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Harris…for a girl?

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tiramisufiend · 15/11/2025 09:38

AIBU?

I misheard the name “Karis” a few weeks ago and thought, ‘Harris as a girl’s name, how cool.’

I’ve done some superficial research and it seems that Harris is mostly used a boy’s first name, if at all, as it is a surname, really.

But I think it’s very fresh and cosmopolitan, and I like the unisex vibe.

What comes to mind when you think of a girl called Harris? Thoughts welcome!

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FoxLoxInSox · 16/11/2025 08:54

Rolf

Laurmolonlabe · 16/11/2025 09:08

Sounds like a boy with a squint in the lower third at Mallory Towers- awful.

Needmorelego · 16/11/2025 10:18

Laurmolonlabe · 16/11/2025 09:08

Sounds like a boy with a squint in the lower third at Mallory Towers- awful.

Malory Towers is a girls school.
And they had a girl called Darrell 😂😂😂

BunnyLake · 16/11/2025 13:35

Calliopespa · 15/11/2025 21:38

Yup, Harris tweed for me too.

That would be funny if she married a Mr Tweed and took his name. Although it could be worse, I knew someone once whose wife’s first name was the same as his surname, so she ended up like Pat Pat or Taylor Taylor (the days when women always took the married name). So maybe Harris Harris.

Emanwenym · 16/11/2025 13:58

Needmorelego · 16/11/2025 10:18

Malory Towers is a girls school.
And they had a girl called Darrell 😂😂😂

Why is that so funny?

sidebirds · 16/11/2025 14:12

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LadyMonicaBaddingham · 16/11/2025 14:24

Carys is a beautiful Welsh name. Harris is a boy's name. Karis is a spelling mistake, in my opinion - and a hideous one at that.

Needmorelego · 16/11/2025 14:25

Emanwenym · 16/11/2025 13:58

Why is that so funny?

Because someone said that Harris sounded like "a boy at Malory Towers" and everyone saying that Harris is a "boys name" and you shouldn't give a girl that name.

Emanwenym · 16/11/2025 16:42

I still don't understand why you find Darrell so funny.
It's not a common name for men or women.

Needmorelego · 16/11/2025 16:46

Emanwenym · 16/11/2025 16:42

I still don't understand why you find Darrell so funny.
It's not a common name for men or women.

Have you read the Malory Towers books?
The point was people on this thread were saying you couldn't possibly give a girl a boys name (Harris)
Someone made a joke about a boy called Harris at "Malory Towers".
Malory Towers is a fictional book about a girls boarding school.
There is a fictional character called Darrell (a boys name).
The character of Darrell - despite her boys name turned out just fine.
That was the joke. If you've never read the books then it doesn't matter 🙂

Emanwenym · 16/11/2025 17:01

I read them as a child. Darrell is a surname. I didn't think it was a boy's name at the time. I still don't see any joke there. I just thought it was a bit different.
There were girls with names like Alex, Chris, Nicky, Lindsay, Lesley and Jackie at school. Should I have found their names hysterically funny?

I thought Alicia was a nice name but the character wasn't, and poor Gwendoline Mary was so dreary, and Billie was going to be the heroine because she was a tomboy. I thought the Wilhelmina a bit of a stretch.

Mumofteenandtween · 16/11/2025 17:05

Enid Blyton named Darrell Rivers after her husband whose name was Darrell Waters.

Needmorelego · 16/11/2025 17:13

@Emanwenym don't worry about the joke.
I was just making it because people seem to think that naming a girl Harris is the most bizarre thing you can do ever in the history of the universe - like no girl ever
has been given a "boys" name.
Harris is fine for a girl. Unusual - but perfectly fine.

Emanwenym · 16/11/2025 17:25

Enid Blyton's husband was Kenneth Fraser Darrell Waters. The Darrell was probably a family surname.

Harris has been used for a girl. Baby name explorer. Doesn't make it right.

Turnups · 16/11/2025 17:27

I’d think "Poor child, to have parents like that."

Needmorelego · 16/11/2025 17:30

@Emanwenym so do you think Enid Blyton shouldn't have named her character Darrell?
Because it's a surname and/or a boys name?

Emanwenym · 16/11/2025 17:32

@Needmorelego, Why do you ask that? I've not posted anything to suggest it.

Needmorelego · 16/11/2025 17:33

Emanwenym · 16/11/2025 17:32

@Needmorelego, Why do you ask that? I've not posted anything to suggest it.

It was a question.
Not a statement.
I was just curious.

eastegg · 16/11/2025 17:36

WarrenTofficier · 15/11/2025 10:21

Well first of all 'Arriet, 'Eather and 'Enry aren't rhyming slang for arse so it is less of an issue.
Secondly yes I did take into account that some accents pronounce certain sounds in ways that impact the whole sound of a name. I dropped Nathaniel/Nathan from my boy list because it would inevitably be pronounced Nayfun around here, which to me is a bad day out in Yorkshire rather than a name.

Love this reply 👏.

I felt similarly about Alexaaaarndra. Great name but that pronunciation, which is not how I would say it, would do my head in day in day out.

Emanwenym · 16/11/2025 17:51

I don't understand why you asked it. When I read the books, I didn't think anything of it.
Most of the names weren't ones I knew so it seemed no stranger than Alicia or Felicity.
It's not like she was called Harris Rivers.

(It was Bill not Billie. My mistake)

I remember being puzzled by the four Famous Five children being called Kirrin because they were related via Aunt Fanny IIRC. My cousins had different surnames to mine.

OSTMusTisNT · 16/11/2025 17:53

Good Scottish name but definitely for a boy.

Doggielovecharlotte · 16/11/2025 17:54

Don’t like it - too harsh for a girl

Needmorelego · 16/11/2025 18:02

@Emanwenym I was just curious that's all 🙂
The fact that you (and probably a zillion readers) didn't think there was anything unusual about the name Darrell shows that a girl called Harris probably wouldn't have other children thinking much about her name either.

Dinomum79 · 16/11/2025 18:12

Harris is a popular boys name in Scotland. I love it 🥰

DangerousAlchemy · 16/11/2025 18:18

allthegoodusernameshavegone · 15/11/2025 09:49

What a daft comment, they are not known unisex names.

Harris is not a unisex name 🤭

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