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Shae for a girl?

114 replies

Samzzz · 01/03/2024 17:48

I just made a post for Shiloh but my partner has now thrown Shae into the mix. We like gender neutral names but I particularly like Shae for a girl. What are your thoughts? Also would you spell it Shae/Shea/Shay/Shaye?

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Thequeenofwishfulthinking · 02/03/2024 04:09

What about Stevie?

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 02/03/2024 05:00

I know a Shae- never even thought about GOT!

Mystro202 · 02/03/2024 05:20

My son is "Shay" , it's very popular here in Ireland for a boy. But I think it's lovely for a girl outside Ireland. Id go with "Shaye" for a girl 😊

TerfTalking · 02/03/2024 05:42

“What do you think of the name Shae?”

Another helpful poster offers Sibyl and Suzanne as alternatives. Like WTF 🤣

Tatonka · 02/03/2024 05:45

TerfTalking · 02/03/2024 05:42

“What do you think of the name Shae?”

Another helpful poster offers Sibyl and Suzanne as alternatives. Like WTF 🤣

😆

Mystro202 · 02/03/2024 05:58

TerfTalking · 02/03/2024 05:42

“What do you think of the name Shae?”

Another helpful poster offers Sibyl and Suzanne as alternatives. Like WTF 🤣

Omg some absolute nutjobs on here 🤣

KirstenBlest · 02/03/2024 06:43

How about Shaedeigh?

Samzzz · 02/03/2024 07:57

Bluewallss · 02/03/2024 00:37

It’s beautiful. I prefer the Shay spelling.

Also word of advice, don’t ask for comments about names on mumsnet that aren’t biblical or royal. You will just get torn down 🤣

I appreciate all the comments and opinions but have come to realise if it’s not Arabella, Charlotte or Chloe then it’s most likely not getting the best response 😂

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OldBeyondMyYears · 02/03/2024 08:23

OP it's really nothing to do with 'not being Arabella..' etc.

Your child, your choice of name...of course...but you specifically asked for opinions, and that's what you got 🤷‍♀️

My opinion is that it's not a very nice name for a child...but it doesn't matter what I think, if you love it, crack on!

pinkpale · 02/03/2024 08:29

Very pretty name OP

everythinglooksbetterpaintedblack · 02/03/2024 08:51

Op there are plenty of unisex names that are better than that ...
Avery
Alex
Briar
Charlie
Drew
Ellis
Elliott
Frankie
Jules
Kit
Noah/ Noa
Quinn
Remi
Robyn/Robin
Stevie

fixies · 02/03/2024 10:23

Shae is a lovely, gender neutral name.

buzzlightyearsaway · 02/03/2024 10:24

It's just a sound. Not a name

TheOriginalEmu · 02/03/2024 12:39

Isthisreasonable · 01/03/2024 23:47

You'd be condemning your child to a lifetime of endlessly having to spell out their name to people.

Would you say the same for Catherine or Juliet? I have a top 10 name and I still have to spell it because there are variants. .

TheOriginalEmu · 02/03/2024 12:40

OldBeyondMyYears · 02/03/2024 08:23

OP it's really nothing to do with 'not being Arabella..' etc.

Your child, your choice of name...of course...but you specifically asked for opinions, and that's what you got 🤷‍♀️

My opinion is that it's not a very nice name for a child...but it doesn't matter what I think, if you love it, crack on!

Of course it is. There is a great deal of rudeness and snobbishness on mumsnet.

TheOriginalEmu · 02/03/2024 12:41

buzzlightyearsaway · 02/03/2024 10:24

It's just a sound. Not a name

So May and Ray and Fay and Gay are names but Shea is a ‘sound’?

KirstenBlest · 02/03/2024 12:44

everythinglooksbetterpaintedblack · 02/03/2024 08:51

Op there are plenty of unisex names that are better than that ...
Avery
Alex
Briar
Charlie
Drew
Ellis
Elliott
Frankie
Jules
Kit
Noah/ Noa
Quinn
Remi
Robyn/Robin
Stevie

Many of those aren't unisex.

boysmuminherts · 02/03/2024 12:45

In my mind they're both horrid names sorry. I might just be in a different culture though.

everythinglooksbetterpaintedblack · 02/03/2024 14:01

@KirstenBlest well somebody needs to come and tell the children's parents in the school I work in.

KirstenBlest · 02/03/2024 14:02

OK. My name sometimes is assumed to be a man's (it shouldn't as it's definitely not a male name or an Alex or Chris sort of name) and I don't find it helpful.

Gooseysgirl · 02/03/2024 14:20

I think it's lovely! Rio and Kate Ferdinand's baby girl has the same name, can't remember how they spell it though.

defi · 02/03/2024 14:31

Of course it is. There is a great deal of rudeness and snobbishness on mumsnet.

Plus racism and xenophobia. They hate anything different from middle class white English.

Viviennemary · 02/03/2024 14:33

Is it even a name. Another daft name. Just why?

Deadringer · 02/03/2024 14:41

Lots of people have said Shay/Shae is a name, and they know people called it, so why the faux confusion from pp?

oakleaffy · 02/03/2024 14:45

Grain Shilo Nuclear Shiloh-l