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Shae for a girl?

114 replies

Samzzz · 01/03/2024 17:48

I just made a post for Shiloh but my partner has now thrown Shae into the mix. We like gender neutral names but I particularly like Shae for a girl. What are your thoughts? Also would you spell it Shae/Shea/Shay/Shaye?

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TheBirdintheCave · 01/03/2024 18:44

@defi You're thinking of Shea which is either a surname (as in O'Shea) or an Anglicised short form of the male names Seamus or Seaghdha.

Wafflethewonderdoggy · 01/03/2024 18:47

It’s a no from me.
reminds me of ‘Shar’ short for Charlotte or “kell” short for Kelly.
but the important thing is you like it.

MagratsDanglyCharms21 · 01/03/2024 18:51

I prefer Shayla myself..

Muddywoof · 01/03/2024 18:58

I live near the Shay stadium so it's an odd name to me for a person. I don't dislike it though.

NewName24 · 01/03/2024 19:01

No

Dominoeffecter · 01/03/2024 19:04

What about Raye

FasterthanaButteredOtter · 01/03/2024 19:36

Shay is a boys name

Shea is a moisturising butter

Shae is a bit shite. Poor kid.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 01/03/2024 19:40

The only Shae I've heard of is the prostitute in Game of Thrones.

Fuckitydoodah · 01/03/2024 19:45

Rio Ferdinand and his wife's youngest child is called Shae (a girl).

I don't hate, but I don't love it either. I think there's much nicer girls names out there.

What about Chaya? Pronounced Chi-ah. I know a lady called this, she was born in Mauritius.

NoCloudsAllowed · 01/03/2024 19:51

Wafflethewonderdoggy · 01/03/2024 18:47

It’s a no from me.
reminds me of ‘Shar’ short for Charlotte or “kell” short for Kelly.
but the important thing is you like it.

No, the important thing is whether it's a dignified and suitable name for someone to go through life with.

And you wouldn't call a child kell or char either, would you?

coxesorangepippin · 01/03/2024 19:53

It's just a bit try hard

defi · 01/03/2024 20:13

defi You're thinking of Shea which is either a surname (as in O'Shea) or an Anglicised short form of the male names Seamus or Seaghdha.

^ no I'm thinking of shay/shae it's an Irish first name.

defi · 01/03/2024 20:14

No, the important thing is whether it's a dignified and suitable name for someone to go through life with.

And you wouldn't call a child kell or char either, would you?

^ it's a real name just not an English name

Scrumbleton · 01/03/2024 20:36

i quite like it - i have a cousin whose daughter is called shay

everythinglooksbetterpaintedblack · 01/03/2024 20:47

It's the prostitutes name in GOT
Please don't.

Whu · 01/03/2024 20:48

I know a Shaylea (shay-lee) nn Shay.

Grumpsy · 01/03/2024 20:49

Another who’s first thought was the prostitute in Game of Thrones

Lilysienna1 · 01/03/2024 21:26

My daughter has a friend named Shayla. It’s not to my taste but could be an option for you? Or perhaps Shae as a middle name? Other names you might like: Rae, Beau, Jay, Kay / Kayla, Robyn, Billie.

theduchessofspork · 01/03/2024 22:59

Shea butter or the hooker on GOT so no from me

theduchessofspork · 01/03/2024 23:00

coxesorangepippin · 01/03/2024 19:53

It's just a bit try hard

I think it’s not trying hard enough..

user1492757084 · 01/03/2024 23:31

Other nicer S names ..

Sibyl
Sabine
Suzanne
Sistine
Sarah
Sophie
Saoirse
Serena

Wrongsideofpennines · 01/03/2024 23:35

There's a female Shay at one of the toddler groups I go to. She'd about 2 maybe. I also know a dog called Che pronounced the same way. The problem is I just think of Che Geuvara.

rileyy · 01/03/2024 23:43

Samzzz · 01/03/2024 17:48

I just made a post for Shiloh but my partner has now thrown Shae into the mix. We like gender neutral names but I particularly like Shae for a girl. What are your thoughts? Also would you spell it Shae/Shea/Shay/Shaye?

I live a gender neutral name but Shae would 100% be counted as a “bogan” name in Australia…I wouldn’t do it. Shiloh is a bit better. What about Rowan or Quinn? Not for everyone but I like them for a girl.

rileyy · 01/03/2024 23:43

rileyy · 01/03/2024 23:43

I live a gender neutral name but Shae would 100% be counted as a “bogan” name in Australia…I wouldn’t do it. Shiloh is a bit better. What about Rowan or Quinn? Not for everyone but I like them for a girl.

I love* 🤦‍♀️

FluffyToesMeow · 01/03/2024 23:44

Why?

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