poor Lana...

😂

Sorry, I shouldn't laugh! Blush

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Calliopespa · 28/07/2026 21:22

Likeiloveyou · 28/07/2026 20:48

It has a very strong association with Estee Lauder which makes it a bit like calling a baby Chanel.

I wouldn’t do it.

I think this too OP.

For me Estee Lauder was the immediate association.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 28/07/2026 21:25

PrettyLittleRose · 28/07/2026 21:18

😂

Sorry, I shouldn't laugh! Blush

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Edited

I really shouldn't either, but I'm gonna.

We watched The Oddysey last week, DD did Ancient History at A-level.

I mention Telemachus, DD corrects my pronunciation.
"God, you're so Lana. But backwards"
"Daaaaaaaadddd"

EssCarGo · 28/07/2026 21:25

BunnyLake · 28/07/2026 20:26

I’d probably call her Estelle or Estella. If you call her Estee her friends will probably just say Esther. Your choice of course.

Why would her friends make up a different name?

YouRemindMeOfAYoungerMe · 28/07/2026 21:25

I really like it. Makes me think of “No body no crime” (Taylor Swift/Haim) rather than Estée Lauder, but it’s a pretty name.

BlueCo · 28/07/2026 21:41

60andcounting · 28/07/2026 20:14

It's a lovely name but I wouldn't say rare. I know of 4.. all in their 20s, 30s and 40s.

But are their actual names Estee with the same pronunciation as the OP, or are their actual names Esther, Estelle, etc. with the nickname Estee pronounced es-tee?

I feel like having the name Estee on your birth certificate and pronouncing it like es-tay is rare (in the UK).

PrettyLittleRose · 28/07/2026 21:43

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 28/07/2026 21:25

I really shouldn't either, but I'm gonna.

We watched The Oddysey last week, DD did Ancient History at A-level.

I mention Telemachus, DD corrects my pronunciation.
"God, you're so Lana. But backwards"
"Daaaaaaaadddd"

😆