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Jacob or Joel

54 replies

Foxtrotbeta · 25/09/2024 14:40

I think I slightly prefer Jacob but it's a lot more popular. So Joel would be a bit different...

Or any other suggestions?

We liked, but I think have ruled out Miles and Sebastian. Also considered Patrick and Jesse.

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discoballdave · 25/09/2024 14:45

I prefer Jacob.

Firsttimebabymummy · 25/09/2024 14:56

I prefer Jacob. Also really like Sebastian and Miles.

shoopshoopdedoo · 25/09/2024 15:12

I prefer Jacob.

But I like some of your other options better! Especially Patrick. But also Miles and Sebastian.

Moreteaandchocolate · 25/09/2024 15:16

Jacob is one of my favourite boys names, so that would be my choice. I do like Joel too though, and as you say, it’s much less commonly used, which is nice.

Newdaylucky · 25/09/2024 15:25

Jacob is a good name, but I prefer Joel because it’s more unusual.

AdaColeman · 25/09/2024 15:33

I like Joel best, but all of your names are very nice.

Sunnnybunny72 · 25/09/2024 15:44

Jacob

LauderSyme · 25/09/2024 15:45

I prefer Jacob but Joel is lovely too and, as you say, much less common. Patrick is a good name but I wouldn't name a boy Jesse, though I know people do.

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Lyle
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Emil
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peaceinourtime · 25/09/2024 16:25

Joel as they are tons of Jacob’s, it is a v popular name

FayCarew · 25/09/2024 17:17

I like both.
Jacob will probably be Jake.
Joel will get 'Joe?', Joe-ul, Jole and Jo-elle.

Sebastian will be Seb, Patrick Pat or Paddy, and Miles will get Myles.

beachcitygirl · 25/09/2024 17:17

Personally I hate the name Jacob, (hate all religious names)
Sebastian is lovely

FayCarew · 25/09/2024 17:22

@beachcitygirl , there's a Saint Sebastian and St Patrick.

A lot of names are religious. Do you hate all of them?

okydokethen · 25/09/2024 17:31

Joel is lovey as is Sebastian
Not as keen on Jacob
What about Joseph?

Beth216 · 25/09/2024 17:38

I don't like Joel but like the other choices.

BoleynMemories13 · 25/09/2024 19:46

Tough choice as I do really like Joel but it seems quite grown up. I can't imagine it on a baby (I know they won't be young forever though). Jacob seems to suit all ages and I do love it, but really dislike Jake which seems inevitable.

I prefer those two the the others on your list though. Personally I think I'd go for Joel. I'm sure if I knew a baby Joel it would suit him. It's just only ever knowing older ones which makes it feel odd on a newborn to me.

Justice4Friend · 25/09/2024 19:50

There was a character in the 90's in Neighbours called Joel. First time I heard that name, nice name.
Like Noel too - but Oasis has ruined that name.

Happiestwhen · 25/09/2024 20:10

Justice4Friend · 25/09/2024 19:50

There was a character in the 90's in Neighbours called Joel. First time I heard that name, nice name.
Like Noel too - but Oasis has ruined that name.

Joel from Neighbours is exactly who I thought of too, from what I remember he was dreamy with longish hair 😍 (must google him,lol) I like both names OP. Slightly prefer Jacob though.

aibutohavethisusername · 25/09/2024 20:45

Jacob

Button28384738 · 25/09/2024 20:55

Definitely Jacob

DAndreBarksdale · 25/09/2024 21:01

My nephew is Joel. Gorgeous name.

CabbagesAndCeilingWax · 25/09/2024 21:03

I'd also suggest Jonah.

AdventuresAwait · 25/09/2024 21:05

Love Joel!

ItalianChineseIndianMexican · 25/09/2024 21:06

Joel

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 25/09/2024 22:06

Jacob feels a touch more classic somehow (maybe because it is more popular) and I like that it’s got an obvious nn option if your DS wants it. It’s definitely the safer choice, although I don’t dislike Joel and it would be nice to see it used more often.

Maybe Jonathan? Uncommon now in the UK compared to other countries but it’s Biblical like many of your other picks, has the same ending as Sebastian and benefits from lots of shortenings so it’s kind of many names in one 🤣 (Jon, Jonny, Jonty , Nate, Nathan) so a safe option too.

Also sticking with my J theme🤣, I’ve always liked timeless Joseph and unusual Jared is quite nice too imo.

Mandarinaduck · 25/09/2024 22:31

I prefer Joel though both are nice.

Other suggestions:
Seth
Ezra
Jonas
Darius
Asher

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