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Harris…for a girl?

313 replies

tiramisufiend · 15/11/2025 09:38

AIBU?

I misheard the name “Karis” a few weeks ago and thought, ‘Harris as a girl’s name, how cool.’

I’ve done some superficial research and it seems that Harris is mostly used a boy’s first name, if at all, as it is a surname, really.

But I think it’s very fresh and cosmopolitan, and I like the unisex vibe.

What comes to mind when you think of a girl called Harris? Thoughts welcome!

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FancyBiscuitsLevel · 15/11/2025 19:13

Interesting thought from this- can think of lots of woman/girls given a traditionally male name (the various James’, Harpers etc) but I can’t think of a single man/boy with a name that is traditionally female- with the exception of those who identify as a woman/girl.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 15/11/2025 19:13

Can you imagine the teasing?! Just no. The name you heard by the way was Charis. She was a nymph in Ancient Greek legend.

Seajaye · 15/11/2025 19:17

Rolf comes to mind.

Zanatdy · 15/11/2025 19:18

It was the name of my kids school (named after the carpet man). I do know a male Harris but for a female not a fan.

Itsthegingerone · 15/11/2025 19:20

Carys and Cerys are established, and normal, Welsh girls names! Cerys Matthews? And pretty sure Catherine zeta jones’ daughter is called Carys. Anyway I digress…. Actually no, call her Carys instead!!

JennyBG · 15/11/2025 19:21

Spelt the Welsh way, Carys means love ❤️ and is definitely a girls name. Catherine Zeta Jones’ daughter is called Carys. It’s a beautiful name, and certainly not made up.

RoamingToaster · 15/11/2025 19:22

I really dislike the trend of using Scottish boys names for girls.

Gentlydoesit2 · 15/11/2025 19:24

Nope

Skybluepinky · 15/11/2025 19:24

No just awful, use a proper name, kids don’t thank their parents for trying to be different especially when it’s a dreadful name like Harris.

Summerbean · 15/11/2025 19:25

OvenChick · 15/11/2025 09:42

Too close to arris I.e. arse

My initial thought. Next thought was carpet.

Emanwenym · 15/11/2025 19:28

@JennyBG Carys. It’s a beautiful name Not when you were at school with dozens of them it isn't.

tommyhoundmum · 15/11/2025 19:31

tiramisufiend · 15/11/2025 09:38

AIBU?

I misheard the name “Karis” a few weeks ago and thought, ‘Harris as a girl’s name, how cool.’

I’ve done some superficial research and it seems that Harris is mostly used a boy’s first name, if at all, as it is a surname, really.

But I think it’s very fresh and cosmopolitan, and I like the unisex vibe.

What comes to mind when you think of a girl called Harris? Thoughts welcome!

Tweed

TheNightingalesStarling · 15/11/2025 19:32

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 15/11/2025 19:13

Interesting thought from this- can think of lots of woman/girls given a traditionally male name (the various James’, Harpers etc) but I can’t think of a single man/boy with a name that is traditionally female- with the exception of those who identify as a woman/girl.

Alice Cooper?

But yes... he is pretty much the only one.

Fiddy1964 · 15/11/2025 19:32

Makes me firstly think of my great nephew called Harris.
Then I think of Americans using it as a girls name to try and be cool & quirky which will no doubt catch on.

HoppityBun · 15/11/2025 19:33

Tweed

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 15/11/2025 19:37

TheNightingalesStarling · 15/11/2025 19:32

Alice Cooper?

But yes... he is pretty much the only one.

His real name is Vincent.

drspouse · 15/11/2025 19:39

TheNightingalesStarling · 15/11/2025 09:46

Would you call a boy Katie or Elizabeth?

No, because names almost always move from boys to unisex to girls - once something is mostly associated with girls it becomes tainted for boys, as girl-associated things are low value and hence unmanly.
Evelyn, Marian for example.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 15/11/2025 19:42

RosesAndHellebores · 15/11/2025 09:40

Carpets.

Paint Brushes

SaltedPotato · 15/11/2025 19:43

OvenChick · 15/11/2025 09:42

Too close to arris I.e. arse

Agreed here. I thought about it as a boys name then realised.

XWKD · 15/11/2025 19:54

If she has a sister will you call her Glitter, or Savile, to go with (Rolf) Harris?

CluelessAboutBiology · 15/11/2025 19:54

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 15/11/2025 19:13

Interesting thought from this- can think of lots of woman/girls given a traditionally male name (the various James’, Harpers etc) but I can’t think of a single man/boy with a name that is traditionally female- with the exception of those who identify as a woman/girl.

Shirley Crabtree (Big Daddy)
Marion Morrison (John Wayne)
Tracy Marrow (Ice-T)

Ronathediva13 · 15/11/2025 19:57

It’s a surname. Poor kid. Carys is a lovely name.

itsnotfairisit · 15/11/2025 20:00

It’s the sort of name some Americans might like for their daughters. Using a family surname as a first name is quite common. I know a Reed for instance. It was her mother’s maiden name. I think that’s quite a nice thing to do, and in this instance feels like a nice name. Harris could be similar. But not randomly.

Themaghag · 15/11/2025 20:00

Needmorelego · 15/11/2025 12:08

What's wrong with that though?

Nothing if you don't mind sharing your name with a Middle Eastern spice!

stressycat · 15/11/2025 20:02

Someone mistook my name for Harris once and complemented me on it. That was in America though